Does my date talk less because he's not interested in me?

[Anonymous]

I asked him and he said it’s his nature. But if he liked me wouldn't he want to talk? Do you think he doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

It’s less about him and more about what does and doesn’t work for you. If he’s saying his “nature” is to gradually stop doing the things that attracted you to him in the first place then you know what to expect going forward. Knowing his nature, does it work for you? Do you need more communication to feel connected and secure, or can you coexist with these changes as they roll out? I know what your question was, but my thing is that you have to do what works for yourself. If we said ‘oh it’s cool don’t worry about it’ or ‘yeah that’s weird I wouldn’t deal with him’, I highly doubt you’re ready to just drop everything and ghost him based on a majority rule or best advice. That’s why it has to be on your own accord and comfort level.

[Sparkie460]

Some guys are the quiet shy type that doesn't know how to start a conversation or keep one going. He might be that type of guy

[Anonymous]

Some guys, myself included, aren't big talkers. It's not that we don't want to, it's just that we have nothing to say

[Opinion Owner]

Not to mention the fact that most women don't give a fucking shit what we have to say anyway, and barely shut up long enough to listen. So fuck it, you do the talking

[shades777]

Probably rather you do all the talking

[In_Trance]

most likely, yes