What are upsides and downsides of choosing to stay celibate while you are single?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

I'm sure you have seen my opinion on this somewhere else where I talk about what I call "horror cocks". I identify as a "horror cock." ﾠ

But I'm here to post a reply to @emyyyy where she disabled replies. While she's mostly right about how the only people who want to control you have their own problems... I would point out that you get desensitized to pleasure, just as you can get used to experiencing less pleasure and tolerate more "horror cocks". Actually I might repost my most recent horror cock essay.

It was a reply to all the men who complain about failing to get a girlfriend. This case, specifically, was him talking about being only 5'4" which is damn short and I feel bad for him somewhat... simply because it could be difficult to do physical labor when you're so short... anyway here is what I wrote to him:

I don't get it, why don't you just say "fuck it"?

Be like a fucking warrior who doesn't need that softie lovie boobie mommy family shit.

And anyone else complaining about unsuccessfully trying to date. I mean if you need the occasional cum discharge, and you're really ugly, you can buy a hooker. Or try carrying portable testicle coolers like me which will stop the need for discharging cum. Even though there is a young cum dumpster around every corner.

It has been known forever that women distract men from being true "warriors", they turn men into "boob feelers", pleasure addicts, and overall less determined in other areas of life than family shit.

And now biochemical research proves that sexual arousal clouds your brain, impairs memory, and also cooming raises prolactin and prolactin slows your reflexes and reaction time. Thus you're in a never ending cycle of arousal = clouded memory 》cooming = slowed reflexes》arousal again... it doesn't matter how many times you've fucked. It's never enough until you make the conscious decision that you had enough. And why not decide that you had enough NOW? This isn't some religious anti-sex shit.. I actually suggest that your productivity is decreased if you're chasing sex. Look at the most densely populated countries (india? China?) Their men don't seem to be the most desired men... perhaps cooming and making babies makes you less masculine by raising prolactin? Their economic success is due to quantity of workers, not individual power.

I myself identify as a "horror cock" who can slash ghouls in half with my massive sword-like shaft. I'm a demon slaying prick. It isn't because of an inability to get laid, hell, I'm above average in height and cock size, lean and muscular, adequate grades in school and respected by the places I was employed at. But in a sense I'm mentally different. And I have a fear of being an insecure weakling, which leads me to face and embrace the discomfort which most cowards run away from.

I think more of us should become "warriors" who don't need pussy for motivation. I realize that pussy-motivation is temporary, initially it drives you to grow financially and shit, as a teenager you compete to be the fastest runner so the chicks like you... but then it traps you. Fucking booby traps. Seriously what is it exactly that you need from a woman? Only sex?

Maybe... we are all under a mind control spell by nature? It wants to propagate the species. Well, what if you refuse to? Then I guess you have excess time? Like I said, I'm not even short or anything and I chose not to play the game. Maybe you should make this mental decision as well? Lots of men choose to stay single..

In a way it feels "wrong". And it could be that we are biologically programmed to see reproduction as "correct", refusing it takes mental strength... and if you're a real man, can you really lack mental strength?

So there you have it, @Emyyyyy, I think women can coom as much as they want, there must be a reason why the female orgasm lasts for so much longer. And cooming raises prolactin which feminizes you, therefore men who are coomers get fat easily. Additionally, men with low female hormones experience little pleasure from orgasm, usually from taking exogenous prolactin antagonists men last shorter and fire more rounds, without ever getting soft, and also pleasure is reduced, because prolactin is needed for pleasure... In conclusion, pleasure is a feminine thing, which can harm the males, make them less hard and disciplined, but females by nature are meant to be these boob vessels of pleasure.

[Emyyyy]

Wtf are you even talking dude. Can you give me a short version of this. I’m not reading all that.

I didn’t understand anything. I read the last part about pleasure is a feminine trait. No it ain’t bitch. There’s two kinds of pleasure. Your male 🫵 pleasure where you release. And my female sex pleasure that feels like a massage from inside my guts. You will never experience what a woman experiences. NEVER.

I know what your male pleasure feels like because I have a clit. The clit is a small penis. So we women release fluid. Instead of sperm. When we cum from our MALE CLIT.

You’re stupid!! The female orgasm happens from penetration alone. That pleasure is 10x more powerful. It’s literally like being stuffed. And there’s a different type of pleasure and feeling and sensation that comes from that.

ITS NOTHING LIKE WHAT YOU FEEL ON YOUR DICK. NOTHING LIKE THAT!!

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@Emyyyy that's what I said. You should've bothered to dead a one minute post.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Read.

I said male pleasure is not worth pursuing.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Pleasure is softness. Women are soft, and are meant to be pleasure filled sacks of boobs.

Anyway, to clarify my first paragraph, humans can get desensitized to pleasure and addicted. Yeah... who knew that pleasure addicts experience depression regularly while disciplined men feel fulfillment most of the time?

A serial killer like @sodomite can feel a rush of pleasure by torturing victims. Doesn't mean that torturing is universally pleasing. Similarly, we can be fulfilled from being strong and disciplined.

But that's a masculine thing, discipline is harshness. Harshness is male and softness is female...

[Emyyyy]

It’s not work pursuing if your gonna go every single day like some nutcase

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@Emyyyy but wait. Wasn't it you who also posted a mytake about how the vaginal orgasm doesn't exist? Some female wrote that it's the clitoris and other muscles in a group working together.. and that the g spot is a myth or some shit... I doubt it was you anyway. I have no idea how it is for women, but I never experienced any "prostate orgasms" either. I think some people can orgasm from absolutely any body part, which is in congruence with the assumed nonexistence of vaginal orgasms. Fuck it. Either way it appears that men can also experience nipplegasms, and therefore possibly men can experience an equivalent of the vaginal orgasm you do. But again, I say fuck pleasure, pleasure softens you. And hardness is masculine. That's why I cool my balls.

