Feeling deflated. I'm 29 and I've being seeing a 40 Yr old guy for over a year. Anyway there's clear disagreements in our relationship. I want to go out on days out on weekends and go out for food... anyway, we were supposed to go out for dinner on Friday night with his mum. We cancelled as we were both tired from work. He took her the next day and didn't invite me. He told me how amazing the food was. This isn't the first time he's done stuff with other people but anytime I ask to plan something there's always an excuse.
He hinted an implied that we go away together. He told me to get the time of work, he then went back on his word and went backwards on it. He told his work colleagues that I was the one who wanted to go away with him, he literally told me their conversation an twisted the truth. When I questioned this an raised it, he was like 'no I never told you too come, I never said that and that'.
He back tracked. He told me to take the time of and I did. Anyway, he's set to go away on this holiday alone, if he goes, for me it's the bottom line and I'm done.
To make out I lied and gaslight me awful.
He never wants to hear me out or talk about issues, he says he will ring me back an never does.
He hinted an implied that we go away together. He told me to get the time of work, he then went back on his word and went backwards on it. He told his work colleagues that I was the one who wanted to go away with him, he literally told me their conversation an twisted the truth. When I questioned this an raised it, he was like 'no I never told you too come, I never said that and that'.
He back tracked. He told me to take the time of and I did. Anyway, he's set to go away on this holiday alone, if he goes, for me it's the bottom line and I'm done.
To make out I lied and gaslight me awful.
He never wants to hear me out or talk about issues, he says he will ring me back an never does.
