Do you think women would prefer having two partners a provider male to take care of the bills and children and a sexual superstar to take them out?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[inhua]

ah yes the classic alpha fux and beta bux

chase after the hot alpha bad boy Chad for years but he has too many options and won't commit

settle down with a hardworking beta simp who ain't anyone's first option to begin with because he has little to no options

cheat with the hot alpha Chad and secretly have his kids behind the beta simp's back

file for divorce from the beta simp and take all his money and assets from divorce court including child support payments

live happily ever after with Chad while the simp either ends himself, rejects blue-pill nonsense or accepts his fate as a loser

long story short, he was never attracted to the beta simp to begin with. he just had the resources Chad couldn't provide but Chad could provide good genetics

good genetics >>>>>>>>>>>>>> money/hard work >>>>>>>>>> personality

[GubGubo]

I would bet not, considering the equity theory of social psychology.


“Equity theory posits that when it comes to relationships, two concerns stand out: (1) How rewarding are their societal, family, and work relationships? (2) How fair and equitable are those relationships? According to equity theory, people feel most comfortable when they are getting exactly what they deserve from their relationships—no more and certainly no less.” (Psychology. iresearchnet. com).

[Jamie05rhs]

That theory doesn't apply to modern women. They love getting more than they deserve. In fact, they demand it.

[GubGubo]

Is that supported by agreed upon studies or merely your own experience

[Jamie05rhs]

@GubGubo Oh, just what I've seen personally.

[fonduegirl]

I just want to be happy, bro.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Your comment on this very question says otherwise.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs how?

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 You said you want 2 men.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs and why wouldn't I be happy with them, James? Let's hear it.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Read his original comment. The context is people getting exactly what they deserve. And then I countered that women want more than they deserve. And then you responded "I just want to be happy, bro.". Which usually means that you are content and happy with what you have.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs and why do I not deserve the two men this question entails?

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs and what I have is I'm single and happy, which is also an option. A good one at that. But no, poly relationships aren't asking "more than you deserve".

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 No one does. Stop being greedy.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs see? That's the conservative spirit! Dictating lives of others!

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Lol 😂

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs I'm serious though.

Conservatives need to start minding their own business. Everyone has different opinions, experiences and definitions.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs respect that instead of calling them "greedy".

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 But that is a very greedy attitude. That's just the truth. (The same goes for men, the other way around.)

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs no. There's distinction.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs if you don't understand boundaries, don't mislabel poly relationships.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 I don't approve of poly relationships, period. Sorry. But that's just a difference of opinion between you and I. So I guess we'll have to leave it at that.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs yup. And don't call me greedy. It's uck.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 If the shoe fits.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs if you understand something, ask. Your hate is irrelevant.

[fonduegirl]

*don't understand

[Anemone978]

I would take this deal if they were both only mine and no one else's because to be fair a lot of men can only put effort into one or the other.. lol

[Asker]

yeah but you would still have to do it with the loser guy every once in a while... like once a month or something.

[Anemone978]

That's fine I love sex and everyone has to stay happy for it to work :D

[LazerBean]

Only a dumb bimbo would think that two inferior men is a good deal.

[Jamie05rhs]

They'd rather have more than that. If they could pull it off, I bet they'd have one man for money, one man for love, one man for intimacy, one man for romance, one man for sex, and another man just to be her butler and do her chores.

[Anonymous]

For the sexual super star we don't even have to go out lol.

I'm a homebody anyway

[Opinion Owner]

I would honestly like 2 in 1 please

[Asker]

Yeah but those gorgeous guys with big dicks that are horny on-call and have swagger and game, aren't always rich and may not want to deal with children or create a wonderful home... so that's why this guy would just be crashing at your place as a second male with no responsibilities while you have this other loser taking care of everything critical for the homestead. Basically there's not enough of those guys to go around so women should try and arrange this scenario lol with fools of course

[Opinion Owner]

No. He won't crash at my place. I can't deal with low tier men. There are men who want to be used with things of there own. Why call the second guy a superstar anyway. I don't deal with homeless dick. At least have your own shit.. get used and leave me be. If that's what he wants and etc if we are on the same page okay but I'll never deal with someone homeless. Lol I had to stop you right there

[fonduegirl]

I know I would. But without the children part. Two boyfriends sound awesome to me.

[Lowiu]

I think I have both and more in one

[Asker]

maybe, no 22 year olds i've ever met have money

[Anonymous]

Even one male can be too many at times.

[brandon1122]

I agree