I've seen so many marraiges in divorce. What I don't understand what makes youner woman think its okay too get involve in a relationship with a guy in his early 30's who happens to be alredy married with a stable family? Why younger woman can't just stick to men their own age why ruin a home?
Simply put they're trash. They may not even realize it but regardless they are. I used to work with a girl like this. She only flirted with guys already in relationships. And if she was successful in breaking the relationship she lost all interest in the guy. She had really low self esteem to. I think this was her toxic way of dealing with it. If she couldn't be happy she was going to see no other woman was either. I pity her, even as toxic as she is. Because she'll likely never see it, probably never be happy, and never understand why.
As economic opportunities for men dwindle due to deindustrialization, dedollarization, and affirmative action, the availability of men who can support a family decreases. This causes competition for such men to increase. Our society shed a lot of moral inhibitions, so questions of what is right and wrong will no longer impede as many women from going after a married man.
It's not that 30+ family guys are all weaklings and young women have a spell to ensnare their heart, bodies and souls.
For me it's clear and simple, those guys don't enjoy their "family life" as much as they supposing to do. On the other hand knowing their weakness for young meat, it's irresponsible to destroy families one after another as attractive young girl. You have to keep in mind, you will one day be very likely the wife of a guy who gets saliva discharge like a hungry dog when he sees a young butt.
Because they don't want to build a life together with a man and go through the tough times. They want to hop into a life that is already formed since it's the easy way to get what they want. Overall not respectable at all in my opinion. Like you said those women need to stick with men their own age.
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Well. I donât know. Some people marry for the wrong reasons. I have no idea what goes on in some peoples headsâŚ. I really just donât
You're confused because you naively believe that attraction is symmetrical. What women value in men isn't the same as what men value in women. Think about it logically. More 20 yro are living at home w/ their parents than any other generation in the history of the world. Meanwhile women in their 20's are trying to capitalize on their youth by finding someone that they admire and respect to settle down w/ them. There much more likely to do this w/ a man that has built up some value. Women are born w/ value men have to earn their value and it takes longer to earn it.
Regardless of age or gender, building a relationship on the ruins of another is so low class behavior that I dont want to be even friends with such people.
If you are not happy in a marriage, file divorce. But cheating, thats low as hitting on people in relationships.
Security and thrill. They feel safer taking someone that someone else wanted. There's a thrill to it. Lastly, guys that are having troubles at home, if they open up at work to a colleage, they can bond.
lastly... what happened to church... so many don't go, so the Kardashians and such have been teaching the values.
I think young girls want a piece of that happiness and guys there age aren't into having a family yet. So they target early 30's hoping the guy has sufficiently sown his seed and is ready to settle down.
They try to use their youth/beauty and slide right in and take his wife's place. Pretty cold thing to do, especially, if it was their intention.
Just because a man is older, that doesn't mean he is married. And good quality men want a partner that hasn't been with too many people and doesn't have a bad past. A woman's career/money doesn't add value to her for a potential SO most of the time.
I think many young women today look at a man in marriage. As a man who they love 2 be with. Cause him married means no strings attached. They are free 2 see him and other men as well. Bad as i hate some women love the changel. Meaning they want 2 see how far he will go 2 please them. Another is just human nature. Meaning they know its hard for a man 2 be faithful. Especially in 2 day world. Remember one thing its easy 2 be evil but its hard 2 be good.
Well my husband is 30 but a lot of women see an established good looking man as fair game. I've had women trying to give my husband their number and I'm right there with him.
It's a bad move getting into a relationship with a married person, even if they leave their partner for you they've a proven track record as being disloyal and will do it to you too.
Men generally cheat if sex is available, we women cheat to find a new man.
The answer is really simple. We have a generation of clown women in America. Most of them will never be satisfied. They're empty vessels who think they deserve better. Unfortunately for them reality doesn't care what they think. The universe has a way of punishing the ungrateful.
Maybe because the guys their age they meet either have "it's mine" or "give me that cause I want it" attitude? Or they're not that mature and won't be stable financially or emotionally in life?
They want men with resources, though whether a divorced man will have much in the way of resources might be questionable.
Lack of morals. They find married men exciting. Because he is older they think he is mature. They like the attention.
Any way no good excuse for doing what they do.
Younger women are immature and arenât sure what they want (hence why I donât date them)
It's the effect of to much porn. I remember this girl saying she feels like she's hot and sexy when a married man has sex with her. So cheap isn't it?
Because they have no morals or ethics. It's all about them. They don't care about the collateral damage caused to other people.
Better Q is what makes a 18yo girl marry a 50yo married guy?
The 30-year-olds are compatible. Age matters not, as itâs invisible to love.
They wanna sleep around and are taught to like an older guy.
I don't know but broken marriages make me money
It feeds their egos.
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