Remaining single and celibate?

[cth2188]

I have men approach me , but I'm not interested in dating due to feminism and toxic masculinity/ feminity issues that would affect the dating world. I'm open to friendship, but most of the men approaching me can't handle that title. I don't believe in fornicating.. most of the guys approaching me want sex and I'm not interested in that. Due to the time and seasons we're in I have told the most high too keep me single based on the mindset of many and the hookup culture aswell as beliefs.

Do most men like friendship? I mean you're not seeking marriage or anything why expect sex? It's outside of divine order for me and the commitment I have in place with God

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I'm sorry in this season and perilous times I'll just remain single - I'll stay married to God

[Anonymous]

It's completely valid and understandable to choose to remain single and celibate due to personal beliefs and values. It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and not feel pressured to engage in activities that don't align with your beliefs.

In terms of men seeking friendship, it really depends on the individual. Some men may be open to a platonic friendship, while others may be more focused on pursuing a romantic or sexual relationship. It's important to communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly, and to be selective about who you choose to engage with.

Remember that you have the right to prioritize your own values and beliefs, and to seek out relationships or connections that align with those values. It may take some time and effort to find like-minded individuals, but it's important to stay true to yourself and not compromise your beliefs for the sake of others.

[Guy13]

Is this virginity or celibacy. there is a difference.

[cth2188]

Virginity and celibacy are the same when it comes to outcomes

[Guy13]

Your heart is dead if you know not the difference. You figure that out and perhaps this is the first step to a successfully working relationship.

[cth2188]

My heart isn't dead many people are celibate due to religious reasons just like virginity- many people are abstinence due to religious beliefs

[cth2188]

First I have to find a partner whose suitable for a relationship in this season

[Truthatanycost]

From a mans point of view (a good man looking for a partner), the difference is like night and day!

[Guy13]

Your heart is wrong and all can see, except you as you are stuck in a Self-narcissism unable to reconcile these two worlds and your Actions of yesteryear (15-25) and these years (25-35). I do not know you and I can see through both emotional and reality Smoke screen.

Men are not stupid but easy to ignore, displace (to her), and appropriately file her into irreconcilable Damaged.

[cth2188]

Damages no - choosing tonbe single and celibate yes duet to religious beliefs and calling. I don't want anything to do with the dating world of today - these silly movements western society has created. Even more so no where humanity is and how people don't follow God's laws or traditional concepts. I don't deal with modern men.

[cth2188]

I've been married before and would not remarry again due to the mindsets of many and the facts many want to do what they want to do- many men don't even follow God or the Bible ( same for women). I try to live a righteous and holy life

[cth2188]

I asked God too keep me single in this season due to these things- humanity is over as were in end time activity

[cth2188]

Many want to life life normally here to burst your bubbles 🫧 normal is not here to stay or come back after a pandemic

[cth2188]

Idc about a relationship anymore and what's going on in these times were in anyways

[Rudon00]

Grooming Friendship is much important than grooming a lover. Friendships are cultivate with virtues and values that are unconditional but a lover loves based on desires.

Being single is being uncommon (Unique) to the fashions of society while having a healthy concepts of who you are individually. It prepares you for the ideal of a potential relationship when you have become mature and ready to date.

[cth2188]

Dating isn't worth the squeeze anymore plus a lot of stds out there

[Rudon00]

I will DM you later okay.

Yes it is Cth2188. I once felt that way. Many times I would pray and to no Avail. But I'm still hoping and trusting that God will bring the right female across my path. Because I don't want to live single for the remaining of my life. I want a female partner I can share life goals, memories and become the best version of me.

So Cth2188Dont give up. Please.

I will DM you later.

[cth2188]

Its not that , but ok

[Rudon00]

What's Wrong cth2188?

[cth2188]

Too many people are vaccinated and I don't date anyone who is - RED FLAG ❌️🚩

[cth2188]

I rather be single

[Rudon00]

So if the lord had bring us across each other paths. You will not want to date me because I'm vaccinated.

[cth2188]

Correct

[cth2188]

God's orders not mines- my mate would have to be unvaccinated like myself- not many men aren't

[Rudon00]

I tell myself that many years. And it was the greatest lie I was telling myself. I was happy and content being single but I was not fulfil (Complete) as a male being single.

[cth2188]

Not many people aren't which is even sadder

[cth2188]

I have to do what God wants me to do

[Truthatanycost]

There was this couple around here. Both of them were 'vaccinated' and they had a baby. The kid at 2 years old looks like a 4 year old. Instead of speaking a few words, the kid is speaking near full sentences. It is faster, taller and bigger than other kids it's own age and has a set of full teeth already. It also had long legs. This is not the first kid from 'vaccinated' parents I've seen and all of them exhibit these 'features'. It always makes me think of Nephilim in the Bible... and people are still calling it a 'vaccine', still getting booster shots and still not seeing the truth!

[cth2188]

Yes they're creating hybrids/ giants from the jabbed- the most has me on assignment love isn't on my radar

[Truthatanycost]

It's possible to find a compatible partner that isn't 'vaccinated', through God. I know only 2 guys that are 'unvacinated'.

[cth2188]

If God sends him I asked God not too extremely perilous times- my mate maybe overseas I don't know

[serious]

Well it is your life and it is your choice. If that is what you want to do you should by all means do it.

[CptSimonRiley]

It's hard to be a person with proper character.

[LimitedBenefits101]

That's the best way to go.

Saves you time and money.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Oh and I dont believe in men and women friendship unless the guy is GAY

[cth2188]

I may have to find women friends because I don't want anything more than that

[DudeDiligence]

Don't be sorry. That's fine.