I've seen so many marraiges in divorce. What I don't understand what makes youner woman think its okay too get involve in a relationship with a guy in his early 30's who happens to be alredy married with a stable family? Why younger woman can't just stick to men their own age why ruin a home?
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 ySimply put they're trash. They may not even realize it but regardless they are. I used to work with a girl like this. She only flirted with guys already in relationships. And if she was successful in breaking the relationship she lost all interest in the guy. She had really low self esteem to. I think this was her toxic way of dealing with it. If she couldn't be happy she was going to see no other woman was either. I pity her, even as toxic as she is. Because she'll likely never see it, probably never be happy, and never understand why.
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Did she ever get fire frm your work place?
Opinion Owner+1 yNo. But she would quit and come back and get re-hired.
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That is just sick do you yhink she did something with her boss to get rehired?
Opinion Owner+1 yNo. That place I used to work at was just that bad. 😆 and despite her toxic behavior with men who were taken, she was actually a pretty good worker.
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671 opinions shared on Dating topic. As economic opportunities for men dwindle due to deindustrialization, dedollarization, and affirmative action, the availability of men who can support a family decreases. This causes competition for such men to increase. Our society shed a lot of moral inhibitions, so questions of what is right and wrong will no longer impede as many women from going after a married man.
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982 opinions shared on Dating topic. It's not that 30+ family guys are all weaklings and young women have a spell to ensnare their heart, bodies and souls.
For me it's clear and simple, those guys don't enjoy their "family life" as much as they supposing to do. On the other hand knowing their weakness for young meat, it's irresponsible to destroy families one after another as attractive young girl. You have to keep in mind, you will one day be very likely the wife of a guy who gets saliva discharge like a hungry dog when he sees a young butt.15 Reply- +1 y
Im 30 and a woman your generation ruin my marriage. So dnt come uo to me lik a smart alick and lecture me. Ifyiuwere 45 okay i know better to respect youand keep my mouth shut. But since you are nit 45 I don't need your advice.
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Because he doesn't know what is good for him. He wants a broke ass rather then a successful beautiful woman like me.
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You’re damn near 30 and spending this much time fighting someone in the internet? These notifications about how you’re so great are a bit much. Let it go.
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@PragmaticProfit Excuse me and why are you defending this trash she can't even affored to buy a chocolates bar. Please i look awsome and fabulous. You men once you find out a beautiful successful lady is 30 you all run away. You need glasses.
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Because they don't want to build a life together with a man and go through the tough times. They want to hop into a life that is already formed since it's the easy way to get what they want. Overall not respectable at all in my opinion. Like you said those women need to stick with men their own age.
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Lol except they won’t
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@WhiteBoyChill it's seems that way but there are still a lot of younger women out there that are looking for someone their own age especially since they are trying to avoid being groomed by older men
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@WhiteBoyChill it's only the bad ones that are trying to hop onto a older man like this
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Eh. For the most part its either A, B or C
A: A young woman gets with an older man
B: A young woman chooses to stay with guys her own age, but gets bored of them easily.
C: A young woman just resorts to outright whoredom and sex with multiple guys - +1 y
Meant to say C*
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@WhiteBoyChill lol C got me laughing 😂
And nah I talk to a lot of woman that are super into younger guys. It's becoming trendy - +1 y
Like older women you mean?
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@WhiteBoyChill nah like women of all ages
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Well yes, but they’d fall into category B. They don’t really stick around if you will
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+1 yWell. I don’t know. Some people marry for the wrong reasons. I have no idea what goes on in some peoples heads…. I really just don’t
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+1 yYou're confused because you naively believe that attraction is symmetrical. What women value in men isn't the same as what men value in women. Think about it logically. More 20 yro are living at home w/ their parents than any other generation in the history of the world. Meanwhile women in their 20's are trying to capitalize on their youth by finding someone that they admire and respect to settle down w/ them. There much more likely to do this w/ a man that has built up some value. Women are born w/ value men have to earn their value and it takes longer to earn it.
