Do you think a high value woman uses dating apps?

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A high value woman from my perspective is a woman who is focussed on herself, sets boundaries and respects herself and others around her.

There’s definitely a fine line with that and being arrogant.

I’m aware in this day and age that a lot of women think being arrogant makes them high value. I’m far from that.

I just want to meet a nice man who also wants a happy relationship and life with someone like me.

I’m not looking for anything lavish.

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

The question would be if valuable men are on dating apps, in your situation of course, the answer to that would be very little because just how girls think there's a lot of shitty men on there, they think the same, but just like you some good guys have hope in it as well, and that's the very little i was talking about, the thing is telling the difference without talking to them is like finding a needle in a haystack, I do believe there's good women on there but is the effort to try and find them worth it, thats the real question, personally I prefer for God to guide me and if my destiny is to live alone then that's how it will be, I trust God and I know I'll keep my happiness no matter what happens, when we guide ourselves we get nowhere or it always leads to emptiness and depression, I've never touched a woman in my life and even tho it does get to me sometimes, I ask God to get rid of these emotions and I'm filled with happiness again, if you live a life without God then you are surely alone but I can assure you he won't turn his back on you if you accept him.

razelove · Accepted Answer

I don't think high value men and women really exist outside of simply having high self esteem and a realistic estimate of yourself. Like I know if I'm just looking for sex I will get rejected a lot for every success I have, where having no expectations will be much more strange as there is no metric for success.

It also depends on how you define "dating app" Like if I meet a woman at a bar, rather than a website dedicated to dating, but we message each other on an app like snapchat or something for a while rather than exchanging phone numbers, whether we've slept with each other or not, would that be a dating app?

anon1116 · Accepted Answer

In the past, I would have said no. Now in the age of limited time and technology, I will say yes. It seems to be much more difficult to take the time out of our busy schedules to meet and hangout with people, technology has pretty much replaced going out to meet new people.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Says “high value” to distinguish women into higher and lower values of relevance/importance…

Says we should “respect everyone”…

So you want to respect people but then want to call people lower in value… there’s a disconnect here…

RealMarek · Answer

“I just want to meet a nice man who also wants a happy relationship and life with someone like me.” This is almost to the word what a high-value woman (very much as you describe high value) I met on a dating website told me. We went on a date and have been in love ever since. So yes, I believe there are high value women who use dating apps.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

I don’t think you would like most men’s definition of a high value woman. Especially mine, my thoughts on a high value woman are: she is self-sufficient, makes great decisions, contributes to the nucleus. She doesn’t have to be the breadwinner by any means but she does have to bring something more than a pussy, ass and tits to the table. She comes with low to no debt, not high maintenance, so overhead is very low and potential risk reward ratio is very high with her. I won’t get into the sexual stuff that’s a topic for another time, but point being, this type of woman is so rare she needs to have her own spot on National Geographic and be filmed for other women to pay attention and take notes. I’ve only encounter this rare specimen once in my life and then had to move away. I know she is blessing someone else. But high value women, like high value men are extremely rare these days.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I don't know. I just know high value women have a more difficult time finding men, because their standards are much higher. But the reverse is also true. So it would make sense that high value people might try the internet, but so will slobs. A lot of high value people are also focused on other priorities that don't include a relationship

Pegases · Answer

In most cases no. Most of the women on dating apps don't take it seriously. They are there for the attention, and/or to boost their self esteem. Further, there are two types of men on dating apps. Most of the men on them are socially awkward, and use dating apps as a way to hide their social inadequacy, and then the men most women swipe right on. Smart women realize that, so you'll rarely if ever see women on them that are worth taking seriously.

Lionman95 · Answer

I hope so because I don´t have many other options. I would go along with your definition of a high value woman. I would disagree though because to me an arrogant woman isn´t high value an ambitious woman can be but definetely not arrogant.

RavVid · Answer

A high value woman from a male perspective is family (incl relationship) oriented who is good looking cooperative and peaceful. I am not saying submissive because I think that is more code for not being disputatious and demanding. that is covered by cooperative and peaceful.

A high value woman (in your def) probably does use apps. A high value woman (in my def) possibly doesn't.

I sort of think you are high value in my def and would do better with direct interaction.

richardcory · Answer

Sure, dating apps can work for anyone. But... the idea of "high value" makes me a little uneasy. I like to think in terms of "compatibility", not "value".

A dating app may be a good way to find compatible partners

LazerBean · Answer

Sometimes. High value men are rare, just as are high value women. A dating app can potentially make it easier for them to find each other if they play their cards right.

jshm2 · Answer

In that case, you want to use matchmaking services. Not fly by night "dating apps" (read hookup apps). We all know what they are, but some people just like to lie to themselves as to what is going on.

JordanianNumetal · Answer

Nope don't need to, and they would get so many messages they won't bother going through. Good looking girls use dating apps as ego boosters.

If that was the case then why haven't you found mr. perfect yet, because that is easy to find?

DizzyDesii · Answer

there's nothing wrong with using those its just if they even give people a chance and actually read profiles or if they just swipe immediately

Nikki1989 · Answer

High quality people don't need dating apps.

Still-alive · Answer

Im gonna define ‘high value’ as someone who is secure with themselves. In which case id say yeah I think its ok. Its just yet another avenue you might try to find someone special.

Guardian45 · Answer

NO idea. No "high value" woman will find me on a dating app.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

High value women get married in their 20's, have and raise their family with a good man.

Part2603 · Answer

No, smoking hot bitches don't need to use Tinder.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Anyone can try their luck, but dating apps is mostly to get sex and losers typically create those pages.

genericname85 · Answer

Yeah once in a while maybe. But they'll be on it for like a week before they find someone.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

In theory a high value woman has enough contacts and connections that she'll easily meet someone without the apps. But nothing wrong with trying the apps as well.

MrCommodore · Answer

I'm not a fan of online dating, but I think its healthy to look for a partner in the largest pool possible.

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