How easy is it for you to be celibate while not in a relationship?

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EricSummer · Accepted Answer

This comes completely naturally to me. When I'm not in a relationship no woman even offers sex to me, except commercially.

Luckily, I've always found a girlfriend or wife after a while so I was not in this unfortunate situation for long.

I think it's the sad reality of being single as a man. For many of us that really means no sex.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Women are going to lie... being single doesn't mean she's been fucking at least 3 times a month with randoms.  Men... yeah that shit is hard, there is only one way to get it soft.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I don’t struggle to be celibate. I won’t date guys that try to approach me in a sexual way either. He has to talk to me like I’m a teddy bear and not like I’m a back scratcher.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Right now , very easy. Men have used me for sex and I’m over it.

AviatorTom · Answer

If by celibate, you mean no sex with others, it's very easy if I'm not in a relatonship... but I might use my right hand... occasionally.

Billlewis · Answer

I'm permanently celibate, whether I'm in a relationship or not, and I'm happier than I've ever been in my life. Not getting any pussy makes me so incredibly sweet, attentive and generous, so I hope every woman I serve continues to keep me this way.

berisky23 · Answer

I think a lot easier than if I was in a relationship. When single you can focus on building yourself, in your own space.
In a relationship, it becomes more intense.

I get it if your going out partying and in your feels, but if your just doing you, I feel it could be pretty easy?

Fireguy17 · Answer

it is a personal choice, so if it is important to you then it is an easy choice to make.
Some like the closeness that being in a relationship brings, some just like to just have sex.
Everyone is different, there is no right or wrong, so do what makes you happy with yourself.
The right person will understand and honor your wishes.

ImHere22 · Answer

Easy. Just don't pull your dick or pussy out. If someone propositions you, say no, and sprint in the other direction. That should teach them to try hooking up with you.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Been that way for 3 months now and tbh it's no big deal. I've gone 8 months or more before. I am a busy body, so it really doesn't come to mind that often.

Lliam · Answer

I don't like it. I don't like hook ups. I prefer exclusive relationships. But when I'm not in one, I want to be in one. I have to release my sexual tension with masturbation.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I was celibate for the last three years of my last relationship. I see no reason for that to continue now.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Not like I have a choice.  I was never the random hookup type. That would require me to actually talk to people. No thanks

Meropatrick · Answer

Fucking easy as long as i have my right hand i dont need anybody😂 I am really independent as long as i have my health and job I need no one

DizzyDesii · Answer

Extremely easy. Even when in one, I have pretty good self control. I try to date dudes who are on the same page so that we’re not as tempted

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I try not to think about that or it will turn me crazy. That’s why I work 3 jobs

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never stayed single for long, so it has never been an issue.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Easy. Finding a partner, even for a fling or a hookup is a lot of work and I’m already working 7 days a week.

slatyb · Answer

What do you mean by celibate? If I don't have a partner, then I take care of myself.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Very easy. I have no interest in hooking up.

bananathunder · Answer

pretty hard... Probably have more sex when single lol

Luckycharms12 · Answer

It's hard probably dont after few weeks need it badly and get it

KatherineJ · Answer

I didn’t have any problems with it when I was single.

Andres77 · Answer

Can I still masturbate? then I’m good.

ArabellaLady07 · Answer

I am a convinced celibate person. I feel better like this. I don't need any donkeys in my house. Sorry for my language!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

With God's help I can maintain well because I do it through His Spirit, otherwise it's virtually impossible to maintain myself celibate.

Raaj4you · Answer

It's bit easy to maintain celibacy when I am single. If I get into relationship then it'll be not easy for me. I have high sex drive.

HaveNoName · Answer

Consider it as one major sin and it will become easy. It is in all religions' commandments.

Anonymous · Answer

Very easy, I can be celibate for years between relationships. The last period has been 15 years and counting.

Guanfei · Answer

Very easy since no one wants me, I don't have any other choice.

sureitis · Answer

fairly easy but this would also depend on who i was around

BLP11520 · Answer

Well there is a lot of masturbation going on males and females

Alex8736 · Answer

Is friends with benefits considered not being in a relationship?

Anonymous · Answer

Like what is my other option? 😆😆😆 pretty easy.

monghjay2 · Answer

not that hard as long as you had plenty of sex before hand

MementoMori777 · Answer

very easy, you focus on yourself and you chillin

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

Extremely easy.

Reddy4it · Answer

It’s not easy…I like sex too much…

mandyfire98 · Answer

It's hard 😂

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ve already done it not a problem

shades777 · Answer

rather pointless and selfish deed

Pohjolan · Answer

That requires like 0 effort so very easy.

OG956 · Answer

Easy, since I'm ace :)

Simslover92 · Answer

Super easy.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Very easy.

sheenagwapa · Answer

easy DIY

OddBeMe · Answer

Not in my vocab.

dudeinohio · Answer

Pretty easy

EaterPeter · Answer

Not easy either way.

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