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That crazy young girl block because you got offended over me speaking the truth anyway. Why wouldn't you want to date a beautiful 40 yea old woman? Me personally i would hever date a35- 40 year old men im way toyoung for them. They only giy i want to date must be born in 1992 we will have more in common.
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@alwayreckles93 TY for sharing this as it further validates my point. In one sentence you believe you have the right to question my standards then in the next you present yours. I personally wouldn't to date a 40 yro woman because I didn't work my ass off to make myself into a successful high value man to settle for lower value women. Who you would date is completely irrelevant to me.
475 opinions shared on Dating topic. Regardless of age or gender, building a relationship on the ruins of another is so low class behavior that I dont want to be even friends with such people.
If you are not happy in a marriage, file divorce. But cheating, thats low as hitting on people in relationships.10 Reply- 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 ySecurity and thrill. They feel safer taking someone that someone else wanted. There's a thrill to it. Lastly, guys that are having troubles at home, if they open up at work to a colleage, they can bond.
lastly... what happened to church... so many don't go, so the Kardashians and such have been teaching the values.00 Reply - 963 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI think young girls want a piece of that happiness and guys there age aren't into having a family yet. So they target early 30's hoping the guy has sufficiently sown his seed and is ready to settle down.
They try to use their youth/beauty and slide right in and take his wife's place. Pretty cold thing to do, especially, if it was their intention.
00 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Just because a man is older, that doesn't mean he is married. And good quality men want a partner that hasn't been with too many people and doesn't have a bad past. A woman's career/money doesn't add value to her for a potential SO most of the time.
00 ReplyI think many young women today look at a man in marriage. As a man who they love 2 be with. Cause him married means no strings attached. They are free 2 see him and other men as well. Bad as i hate some women love the changel. Meaning they want 2 see how far he will go 2 please them. Another is just human nature. Meaning they know its hard for a man 2 be faithful. Especially in 2 day world. Remember one thing its easy 2 be evil but its hard 2 be good.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yWell my husband is 30 but a lot of women see an established good looking man as fair game. I've had women trying to give my husband their number and I'm right there with him.
It's a bad move getting into a relationship with a married person, even if they leave their partner for you they've a proven track record as being disloyal and will do it to you too.
Men generally cheat if sex is available, we women cheat to find a new man.162 Reply- +1 y
How old are you?
Opinion Owner+1 yI'm 19. Why?
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Why are you in a relationship with a 30 year odl men? He is old enough tobe your father.
Opinion Owner+1 yOnly if he knocked my mother up when he was 11.
When you find a good man you hold on to him tight. You don't wait until your 30 and decide its time to settle down asking wheres my husband.- +1 y
Excuse me ex husband left me for over a younger when women. I was 22 when i got marride. I don't understand why yiur boyfriend choose you over a beautiful successful lawyer , business or doctor wealthy 30 year old woman. I dont understand what 30 year old me see in yiu younger woman.
Opinion Owner+1 yGreat sex, fun, status, kids and so on.
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@Alwaysreckles93 That's because you projecting the things WOMEN value in a man (career, income, status), instead of asking MEN what they value in a woman (femininity, being family-oriented, being cooperative, and bringing peace). Your career and money means zero to a man, especially a successful man. In fact, it can be a negative in many ways.
Anon here has the right idea. - +1 y
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@alwaysreckless93 stop being bitter and go to therapy or no dick ever again.
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@TooHot2Care Are you serious you are defending her because she is younger. Wow o see the favoritism and bias. You 30 year olds will 9nly hold the door to younger woman but once you see a woman over age 30 and over you all act likenoh sheca hande it on her own.
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@TooHot2Care I do not need therapy
Opinion Owner+1 yYou enjoyed your teens and twenties. You are just going to have to accept getting older.
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You sound like an absolute skank to me if I’m being honest. Only sluts that want money and attention get with older men.
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@WhiteBoyChill
Given how resources have been reallocated from boys to girls, and its taking a lot longer for a man to establish himself. Younger women dating older more established men is the best solution.
