Men, how can I get you to come up to me first in a club?

Question

I´m too shy lol

RavVid · Accepted Answer

For me the more skin you show, the more you have your tits out the less likely I'll be in approaching you.

I reverse discriminate against very beautiful girls because in general they get away with being exploitative and I don't want that. That reverse discrimination applies to girls showing more flesh than clothing too. I am altogether more likely to go for a nice girl.

It depends on what type of men you want to attract and why. Maybe you want some male attention only, maybe you want to meet men.

To get men to approach you, look approachable. Smile at men you like when you catch their eye.

If you strategically hang out near the bar you will meet more men as they are getting a drink. If they get two drinks you sort of know they are taken for tonight at least. if you look as though you'd like to dance a guy is more likely to ask you. The girls flaunting flesh are likely to be dancing on the floor with their girlfriends and aren't so accessible. Competitive edge for you.

Good luck

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well first of all you need to have a cute face w a nice body. Some men may come up to you even if you’re a butter face. But if you’re just looking to get nailed just flirt w them. That’s all that really happens in clubs. Men really don’t go to clubs to meet their future wife, it’s usually just for sex. Maybe a quick blowjob in the parking lot.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Be a good dancer 💃 think Shakira. Before you know it, a guy will be dancing/grinding with you Look hot/sultry  dance alone  get drunk af then you won’t be so shy anymore and some sleaze will take advantage of you  by the way I don’t recommend any of these. It’s dangerous if you meet the wrong guys

Puppystarfish23 · Accepted Answer

It's really not that difficult. You literally have to breath and you get some sleaz bag non constantly rubbing his fun sized Mars bar up against you

Rei13 · Answer

I’ve honestly dressed down/modestly at places like that and still got approached by guys, probably more so than when I dressed up. Which honestly I disliked cause I just wanted to dance with my friend. Based on that just make yourself look approachable, make sure you don’t go alone, and get a little buzzed to feel more at ease but not actually drunk.

Finchie40 · Answer

Try to Make eye contact and smile at someone you find attractive, Most guys feel welcomed when a girl makes eye contact with him while she is smiling , it makes him feel less nervous as well

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I dance really well, so get approached so often, I have to lie I am a lesbian to get rid off unwanted attention.

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t go to those. I find it disgusting. You’re probably a day shift girl anyways

FreyaRed · Answer

It's a meat show, just participate in this spectacle. Wrap your ham in a tight dress, shake a little bit with it like an angler does it with the lure and hungry dogs will notice your ham among other tasty hams instantly.

I'm kidding, they will notice you anyway even if you sit in darkest corner of a night club.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Wear a t-shirt that says the following. I’m Single & Shy & If You’re A Guy Feel Free To Say Hi!

Jazzy54 · Answer

The only reason dudes come up to women in a club is for a hookup. They’re not looking to talk. Oh, they’ll talk to you, but they want to see if they can take you home for the night. PLEASE don’t go alone. Use the buddy system. Also, don’t leave your drink unattended.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Sit alone and you'll have tons of guys approaching you. You'd have to pick which guy you'd like to go with

strateguy632 · Answer

prevent smile until eye contact. when eye contact change to smile. that probly will send the signal.

VikingWarLord · Answer

Focus on your looks before you go there

1. be skinny (no more than 120 lbs)
2. Don't chop off your hair above shoulder length
3. Wear something exposing your body and cleavage

And start smiling at some guys

JustinTheGreat · Answer

if you’re good looking then I promise you don’t have to try hard to get attention lol

Kun17 · Answer

Try to to make eye contact with us, if we are making eye contacts as well, then pass a cute smile. Don't worry then we will approach you.

AsaKyo · Answer

1. Be hot  2. Be white, Latina, or East Asian (you're disqualified from the roster if you are not one of those)  That's it, I don't make the rules lmao

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Well, for me, all you'd have to do is smile and wave to me. I'd be curious to find out who you are, do you know me, are you an old friend I haven't seen in a long time, are you a fan?

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would think catching the guys eye first and smiling would be a good start. Being a little shy is attractive.

humanearth · Answer

You wouldn't see me there. My going to club days are long gone. I think the last time I party at a club. It was New Years Eve 1999

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I don't know if you can make people but you can just say hello to someone or make eye contact and see if that helps. Or just get over being shy because not everyone wants to deal with drama.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Well, seeing as I don't go to clubs, and don't hit on women I don't know, You can't I guess.

boggboss · Answer

You couldn't at s club it'd the roll of a dice if guys want to approach or not

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Start by not trying to meet people in a nightclub.

msc545 · Answer

Grab my hand and lead me outside with you. I can't hear anything you say over the shitty music and my sort-of-effective eaplugs.

Chthou95 · Answer

Dont be in a club would be a good start. Men have the pre requisite to think you're gonna be a bitch to any man that makes a move on you in a club

Andres77 · Answer

WEAR THOSE SAME CLOTHES TO THE LIBRARY! i've had more success there and in bookstores.

Anonymous · Answer

In this day and age? Not worth it.. Its unlikely that you will get them to come up to you. Especially simply on your word you can have him put in prison if he upsets you.

Noah2023 · Answer

You have to convince me to go to a club first..

Anonymous · Answer

No need to if you're sexy n my type i will hit you up 😊

Reorx · Answer

Never happen. You won't see a guy like me in a club. Maybe a church event, museum, wine tasting, home, work etc..

TrillXHippy · Answer

You wouldn’t want to do that trust me. You’ll leave that club the second you seen me 💀 then again I don’t like going to clubs

Adam1978 · Answer

Stand by the door and they have to get past you.

Anonymous · Answer

Why would you want to meet a guy at a club of all places

mommymommymommy · Answer

Clubs aren't the greatest place for meeting decent people, They're basically for hookups

Ryfyle · Answer

Don't bother, no man actually likes clubbing.

Pohjolan · Answer

You could use a  "come here"  handsign.

Anonymous · Answer

Get on tinder or a dating app, women have way more options than men do on there

supercutebutt · Answer

Plop out a funbag.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Only simps are still doing that nonsense...

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Show more booby

prettypretty10 · Answer

ask for a lighter lol

Kelly6 · Answer

flash your tits, every guy will jump on you

EpicSnail · Answer

Hold eye contact and smile

osoli · Answer

Eye contact and smile never fails

In_Trance · Answer

Be someone guys want to approach

driven159 · Answer

just be yourself real women are the sexiest

JohnK123 · Answer

Lemme know when and Where u will be haha

Anonymous · Answer

show your booby

Slim57 · Answer

You can't, I'm not gonna be in a club

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Dance , look cute , ask for a lighter if you somke

Anonymous · Answer

It's the MeToo era so that ain't happening

JonesT10Apr · Answer

nice picture by the way

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

bend over in front of them

White_Widow · Answer

Make eye contact.

riverrat3 · Answer

Make eye contact and smile

Anonymous · Answer

Make eye contact dont smile

jshm2 · Answer

You don't.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Fuck clubs

Greenbins · Answer

Smile...

Anonymous · Answer

You can't.

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