A guy said that we are not compatible. Why do you think?

[keira]

I met a guy on Tinder and we met a few times. Everything started off smoothly. We had dinner together a few times and I stayed at his place one night. Then he told me that he didn't want to see me and he said we are not compatible. Now he doesn't answer my calls or my messages. Why do you think that is? Do you think he thought I was an easy girl?

[Cynicaldreamer]

First of all, your mistake was thinking you could meet someone serious on tinder, a hookup site, of all places!

Second, you're reading WAY too much into it. He literally told you the issue: he doesn't think you're compatible. He spent some time with you, and unless he was just after sex, realized you're not his type. And he told you.

Be glad he was candid enough to tell you the truth, and didn't string you along, or ghost you. Just move on, and try again. I know it sucks, but that's dating! It's not easy.

[Anonymous]

It’s hard and difficult to determine the exact reasons why the guy you met on Tinder said that you are not compatible. It's possible that he may have had different expectations or preferences in a partner, or that he may have realized that he wasn't ready for a relationship at this time. It's also possible that he may have misinterpreted your actions or behaviors, or that there were other factors at play that he did not feel comfortable sharing with you. It's important to respect his decision and to prioritize your own emotional well-being. If he is not responding to your messages or calls, it may be best to focus on moving forward and finding someone who is a better fit for you.

[serious]

No, do you have any reason to believe he is not telling the truth?

I think he is actually doing the right thing. He has understood that both of you are not compatible and so it would not make any sense to take things forward.

It is good thing what he did because he does not want to lead you on and give you any false hope.

That way you should be happy that he told you the truth.

[melanieeeB]

He is not interested in getting into a relationship with you. He doesn't think you both fit

[Lionman95]

No when he said you two aren´t compatible he means that there are differences between the two of you are bigger than what you got in common.
I wouldn´t assume that he thought you´re an easy girl maybe he just has different life goals, hobbies and interests he doesn´t want to give up but he thinks they are not the same as yours.

[Gibbons44]

All of that varies widely from one person to another.

In general, the school of thought that says girls can just hook up around in their teens and 20s and then marry/settle in their 30s is false.

They can only settle with the same guys the ended up hooking up with - since the number of people a girl can hope to date is rather limited.

[EricSummer]

It is likely not something specific you did. More likely he dated someone else in parallel and decided to pursue it further with her. Or maybe he tried if he warms up to you as you meet more often, but he did not. The same could happen to you.

[ChillaxingLove]

It literally could have been anything. Maybe something you didn’t notice about yourself or maybe something trivial. You should have asked him when you had the chance. Best you can do is move on and don’t obsess about it

[Reorx]

You were too easy & he considered you as not marriage material, him not stringing you along for sex speaks volumes. I'm so sorry that happened to you :( some guys are real jerks. What else did you expect from tinder?

[entrepreneur_ghosh]

He is not the one for you. A no is a no. You have to respect others' decisions.

[TacosRAwesome]

It's best to assume he's being honest and you're not compatible.

[genericname85]

obviously he's not interested enough in you.

[Jamie05rhs]

When you stayed at his place, did you sleep in his bed? Did you let him fuck you?

[JamesRandiDebates]

If you meet a guy on tinder and don't put out on the 1st date, you are a waste of time.

[DaddyShark34]

that man is out of character.

[CandyRat]

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