Men need more time than ever to establish themselfs with homes and careers, but female biology can't wait. So going for a larger age gap is the only responsible option.
FYI that is not what I did. - +1 y
@monorprise You got a point there. It’s just I have a cousin with a 40 year old dude and in her case, she still regularly goes over to the guys place just to sleep with him
Opinion Owner+1 y@WhiteBoyChill if you want to date more women you are going to have to work to make yourself more dateable.
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Why did this become all about ME all of a sudden. 😂 And by the way, I never asked for your opinion (that was completely random) and neither do I care.
Opinion Owner+1 y@WhiteBoyChill it is my opinion box. Make your bed. Do 100 push ups and 100 sit ups b4 breakfast.
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And the issue I have is just with FINDING women that I consider dateable. I just have no interest in talking to a majority of women. I just don’t see particularly compelling reasons for me to be approaching most women.
Opinion Owner+1 y@WhiteBoyChill don't lie but that mindset will help. Good job.
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I don’t recall ever being submissive to women. So I will kindly pass on that offer. I’m not going to make myself into eye candy for you. If I desire to do so, I will. But it won't be because I’m letting women decide whether or not I date them.
That’s what a simp does - +1 y
There are plenty of studies to show that modern women cannot keep long term relationships. This isn’t me just “coping” here
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Men don’t care about high status positions such a lawyer or doctor when it comes to their attraction toward women.
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@WhiteBoyChill I have a cousn too that married a guy i went to school with henis now 31. Boy heis a jealous fella. Apparently he contrs her every move.
Opinion Owner+1 yI love that. Does he spank her too? We are doing the whole Christian Discipline thing, I love when he takes control, spanking is meant to be a punishment for my disobedience but it always ends in hot sex.
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Listen little girl. Just qiet until youturn 30 he will dump you and he will moveonto the next younger woman then yiu will be history sadly woman your age don't know how to cook or clean anddeoend my mommy once later expect a old men to pay for. our ass. We 30 yea old woman we make more money then you we own our house we are financially successful.
Opinion Owner+1 yBut you've no husband or kids. Also 80%of divorce is intiated by women and if divorce does happen I get 50%of his assests, alimony, the family home and child support. I will be OK. we are very happy, when I'm 30 he will be 41. You've made your life choices don't be mad at me out of bitterness and jealousy. You had your teens and twenties, this is my time in the sun.
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Except the difference between you and her is that she’s built an honorable life for herself while you’re just out here whoring around.
If you ever happen to have kids, what will you have to say for yourself? - +1 y
I am way more financially stable then you! What do you have? I own a piaf off home a paid off truck Im debt free and a bank accuont full of cash. While tour broke daddy issues ass has to depend on a grandpa. I am a mom and because of a useless trash like you my husband left me now he is a 31 year old men child talking to stupidbyoung 20 year olds who only want his cash. I a worth more then you. I bet you still depend on your mom or that grandpa of your boyfriend to pay for your cheap ass.
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You know i find it very interesting why you couldn't date a young guy. I know because you must be ugly looking you had no othr choice but to date a ol grandpa. I look way more beautiful and way more younger than you. I had 21 year old guys hitting on me thinking I was 18 . People always tell me i look 18 .
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@Greenbins How am i bitter? Because i am telling her that taking a martiade 30 year old guy is wrong?
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You know if you ask me yournold grandpa boyfriend really should get back to his ex girlfriend
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@alwayreckles93 What is wrong about it? Women have been marring older men since day one.
Historically and practically a man's resources and ability to support her and her children is more important than his age gap. The whole propose of marriage is children, for a man that requires he is established and stable enough to support his wife and kids. A woman by contrast MUST be young enough to actually have such kids.
Marring a husband who is around your age is simply isn't part of the equation. Its a would be nice add on IF you want something else from the relationship where its relevant. - +1 y
@alwayreckles93 I’m willing to bet I’m more mature than whatever 30 year old guys she is dating. It’s her loss though
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Not that I’d want her but yk still
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@WhiteBoyChill You act way more mature thn the idiots 30 year old men.
