Lets say a good girl is seeing a bad guy. She has her life together, a career, she does not sleep around with a bunch of guys, doesn't do drugs. And she's seeing a bad guy who sleeps around, smokes all day, and works a minimum wage job. Is it common for these guys to place such a good girl who is basically out of their league on the back burner. Like they don't want to lose her because they know she's a good girl but they are just not ready to commit
Lol, it sounds like you are trying to make something up in your mind to feel better about what is going on with your situation.
If this guy is so much beneath you, then why are you stressing about this "loser"?
Most guys don't care about your money or your job. It would be like if a man had a nice shoe collection. Sure it's nice, but doesn't do anything for you, so why would you care?
I would say it sounds like he just doesn't like you that much. You are ok looking enough for easy sex or flirting, but he would never take you seriously. Just not his type or overweight I would guess.
Try and find a better guy that actually likes you. And live in reality.
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I think she need to leave the bad guy if he a bad guy. I know that hard to do if she care about him.
Some times a good guys dates a bad girl cause they can not fine good girl and when they do the good girls get mad that they where with a bad girl. I did that and it did not go well cause I stop helping the bad girl and I keep try to change her and to see my way and how I do not like the bad thing she dose.
If a good guy fine out a girl is bad then one day he will leave her for a good girl maybe if he is smart. maybe if he lucky the one good girl who like him will come back. But the odds of that happening. maybe he fine a new good girl or just be by him self.
people are with bad people cause maybe the good girl would not do what he want or maybe he did not know where to fine one who like him. Some people are with bad people cause being bad is seen as cool for a bit till bad thing happen.
Yes it happened to me... I was completely in love with him, but it is up to you to leave them because they will never turn you down or say they don't want you, they just never commit...
yes. simply to give her time to realize she's way too good for him. and she wastes her life waiting for him. and he laughs as he goes to have sex with a bunch of girls.
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If this good girl is dating a bad guy, then no good guy is going to touch her. A good guy won't mess with a girl in a relationship, especially with a bad guy. It's HER job to end her bad relationship and to remain single for a while and heal from her trauma. If she doesn't, she'll just end up leaving the good guy for another bad guy.
You're working on the things you place value in as a girl. Most guys for example don't place a ton of value on the girls occupation. So, in your mind it's a sure deal, but in his mind you might not be at the top of the list. Rather, you've been benched because someone else caught his eye that you might not have even considered.
Good girls like bad guys, and bad girls like good guys. Back in the day, it was different. It seems like you are dating or attracted to a bad guy; if you are a "good" girl, you must realize that you will not always get picked. I've seen some good men marry what society calls a "hoe." Some men won't date you because they aren't ready to commit, and others wot date you because they are intimidated by you.
Those types of guys are losers who will never commit.
Women who think they can change a guy are fooling themselves. You can't change people.If a good girl is seeing a bad boy then she will not be taken seriously by any men. That would be the real reason why they never commit. I've silently avoided women due to this...
What do you mean? I don't see no good girls trying to date a guy with a basic job. I see girls going after the doctors and lawyers.
I have no idea what you talking about.
stop lumping all men into the same category. you admitted you picked a "bad boy" then try lumping all men in with his bad behaviour.
You should dump this guy. He is going nowhere with his life.
Why is a good girl seeing a bad guy? Does she really want to be “corrupted?”
Nah. Usually they use her and make her stoop down to his level then leave her. That's why the term "slutmaker" exists.
Why would he care about her when their values aren't the same? The GG is a dumbass.
Well, she is seeing a bad guy loser, so she can't claim she didn't know. She deserves what she gets.
Absolutely not.
Good girls are for relationships.
Bad girls are for fucking only
I don't, I prefer to date good girls.
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