My boyfriend dont live with me but want my house key to chill at my house when im not there but why?

[Anonymous]

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Would you do so

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say why your boyfriend may want your house key without more information, but it's important to consider your own comfort level and boundaries in any relationship.

If you're not comfortable giving your boyfriend a key to your home, it's important to communicate your concerns to him and to set clear boundaries around your personal space and privacy. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to set boundaries that make you feel safe and respected in any relationship.

It may also be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about why he wants a key to your home and what his intentions are. It's possible that he may simply want to be able to come over and spend time at your home when you're not there, but it's important to clarify his intentions and to make sure that you both are on the same page about what is and isn't appropriate in terms of access to your home.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what feels comfortable and safe in your own home, and to set boundaries that make you feel respected and valued in any relationship.

[Sparkie460]

How long have you been together with this guy? If you trust him you could give him the key. Personally, unless you live together I don't think it is a good idea

[Asker]

I mean there's nothing in my house that's his. And he recently talking stupid about having a party then and I said no

[Sparkie460]

There's no reason for him to be in your house when you're not home. He doesn't need a key. That's all you need is to come home and find your boyfriend with a bunch of drunk guys in your house

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you have to ask this, the relationship hasn't grown enough yet. Don't give the keys.

[Buttajah]

Only he can answer that question. Could be he smothers or trust issues. Regardless, that would be a hell nah and
I recommend you address that before it
blows up into something else.

[slatyb]

Don't do that.

[Anonymous]

you'd be a damn jackass if you do

[Jmmmfi4]

Ask him