Is this a red flag or not?

[Anonymous]

I have 3 sisters and my boyfriend wants to know how they look like. He keeps asking for some pictures.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the context and the way your boyfriend is asking for pictures of your sisters. If he's simply curious about your family and wants to see some pictures of your sisters in a respectful and appropriate way, then it may not necessarily be a red flag.

However, if he's asking for explicit or inappropriate pictures of your sisters, or if he's making you feel uncomfortable or pressured to share these pictures, then it could be a red flag for potential boundary violations or inappropriate behavior.

It's important to trust your instincts and to communicate your concerns with your boyfriend. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about his requests, it's okay to set boundaries and to communicate your expectations for respectful and appropriate behavior in the relationship. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects your boundaries and treats you with kindness and respect.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that is creepy.

[tonamimargaux]

Yeah it is a red flag

[najekim]

Yup, IMHO.