A high value woman from my perspective is a woman who is focussed on herself, sets boundaries and respects herself and others around her.
There’s definitely a fine line with that and being arrogant.
I’m aware in this day and age that a lot of women think being arrogant makes them high value. I’m far from that.
I just want to meet a nice man who also wants a happy relationship and life with someone like me.
I’m not looking for anything lavish.
+1 yThe question would be if valuable men are on dating apps, in your situation of course, the answer to that would be very little because just how girls think there's a lot of shitty men on there, they think the same, but just like you some good guys have hope in it as well, and that's the very little i was talking about, the thing is telling the difference without talking to them is like finding a needle in a haystack, I do believe there's good women on there but is the effort to try and find them worth it, thats the real question, personally I prefer for God to guide me and if my destiny is to live alone then that's how it will be, I trust God and I know I'll keep my happiness no matter what happens, when we guide ourselves we get nowhere or it always leads to emptiness and depression, I've never touched a woman in my life and even tho it does get to me sometimes, I ask God to get rid of these emotions and I'm filled with happiness again, if you live a life without God then you are surely alone but I can assure you he won't turn his back on you if you accept him.
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692 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think high value men and women really exist outside of simply having high self esteem and a realistic estimate of yourself. Like I know if I'm just looking for sex I will get rejected a lot for every success I have, where having no expectations will be much more strange as there is no metric for success.
It also depends on how you define "dating app" Like if I meet a woman at a bar, rather than a website dedicated to dating, but we message each other on an app like snapchat or something for a while rather than exchanging phone numbers, whether we've slept with each other or not, would that be a dating app?10 Reply
In the past, I would have said no. Now in the age of limited time and technology, I will say yes. It seems to be much more difficult to take the time out of our busy schedules to meet and hangout with people, technology has pretty much replaced going out to meet new people.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 ySays “high value” to distinguish women into higher and lower values of relevance/importance…
Says we should “respect everyone”…
So you want to respect people but then want to call people lower in value… there’s a disconnect here…08 Reply
Asker+1 yThere’s a difference between a high value and low value women. I’m sorry but you can’t equate me to a woman who sleeps around and has no respect for herself and other people. Respect is earned. I’ve also done enough work on myself to become high value. It’s created. It’s hard work.
Opinion Owner+1 yThen you should clarify: respect everyone as long as they meet your standards of deserving respect. Anyone else is not worth respecting according to you :)
Opinion Owner+1 yby the way, believe you are better or superior to another person is arrogance :)
Asker+1 yThere’s also a difference between being arrogant and confident in yourself lol.
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd you fall under the definition of arrogant :)
Asker+1 yI don’t really care what you think to be honest
Opinion Owner+1 yI know, it’s because you are arrogant :)
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671 opinions shared on Dating topic. “I just want to meet a nice man who also wants a happy relationship and life with someone like me.” This is almost to the word what a high-value woman (very much as you describe high value) I met on a dating website told me. We went on a date and have been in love ever since. So yes, I believe there are high value women who use dating apps.
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Asker+1 yAw really! Yeah I mean it really does come down to that at the end of the day
Asker+1 yI’m sure he is
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+1 yI don't know. I just know high value women have a more difficult time finding men, because their standards are much higher. But the reverse is also true. So it would make sense that high value people might try the internet, but so will slobs. A lot of high value people are also focused on other priorities that don't include a relationship
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I'm assuming you're back from your holiday
Asker+1 yI’m coming back tomorrow I had to reschedule because of my cold
Asker+1 yI actually can’t wait to come home I can’t even tell you
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It happened on your VACATION? Oh my goodness, I am so sorry! What a disaster.
And I'm just gonna assume that things didn't work out with the Hot Barman?
Asker+1 yHaha I know it sucks! And I haven’t managed to see him since just focussed on going home now 😂
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I'm sorry
Asker+1 yThanks! It’s okay :)
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+1 yI don’t think you would like most men’s definition of a high value woman. Especially mine, my thoughts on a high value woman are: she is self-sufficient, makes great decisions, contributes to the nucleus. She doesn’t have to be the breadwinner by any means but she does have to bring something more than a pussy, ass and tits to the table. She comes with low to no debt, not high maintenance, so overhead is very low and potential risk reward ratio is very high with her. I won’t get into the sexual stuff that’s a topic for another time, but point being, this type of woman is so rare she needs to have her own spot on National Geographic and be filmed for other women to pay attention and take notes. I’ve only encounter this rare specimen once in my life and then had to move away. I know she is blessing someone else. But high value women, like high value men are extremely rare these days.
10 Reply In most cases no. Most of the women on dating apps don't take it seriously. They are there for the attention, and/or to boost their self esteem. Further, there are two types of men on dating apps. Most of the men on them are socially awkward, and use dating apps as a way to hide their social inadequacy, and then the men most women swipe right on. Smart women realize that, so you'll rarely if ever see women on them that are worth taking seriously.
