Do you prefer a shy or outgoing partner?

Question

I'm on the shy side but when I'm comfortable I'm more open to trying new things. I would prefer an outgoing partner to try to break me out of my shell.

Moist_Gums · Accepted Answer

I'd like a balance of both. I'm an introvert myself and can be timid at times. However, I'm also pretty talkative, outgoing, and embracing when need be. Depends on my mood and the setting.

So someone to match my ups and downs together would be nice. If I want to stay in or go out I'd want them to be down with those options equally. Cause we're going to enjoy ourselves either way.

Sugar100 · Accepted Answer

I don't know shy is like u don’t talk at all too scared say anything to your partner. Me & my boyfriend aren’t shy nor outgoing crazy loud annoying. We are both reserved. In the middle. We dont go out on dates with a huge group of friends. We r always alone

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The truth is that it comes down to what that particular individual is looking for in a potential partner. Some men may find shy girls to be irresistibly cute, while others may prefer getting to know an outgoing individual as it may come easier to them. However, everyone is different

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Outgoing for sure! (although shy people are great. They're just hard to get to know as well as quickly)

Guy13 · Answer

gracious, deep smile, sense of peace, and intelligent woman. Shy can be interpreted as humble which works too.

coachTanthony · Answer

Shy is one thing but boring with no sense of humor is another thing all together.

megabamse · Answer

Oh absolutely not. I prefer a Partner i can have fun with. That i can dance with, sing with. Someone that is not afraid of what people think and have no issue making a fool of themselves. But at the same time don't have a need to be the senter of attention. Just a healthy middle. Someone that is inteligent and knowledgeable enough to have something to say about just about anything. Someone that is not Judgy and are ok with listening more then to have the need to criticize someone opinion if it's not their own. No one needs to be perfect or talented to enjoy life. Just dare to explore and enjoy life.

Berethor · Answer

Outgoing is easier to get to know, shy is more likely to be a good girl, basically a shy girl is harder to get but she can worth the trouble if she is virgin, if not then it does not matter.

stratford · Answer

A shy partner that likes to let her hair down in private.

bowenw · Answer

Outgoing partner for me for the same reasons.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd prefer someone in the middle but if I had to choose I would say outgoing because I am shy and need someone to bring me out of my shell.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Me looking at the options.

Paige90 · Answer

Outgoing but I seem to get guys that seem to think they know everything and don't think before they say hurtful things.

katiesmuff · Answer

I've had a lot more fun with outgoing boyfriends and fortunately my husband is truly an outgoing person.

Sleeper07 · Answer

I do not like shy girls, like I'll be attracted, but the introvert no talking personality is a major league turn off for me. It tells me they're not comfortable with being sexual with me.

MysticDevice · Answer

For sure someone shy and more introverted. But at the same time, maybe someone who not necessarily IS outgoing, but who CAN be outgoing would be a better match for me.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I would prefer someone more naturally outgoing, but being shy isn't the worst thing in the world.

RavVid · Answer

I'm not shy but I am not the life of the party either. So I'd prefer an extrovert/outgoing partner.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like shy girls/women because I'm a shy guy.

JSmuve · Answer

Somewhere in the middle. Too shy and it'd be like pulling teeth trying to get to know her. Too outgoing and she'd probably just annoy me.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Too outgoing is draining and tiresome and too reserved is boring and lifeless. I desire my woman to be in the middle. A healthy balance is key in life.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care really as long as we get along and I don't have to do all the work in the relationship/he is respectful and considerate.

rabbitzzz · Answer

I am shy, so I want an extrovert to adopt me.

Shy_Steve · Answer

It would be okay if she is a little Confident, But too much would make me feel insecure because I'm Shy.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Great question mimi, i can relate and if she is shy with a little out going personality that would be nice

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer a partner who's genuine, whether that be introverted or extroverted. As long as she's true to herself.

Snedger____ · Answer

Shy in public and outgoing in private

Alex8736 · Answer

i love outgoing but then again it's human nature to be shy at first getting to know someone 😊

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Shy. Outgoing girls are annoying

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

I prefer someone in between.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Shy, so it's quiet in the house :)

serious · Answer

Neither. Not applicable actually.

Adogdog · Answer

I like shy girls for sure!

Becky316 · Answer

Hubby varies from moment to moment

Agape93 · Answer

No preference

clampfan101 · Answer

I feel the exact same way!

baseball_del_tuono · Answer

Shy I’ll do the talking

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Outgoing one

sarasubmis · Answer

outgoing

htmndg183 · Answer

Outgoing

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

No clue.

BrookeS · Answer

Out going

hiva3417 · Answer

outgoing

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