Is it useless to wait for a guy to make the first move who's waiting for me since 3 years to go back to him?

[Anonymous]

I want him to make the first move instead of going back to him first. Will that be even possible if he is having lot of ego?

[Adam1978]

What about your ego? You are the one that wants to make a move, you only assume he does, otherwise he already made the move. So how can you claim it's a ego thing.

[Asker]

Because he's waiting for me to go back to him first yet he's not approaching me first.

[Adam1978]

That what waiting mean, coming to you would be pursuing. So your statement doesn't make any sense.

[Asker]

In either statements, what would be the ideal option that I need to choose? Let him go or wait for him or go to him as he's expecting me to?

[Adam1978]

Do what you want to do. If you want to be with him, go to him otherwise just let it be. You shouldn't even spend time thinking about it.

[Adogdog]

You should make the first move.

[Asker]

Doesn't it look cheap?

[Asker]

If I go back to him first