Is it bad if a woman keeps wanting to go somewhere expensive?

[Anonymous]

It seems like she wants me to spend as much on her as possible and isn't happy unless I do, she doesn't like cheap or free.

[UniquelyBasic]

The part where she isn't happy unless she gets the most expensive treatment is the red flag. If she cared she wouldn't put that burden on you to take her to the most expensive places.

[Asker]

She has expensive taste.

[LiamJHayden]

Could be upbringing, but if she doesn't reciprocate it should be seen as a warning.

[TrueConfection]

Can you provide an example? Are you talking about fine dining vs fast food?

[Asker]

Like going shopping vs something like going to the park.

[TrueConfection]

Maybe she doesn't have much exposure to enjoyment outside of spending money. I suggest packing a picnic and blanket and taking her on a date to the park or beach. Make it a surprise destination.

[Asker]

Good idea. Yeah, I'd say she's a fan of material things.

[anon1903]

Does she pay? Does she have a stable job? Otherwise, goddamn she's vain

[Asker]

She'll pay but I have to ask her.

[Asker]

But yeah, she has a stable job.

[anon1903]

She's sophisticated. Nothing wrong with that.

[Asker]

Yeah. If I could, I'd spend every penny on her.

[anon1903]

I hope she feels the same

[Anonymous]

Cheap & free are okay.. but not ALL the time.. DAMN! SHOW SOME INITIATIVE

[Asker]

She prefers expensive over cheap and free.

[Opinion Owner]

Welp give her both. Or miss out on her being your girl

[Opinion Owner]

You shouldn't of agreed to go out with her. You both are clearly not right for eachother

[Asker]

I didn't know beforehand she preferred it.

[Opinion Owner]

I see you didn't take her out on dates to find out in the beginning. Lol that's where you fucked up at. Break up with her. You can't afford hed

[Opinion Owner]

Her****

[Asker]

Why are you being so harsh? FFS

[Asker]

No, I won't break up with her because you say so.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm telling you to do it.
Because I'm in the same position LOl
So projecting maybe a little. But it's true!! You can't meet your girlfriend needs... she's gonna complain... a lot. I hope she doesn't and gets over the fact her boyfriend is cheap and lazy... but hey. Who am i

[Opinion Owner]

I mean all the time expensive is a bit much.

[Asker]

I don't wanna miss out on her being my girl, I'll break out my wallet more.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not that. Just tell her and inform her if she's willing to accept you for who you are. You can do expensive dates once a month? ( or whatever you have in mind) but you gotta communicate it to her. She won't assume as this girl gets what she wants and loves you enough to stay but love isn't everything. It's a business. You want pussy... you gotta pay for it relationship or not. Mostly to the girls you want... you gotta pay. Even if you guys are dirt broke. You'd pick a flower off the street wouldn't you? You'd tell her she's pretty sad show her some kind of attention right? This is give or take... not take take take and show no kinds of appreciate or consideration or spoiling a princess/sofisticated queen
If you can't handle please let her go before queen becomes extremely miserable like me lol

[Asker]

why are you miserable?

[Opinion Owner]

It seems the men I pour into end up not being interested in me. I'm very high maintenance but I just want effort... and showed I'm special. I was raised by a man who spoiled me and gave me the best he could. If I don't see a guy initiating that I assume he's not really all that interested and I'd like to run away to whom ever will love me the way I want and deserve. I've accepted the bare minimum long enough. I want to be happy like everyone else. I'd rather be alone actually than with this guy

[Asker]

I wanna spoil her and give her the best I can.

[Opinion Owner]

That's nice. But don't go broke. If you don't got it just tell her. Initiate its the best I swear

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You got a gold digger, dude.