What do you do if a girl doesn't want settle down?

[Anonymous]

what do you do if a girl doesn't want settle down? I know this girl and we hang out and hook up I provide for her and her kids sometime.

She told me how she dose not want to settle down like ever. She have 3 kids and she keep haveing more. She nice and we get along well. I care for her. She seem to like that I care for her. She do not like if I stop provide for her or if I am by her family or kids. She dose not trust me or other people to go on a date with her. If I did go on a date with her she want me to provide for her and her kids and also pick up the bill for the night. she seem to date a lot she said how she want meet new people. Most of the people she hang out with is guys and her BFF girlfriend. She dose not have her car. She move a lot.

She want be independent but she have other provide for her. I not sure why she not just like to have one guy provide for her. She seem like have a lot of people provide for her.

I wish she was more of a girlfriend. She said how she feel alone all the time. I tell her I care I just do not want provide for her all the time. If I Do then I want her just be with me.

What should I do? why would a girl her need help not want get married?

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Oh honey she is using you. Don't do that to yourself. Find someone who wants a future with you. It's painful to walk away from people we love, but if that love isn't given back it's time to let go. Good luck.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Tysm for mho <3

[Dadass]

You let her go. If she does not want to settle down, go find someone who wants to and let her be.

[ShadezMcgee]

You move on and find a woman who wants to truly settle down with you.

Quit wasting your money on this woman and her children. She sees you as a spineless man because you have no guts to leave. Why are you paying for her three kids?

This has to be trolling. No man would sit through and put up with that bullshit.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Get out of there! You want to be the provider in a relationship while she just wants to be a baby factory that's provided for by guys she has no interest in. Don't be a fool.

[DizzyDesii]

Because she just likes using people to her financial advantage. Why are you settling for this

[Asker]

I don't know I just want a women to love me. I feel bad for being with her and want take care of her cause I care for her and want her have what she need for her kids. her ex use to hit her and I don't know why the guys who have kids do not give her thing or maybe they do I don't know. If I am with her I should help her out with her kids as a man I guss I don't know.

[DizzyDesii]

You should want real love. she's giving you the reward of fake love whenever you're a good pet that shits out money and kisses her ass

[Asker]

ya she get mad if I disrespect her and try ask her thing about her life. her mom know what she dose and I don't know why no one stop her. maybe she just want thing from guys cause she use then just hooking up and leave her and she want get something out of them. I can see that this bad and I need to leave.

[DizzyDesii]

So leave bud

[Asker]

ok thank you

[Anonymous]

What the hell are you doing with a woman with 3 kids from some other guys? This is cringe beta provider sh1t. No real man takes care of other men's kids. No man tries to settle down with a 304.

[riverrat3]

Wait or move on