Why do white men on dating apps treat women of colour like we are disposable trash?

[Anonymous]

I've experienced this myself multiple times and other women I've spoken to as well. Ofcourse there are some exceptions and I don't mean to generalise. But it's common enough that it makes me avoid them entirely out of the fear.

[Anonymous]

Because we're not their type, and they want to (painfully) remind us of this! It's bad enough even our own men don't want us, but then other races ridicule us as well, or make false assumptions about us.

When you get a chance anon, look up different ethnicities and genders on dating sites. It's been proven that black women are deemed as the least attractive race/gender on all dating sites! Meaning we have the worse luck finding matches or potential partners compared to other women and ethnicities.

Again this is not all white men, because I already know some idiots will come on here without reading the question or saying, "I'm not like that!" Yes, we know. But some of us black women have had such bad experiences with dating sites, it makes us leery. Even the guys of other races that do want us, we have to be careful that they're not trying to get with us as a fetish! But that's another issue.

All I can suggest anon is to block and ignore idiots like that: of ALL races. There are white men that are interested in us, assuming that is what you are looking for. It's just filtering through the dirt to find those that care and want you.

[Asker]

This hits so hard. Thank you for sharing. I'm not just looking for white guys only. But I have matched with white guys before and it's almost always awful. They'll dangle the possibility of something over your head and then treat you badly and move on to the next black girl. Agh. I feel sick.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Ehhh because they are racist or they treat many woman that way? Honestly that is trash and I’m very sorry you experienced that but realise they obviously have something wrong with them inside because that is not general normal behaviour

[Anonymous]

Dating sites, online apps, and all of the nonsense about black women being at the bottom of the pile is all nonsense (if you find your partner through God and scripture). Ever notice how no one talks much, if at all about finding a partner thorough God and scripture? they want you to use the dating apps so you connect with those who are low vibrational. Much of the population is not only low vibrational, but unknowing to them have been in the middle of a spiritual war and poisoned and brain washed by the demonic. If you want a good man, be a good woman and seek God's help to find one who is on the same vibration. Anything else will simply result in low vibrational beings.

[Guardian45]

Dating apps are full of scammers, which is why I avoid them. White men who treat women of colour like disposable trash ARE disposable trash! Please avoid them. Not all men are assholes.

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHO

[TDILS]

God creates us as a human, all equal, so everything must be equal for everyone. No one is better than anyone else, because everyone is the same human that He creates.

[ChefPapiChulo]

They treat everyone like that. That’s why white women are marrying outside of their race more than ever.

[Asker]

Damn

[Anonymous]

For the same reason that women if ALL races treat men on dating sites like they're disposable trash.

[Asker]

This is a really weird thing to say, because most women my age are either married or desperately looking for serious partners.

[Opinion Owner]

No hun. Most women your age say they're desperately looking for serious partners. Most think they are actively looking for serious partners. The reality is most aren't. The reality is most live in a fantasy world of thier own creation and will always find something to be disappointed about. Then when they get a few years. Older than you they hit panic mode. Go the opposite direction and instead latch on to the first guy that shows them a little interest. She doesn't properly vet him like she should. Then after it fails spectacularly. She becomes twice as biter as before. Then she spends the remainder of her days in and out of dead end relationships trying to quell her loneliness. Or she ends up alone and bitter.
Most women's failings really are just her inability to discern reality from fantasy.

[Anonymous]

You're barking up the wrong tree. As a white man I want nothing to do with this because I only treat white women like disposable trash.

[Opinion Owner]

Because they're that indeed.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are chasing the same top 4% Chad Thundercock's the white girls are chasing.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Dating sites are toxic as fuck.

[Jmmmfi4]

Because you are... sorry