[Emyyyy]

No dummy. Otherwise we wouldn’t put a dick inside of us if there was no g-spot.
The women who don’t have a g-spot are deformed. They literally have genetic defect.
They’re abnormal. Special cases

[dynamicyandere]

Upsides:
* Allows you to really focus on you, finding yourself, improving yourself, and just really great for clearing your mind if you’re trying to figure your life out in terms of purpose and direction.
* Also, when you’re not looking to date, and you’re thriving on your own, you often become even more attractive to others. Ironically, when I tried celibacy for a year, during that year or so, I’ve never had as many suitresses interested in me at once. I didn’t give in though. I ended my period of celibacy on my own terms on my own time.
* For future prospects. Men are drawn to a lower body count. For many reasons. But I think it’s deeply biological and psychological, since one needs to condition a man to think otherwise.


Downsides:
* It can leave a void in your heart, like an icy shard that you’ll just have to learn to live with (or for the time being). To press forward to persist in your celibacy, you’ll need to get used to that void as part of your new normal. Just understand it’s the price of celibacy.
* This isn’t really a downside, maybe more neutral, but you’ll need to find a way to compensate for that void. Some people take a spiritual path for this. Some focus on philanthropy. Some focus on self-improvement and career. You’ll need to find something that works for you to compensate for that void as best as possible.
* Of course, having no sex. So, you’ll have to make due going solo (if at all).

[Emyyyy]

You don’t get sex. You don’t get any pleasure whatsoever. Forget feeling the touch of a man. The penetration orgasm. Feeling the warmth of a man’s body.

Feeling his kisses. Forget the extreme pleasure. And the extreme powerful orgasm you should be having.

Just because you want to find a miracle man. PLEASE 🤦🏻‍♀️….

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I can’t believe the women that go months or years on end. Without allowing themselves this experience of nature.

Only because you want to listen to men of SMALL 🤏 , who can’t please you at all!!

Or you want to listen to your old ass parents who are dying or listen to bibles written by other lil-dick 🤏 men.
Little-d men of no testosterone that’s who you’re listening to.

No way on earth I’ll ever listen to degenerate male ever again in my life. I went 6 months. And I was masturbating the entire time. Never again. 6-months!! WASTED!!

[Emyyyy]

@lafemmefatale_1

[CubsterShura]

Upside is that you are potentially saving yourself from a lot of hassle and heartbreak especially if physical intimacy makes you feel emotionally connected to someone. It is especially important when you have unhealthy attachment styles and you have a lot of traumas you need to heal from.

The downside is that if you avoid it for too long especially when you are already very nervous to date, you may find yourself stagnant and struggling to find someone especially if you're already very introverted and shy to begin with.

That's why I personally believe depending on where you stand in life you can benefit from being completely abstinent or going the casual dating route.

[JamesMI616]

The upside is that you will learn who you are as an individual and realize that you don't need a partner for gratification. You'll see that meaningful sex is far better than just fuckin to get off. The orgasms you give yourself are just as intense and you don't have any of the extras of a one night stand. Alone isn't a bad thing. The more comfortable you are alone the less likely you are to settle for someone just because the D is good.

[Anonymous]

Upside less awful heart crushing dates! Bad side is you get into a habit of private vibrator time.

It helps really get the desperate off from you... more guys issue

It helps you focus on more things you wanna do like hobbies and seeing what you like in someone!

Rarely it makes you want a friends with benefits just for sex again.

[siferius90]

I think it is nice to keep your body count low for the one.

I stayed celibate for 3 years. I masturbated a lot and used it as a learning tool. Now I see I can control my reactions much better.

[Paige90]

Upside - No STDs

Downside - Have to masturbate a lot

[Steve1181]

Does the masturbating get excessive? Currently thinking about becoming celebate?

[A_Bell]

You break free of the sometimes self destructive behavior that goes along with casual promiscuous sex.

Down, sex feels really good.

[Tessafowler03]

There are no upsides to doing that crazy celibacy shit

[Billlewis]

You must have never had a boyfriend that you kept celibate for any length of time, because we get so sweet after you've kept us restricted from having intercourse for even a week or two;)

[msc545]

The upside is that you don't have to deal with annoying member of the opposite sex. The downside is that you don't get the pleasure of sex.

[Anonymous]

lower body count, not feeling used, no risk of std's, no heartbreak

[Opinion Owner]

those are all pro's, by the way

[justabuddy]

Answers here will very a lot depending on the person. I will say this tho. If you are not ready for casual sex... it can have an effect on you self esteem.

[Miristheiss]

It makes a more special intimate bond with your spouse... instead of spouse being lover number 31.

[inhua]

there's no downsides if you know how to remain stoic and control your emotions

[LiamJHayden]

Upsides: One can focus on bettering his/her own life and finances. Eliminates risk of unwanted pregnancy. Basically eliminates risk of STI's.

Downsides: Cannot really think of any.

[MaxUsefull]

pros: being more focused on work, not having common problems in relationships, feeling like you are doing God's will

cons: having to resist your own sexual desires, being considered a weirdo by other people

[exitseven]

I had celibacy thrust upon me. I did not enjoy it and would not do it again

[Jennz6]

Won’t get pregnant but always horny 💃

[Raaj4you]

Don't ask, it's so tough to maintain celibacy. I can't explain. Oh girl ! Where are you hiding?

[Anonymous]

The upside is you will actually be attractive to men for a relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not becoming a run through ho is a big one.

[Anonymous]

There are no upsides to being a total bore.

[Jmmmfi4]

WELL MY UGLY FACE DOESN'T LEAVE ME A CHOICE