Enjoying my life single and celibate?

[Anonymous]

I'm constantly telling me I don't want to date anymore.. I've been single by choice and celibate over 5 years and I have no desire to date anymore or invest in anymore relationships with men. When I friend zone men they don't understand that part they automatically assume friends with benefits now its too the point I don't want to talk to men the constant need to mention sex is mention or some form of disrespect. I simply don't have the energy anymore for men.. even trying to come back out into the dating world. Have I given up finding a mate yes and realizing I'm happier single due to beliefs and core values because trying to finding the right person will be hard. I simply don't trust men.. don't hate them , but after constant negative experiences this is where I'm at. One thing is for sure I don't have to get a std, be disrespected , or absued ( Noticing how toxic a lot of men are) ... I am aware that women are no better... it's not even about finding a good man or not. I'm now at the place idc anymore..

Are women at this place?

[chicosuave]

people who never post are the ones who never want a relationship. you clearly posting is telling me otherwise. It means you do want one. thats why you are posting. just give up already. and stop responding to men and block them all. its not hard.

[Asker]

No I don't want a relationship I'm trying to establish some boundaries between me and men.. I'm open to friends but that's about it.. it's staying that way

[Asker]

Its not about blocking all men.. I'm friends with men who I've been friends with a long time just don't want anything else with these men

[chicosuave]

just block them all and just do it. best way is to become a nun.

[Asker]

I'm ready celibate and staying that way

[chicosuave]

good stay that way, and hide under a rock for the rest of your life.

[Asker]

I've been doing that

[Asker]

Nothing new

[chicosuave]

make sure you never come out of it. Let us know how it went 40 years from now.

[Anonymous]

So you don't want a relationship anymore. But you're still bitter enough that you want to punish men for a perceived slight. 🤣🤣🤣

If you want to remain single that's your choice and it's fine. But don't insinuate you have theoral high ground when what you're doing is just as sleepy and petty as what you perceive they've done to you.

[Sparkie460]

Not all guys treat women like crap. There are good men out there, you just haven't found the right guy

[Asker]

I don't believe many good men exist.. I believe it's rare to come across a so called good man.. I'm not seeking him and having a hard time believing anything worth the definition of good exist in large numbers when it comes to men. I stopped trying with men 10 years ago.

[Asker]

I have yet to men any respectful guy whether he's married or not.. it's a dime to dozen..

[Asker]

Meet any man deemed to be respectful sorry

[Sparkie460]

Not to pat myself on the back but you're talking to a good man now. I know other single guys just like me.

[Asker]

A dime to a dozen

[Asker]

A needle in a haystack

[Asker]

I'm at the place whether good or not I've given up completely on men as a whole.. 💯 🤷 I'll pat myself on the back, but energy wise I'm done. Now I want to keep my peace of mind and sanity..

[Sparkie460]

If that needle approached you tomorrow would you accept him or push him away

[Asker]

Most like friend zoned him

[Asker]

Likely friend zoned him.. due to beliefs a lot of men are lying about this covid-19 thing

[Asker]

Why I asked God not to send me anyone due to how serious that is

[Asker]

Gene editing altering therapy mess people got in their veins..

[Sparkie460]

What about the covid thing

[Asker]

I wouldn't mind dating a guy whose had that but anyone jabbed no

[Asker]

Someone getting covid -19 is nothing compared to what's in people's veins and they still keep getting these vaccines. Sad to say some bad shyt is about to happen to these people..

[Sparkie460]

I haven't and won't get the shot

[Asker]

Same it would be nice e to find a mate nowadays. Just not worth it even sleeping with these people are dangerous

[Asker]

Me explaining this to men I won't date anyone FIXED they don't care.. just avoid what I'm saying. Anyone jabbed not normal

[Sparkie460]

Fortunately for me I'm out of the dating scene. I feel bad for everyone who is looking for a mste these days.

[Asker]

Wouldn't touch a guy or kiss him jabbed thank God for God's laws to protect in these times. I will wait on God so it's not about him being good or not now its about is he for God and pure.. at this point its about purity

[Asker]

I'm not seeking a mate anymore I I'll die in my celibacy

[Asker]

I already made up this is best

[Asker]

Temple isn't defiled why I asked God just keep me to him and lead me at this point.. do not send me a mate

[Sparkie460]

If you're happy with your decision then good for you

[Asker]

I have no choice and yes it's come down to it

[jamesgoldman]

Ditto my anonymous friend, dirto

[LimitedBenefits101]

Do whatever makes you happy.

[Asker]

After consideration I'm here.. I've tried to challenge this, but can't

[LazerBean]

Okay, go for it.

[Asker]

THANKS