If you find out that your girlfriend/ boyfriend were cheating on you, what's the first thing you gonna do?

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Cheerfull009 · Accepted Answer

First I will investigate, if my partner is found cheating on me, I will kick her ass and will leave for ever

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i honestly don't really know , its one of those things and depends if you see a future with them or not

Guy13 · Answer

Let it go and watch without “awareness”, gather data, confront, opportunity to come clean….

If lie then official email/text says no “trespassing on my property. Sign in yard, bounce any of her 💩 in my house out in the front sidewalk…maybe boxed. Courtesy pics sent… 📦 📦 📦📦

Change locks, move one the party frigs in front of screened door, add two more security elements for sliding door. Ring cameras on front, side, and porch door.

Sound like I’ve been down this road?

Pinay_ako · Answer

Find out the truth with hard evidence and confront them with the truth. The truth will set me free. No second chances

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Get everything I own from our place and if it was his place I'd get the fuck out, leave the keys. If it was my place, I'd put all of his shit out of the house and change the locks, all without a word. I'm not going to deal with the whole argument of "It's not my fault" or "I was weak, I'm sorry" or "I was drunk/high" or something like that. I don't want to hear excuses and if they're going to cheat on me, it's not going to be a question of if we continue the relationship or not, I would lose all affection and love I have for them if they broke my trust that way. There would be no announcement, just leaving it.

JDAC092299 · Answer

I have a mental issue that makes me feel numb whenever I feel someone is trying to hurt me emotionally or betray me so the first thing I’d do is disconnect from them emotionally instantly, then I’d pack my things bit by bit and wait for them to tell me a truth or a lie as to why our relationship isn’t working and then I’d leave to my pre-planed destination just like I did last time

Miristheiss · Answer

Regardless, I'd dump them and cut them out of my life and never see or speak to them again.

"FIRST" thing?

I'm not sure how it would play out. I guess the cheating scenario itself would have a roll in what happens.

Would I confront her? Tell her off? Ghost her and just disappear? The exact situation of what she was doing would play a role.

ElianaS · Answer

I would try to find out more and if it’s true I would talk to my partner about it and why they did it. If they still want to continue the relationship they had with me I would probably forgive them but if it was 3rd or 4th time cheating, i don’t think I would forgive and I would just leave and let go.

Anonymous · Answer

Just leave them and being thankful I found out. At the end if someone does something like that it's actually kinda like a blessing, because you're not spending more time with someone that's not really for you as you thought, and same for them. When two people definitely don't fit together they should leave instead of keeping trying and stopping each other from finding a new love.

georgie123 · Answer

Confront them. Though if she really likes me but it was sexual persay and or educational I would love to have an opportunity to play with penises together. Though it doesn't arouse me and I am straight. I want to understand female penis preference and would love to give handjobs, blowjobs and toejobs with or for her and allow insertion in back and front and screwing me in my ass and foreskin and or dock to me and my foreskin is forced over his penis and my foreskin is used just to masturbate him until it's ballooned with his sperm. I would love to have her pull my pink panties aside putting the penis inside me and make love to me and or her to play with my foreskin. I would want to lick her while a penis is in her and pull it out and suck on it and eat her vagina and all the sperm. I would encourage her having penises and I only her.

Anonymous · Answer

Firstly stop and think, change all passwords to any accounts they have had access, and put a lock on your credit, police your apartment/flat/house of any of your boyfriend/girlfriend property, pack it neatly into boxes.
Once you’ve done that, that is when you break up with the boyfriend/girlfriend, arrange for someone to pick up their property, then you close all avenues of contact block social media, text, phone etc.

Jazquee · Answer

Tell him to get the fuck out... I'm not wasting my time with games and vendettas.  Get the fuck out... bye bye lol

EmmaMary · Answer

Immediately Say Goodbye ... Period .

Nikki1989 · Answer

Say goodbye and move on with my life. It is not the end of the world.

Nivinxus · Answer

Pretty much just dump them. Explain/prove situation to mutual friends because you need to protect your integrity as well.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I actually allow for a little leeway in a relationship for this. I wouldn't do anything as it really isn't a biggie to me

FunkyMonkee · Answer

The first thing I gonna do is drop the skanky bitch like a hot brick!!

Anonymous · Answer

Break up. Once a cheater always a cheater. No second chances as I value myself more than being cheated on

SoJust · Answer

I am fan face to face meetings, you can't be a lover from the Internet.

poneglyphs · Answer

Just stop talking to them 😒 ad go out with my friends

tinydiva1991 · Answer

Id hit up my exes and fuck one of them for revenge !

LiamJHayden · Answer

Leave. Thankfully I am wise enough to never live together so it makes it easier.

Anonymous · Answer

Learn to accept the reality. Then wait for the opportunity to end the relationship.

magiusX26 · Answer

pack her shit and get her transport far away (her parents maybe) from me and mine.

Anonymous · Answer

I am a man. Men are second class citizens. So I can't do anything about it.

Pinz89 · Answer

Um, leave and never speak to them again?

SnowedIn · Answer

Make a cup of coffee. Pet the cat.

RavVid · Answer

Dump them without a word.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Kick them out of my life.

BrookeS · Answer

Ask to join them

Luopio27 · Answer

Get upset, call my friends and chill.

Finchie40 · Answer

Call them a whore and move on

FreyaRed · Answer

Depends who owns the flat or house.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

End the relationship.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Break up with her

Guanfei · Answer

Leave, and never talk to her ever again.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Sleep with her mom 😳

Anonymous · Answer

Dump her and find a better woman.

fonduegirl · Answer

Kick them.

Agape93 · Answer

Get us tested.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Post it on social media? :D

Anonymous · Answer

Dump their ass and move on..

exitseven · Answer

dump them.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Dump her.

Anonymous · Answer

Kill and bury both of them

Kelly6 · Answer

Talk to them

msc545 · Answer

break up with her

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Dump her.

Anonymous · Answer

Track their phone

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