What happened post-breakup?

[Msnsns]

Before my relationship, I felt like a nobody and then when I was dating it was like I got more invites to functions and outings. Now, that we're not together, those people just say hi and bye. What happened?

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for people to change their behavior towards someone after a breakup. Some people may feel uncomfortable or awkward around someone who they know has recently gone through a breakup, while others may feel like their loyalty lies with their friend and may distance themselves from the ex. Additionally, some people may have only been interested in hanging out with you because of your relationship status, and may not have been genuine friends to begin with.

It's important to remember that your worth and value as a person are not determined by your relationship status or the number of invites you receive. You are still the same person with your own unique qualities and strengths, whether you are in a relationship or not.

If you are feeling isolated or lonely after a breakup, it may be helpful to focus on building meaningful connections with people who genuinely care about you and support you, rather than seeking validation or acceptance from a wider social circle. This can include spending time with family and close friends, pursuing hobbies and interests that bring you joy, and exploring new opportunities to meet like-minded people.