10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I hope so because I don´t have many other options. I would go along with your definition of a high value woman. I would disagree though because to me an arrogant woman isn´t high value an ambitious woman can be but definetely not arrogant.
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Asker+1 yA lot of people these days (I don’t want to say women but that’s who I mix with the most!) are arrogant and think it makes them high value. The amount of girls I’ve met who talk shit like “he’s so short how dare he look at me” and “ew I hate men they all need to get away from me”…. I’m sorry but excuse me? Yes you’re a women but there’s a difference between being high value and arrogant. This is arrogance.
In fact a “friend” said to me after I told her
I told a guy I like them that she wouldn’t do that because she’s “high value”… what’s wrong with telling a guy you like him?
2K opinions shared on Dating topic. A high value woman from a male perspective is family (incl relationship) oriented who is good looking cooperative and peaceful. I am not saying submissive because I think that is more code for not being disputatious and demanding. that is covered by cooperative and peaceful.
A high value woman (in your def) probably does use apps. A high value woman (in my def) possibly doesn't.
I sort of think you are high value in my def and would do better with direct interaction.10 Reply
+1 ySure, dating apps can work for anyone. But... the idea of "high value" makes me a little uneasy. I like to think in terms of "compatibility", not "value".
A dating app may be a good way to find compatible partners
10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sometimes. High value men are rare, just as are high value women. A dating app can potentially make it easier for them to find each other if they play their cards right.
31 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. In that case, you want to use matchmaking services.
Not fly by night "dating apps" (read hookup apps).
We all know what they are, but some people just like to lie to themselves as to what is going on.
10 Reply16.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. High quality people don't need dating apps.
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Asker+1 yWhat do you mean by “need”?
Asker+1 yOkay
+1 yNope don't need to, and they would get so many messages they won't bother going through. Good looking girls use dating apps as ego boosters.
If that was the case then why haven't you found mr. perfect yet, because that is easy to find?10 Reply- 4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 ythere's nothing wrong with using those its just if they even give people a chance and actually read profiles or if they just swipe immediately
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+1 yIm gonna define ‘high value’ as someone who is secure with themselves. In which case id say yeah I think its ok. Its just yet another avenue you might try to find someone special.
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+1 yNO idea. No "high value" woman will find me on a dating app.
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Asker+1 yWhat does that mean?
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I would not recommend a "high value" woman use a dating app to find a "high value" man
Asker+1 yOkay
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+1 yHigh value women get married in their 20's, have and raise their family with a good man.
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Asker+1 yI’ve been proposed to by 2 boyfriend twice. I’m high value enough to have said no.
Asker+1 y2 boyfriends*\proposed to twice
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@itsalyssaagain. That's all good, but are you going to look back in a few years and realize you curbed a good man who wound have been a good husband, father, provider.
Asker+1 yNot really the first one was a cheater and the second one was controlled by his mum and specifically his family
Asker+1 yHe literally said his mum is prettier will always be prettier than me while complimenting me and insisted she meet me after the first date so that she can “approve”
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He said his mom was prettier than you? Wow. Just wow.
Asker+1 yYeah haha
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You got his mom's number?
Asker+1 yNo but he kept insisting she take my number because she wanted to “facetime” me.
Some families really are weird!! He started saying that his mum was always going to come first and his siblings and whatever. And that his dad was really “scary”. And that if I ever disrespect his mum there would be no “us”.
Bear in mind this was like 2 months into dating and it was uncalled for! I never said or did anything!
No, smoking hot bitches don't need to use Tinder.
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+1 yYeah once in a while maybe. But they'll be on it for like a week before they find someone.
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+1 yIn theory a high value woman has enough contacts and connections that she'll easily meet someone without the apps. But nothing wrong with trying the apps as well.
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+1 yI'm not a fan of online dating, but I think its healthy to look for a partner in the largest pool possible.
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+1 yAnyone can try their luck, but dating apps is mostly to get sex and losers typically create those pages.
10 Reply 10.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. If she is in a situation where she doesn't meet many guys her type then she does.
10 ReplyI don't think we should generalize. Good people and bad people are everywhere
10 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Women use everything that provides more likes and thirsty messages to their vagina.
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+1 yYes. There are actually a ton of high value women on dating apps. I have seen their profiles.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYes. But they are very few in number. And not the ones showcasing themselves generally. So they get overlooked for thirst traps.
10 Reply8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think people try dating apps but quickly abandon them when they don't find anyone they like m
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. No such thing. Just humans and those that are like them.
10 Reply378 opinions shared on Dating topic. That's why they have Match. com for real because she may even think she is high value but she still uh I KS just like everyone else do so not be fool by that BS.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI believe they may do so but I also think it depends on the app. I believe that some apps dont attract people of that classification.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/eQ1G1rAPB_0What else do you have to offer
00 Reply12.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I married one who did.
10 ReplyI don't online date at all
10 ReplyPossibly
10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I’m not really sure honey
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Value is subjective, so for some; yes
00 ReplyYes..
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