My boyfriend wants me to be jealous of his ex girlfriends so bad but I’m literally not. Why is he this way? & how do I stop this?

[Jlust255]

I want it to stop because it’s only frustrating me

[Anonymous]

It's not healthy or productive for your boyfriend to try to make you jealous of his ex-girlfriends. This behavior can be a sign of insecurity or an attempt to manipulate or control you, and it's important to address it directly with him.

You could start by having an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about how his behavior is making you feel. Let him know that you're not interested in playing games or being manipulated, and that you would prefer to have a healthy and honest relationship based on trust and respect.

It's also important to set clear boundaries with your boyfriend and let him know what you're comfortable with. If he continues to try to make you jealous or engage in behavior that makes you uncomfortable, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider whether it's a healthy and supportive partnership for you.

The key to stopping this behavior is to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend, and to prioritize your own emotional well-being and boundaries.

[dynamicyandere]

You can let him know that when he does that, all that happens is that you lose attraction to him. It may work on other girls, but all this is doing is pushing you further from him. (Basically, if he wants an ego boost from your validation or increased attachment, trying to make you jealous of his ex-girlfriends isn’t the way to do it.)


Let him know what it’s in his best interest to stop with this nonsense.


Or, find another boyfriend with less insecurities.

[dynamicyandere]

Let him know why it’s in his best interest*

[slatyb]

This sounds intolerable. You stop it by finding another boyfriend.

[Amishaxx]

He sounds so stupid

[Jlust255]

Right like what?