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@alwayreckles93 They’re man childs. Any guy with half a brain knows girls like her are disposable sluts. But they’re so simple minded all they care about is just the easy pathway to sex. Even if the girl is just using them
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@monorprise I am 30 if a 40 year old creep came up to me asking me on a date. I sure will be creep out.
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@TooHot2Care Listen you Mr Karen blueberry you need to mind yiur god dam business. I don't understand what men your age see in younger womab when they got nothing to offer. Have fun eating mcdonalds.
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@alwayreckles93
That is more the teaching of a relatively recently popular cultural teachings. Teachings from a culture that has since abandoned the institution marriage for similar reasons, and is now itself already well almost out the door demographically due to such disastrously low birth rates.
Our cultural leaders today drive a great many thing which are very harmful to us for their own reasons. Unfortunately theses reasons like themselfs are quite divorced from reality of life. Which is why the people who follow them are dying out.
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@monorprise Dude. 90% of girls my age are absolute m*therfcking filthy sluts. You really think they approach older men out of genuine love for them as people?
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@WhiteBoyChill Your generation is really screwed up by your educational and cultural leaders in schools & media.
I am not sure how most of you will even survive, having learned soo many thing that are not only true but very harmful to you. Its a very shameful crime what has been done to your generation.
Still by trial and error some of you will find a way, it may take you much longer still, and frankly even older generations are already well passed the point the point of affordability. In terms of the difficulty to get established. But some of you will do it. - +1 y
@monorprise Not even me that i am 30 i would never consider dating a 40 year old men old enough to be my dad. I have a paid off house a paid off car i am debt free very successful financially. I still don't understand why 31 year old men would give me a chace when we are both wealthy and at the same social level. Most of the guys my age turn away when i tell them my ae.
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@WhiteBoyChill You have agood head ontour shoulders. I pray you one day find they right girl for you. Sadly most men my age are sick perverts who only want to cahse after younger woman.
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@monorprise Now a days gen Z woman are useless and all of them are slutts.
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@TooHot2Care Youmust be friends with Fuentes and Shades Mcgee.
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@monorprise Oh my gosh you arevjust like funetes 30 is not old and fyi there are 30 year odl woman who are still virgin not sure where you got that 30 year old woman have bagged.
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@alwayreckles93 *claps hands* alright, fine. Just for that crack? No bar for one month. No sex for one month. No boys for one month.
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@alwayreckles93 for the record, by Fuentes…. Do you mean that really weird guy on this site? Yeah, I am NOT friends with that…. “Thing” I don’t even know who shades is…. Lol
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@TooHot2Care yes that weido. God i can't stand Fuentes. shades is another weirdo prevert who only dates younger woman well both of them have no respect they called me old.
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@alwayreckles93 so I have no problem with dating younger, but I also have no problem dating older women either.
long as there’s good sex and respect, who cares.
Anyway, Fuentes is weird, ignore him.
You’re aight.
You’re still grounded tho. - +1 y
@TooHot2Care excuse me im an adult!
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@alwayreckles93 wanna go for two months, young lady? Go ahead. Try me.
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@TooHot2Care I am not listening. Im 30and still fabulous.
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@alwayreckles93 that just bought you 3 months, and we’re not getting Louis Vuitton for your birthday anymore.
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@TooHot2Care lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 well i got my chickfil laid and i just burts out laughing yes i got myself chickfilaid andntheres nothing you can do.
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@TooHot2Care Three months? But thatsmy whole summer break 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
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@alwayreckles93 I fail to see how that’s my problem….
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Nothing I can do…..*nods menacingly*……
+1 yThe answer is really simple. We have a generation of clown women in America. Most of them will never be satisfied. They're empty vessels who think they deserve better. Unfortunately for them reality doesn't care what they think. The universe has a way of punishing the ungrateful.
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+1 yMaybe because the guys their age they meet either have "it's mine" or "give me that cause I want it" attitude? Or they're not that mature and won't be stable financially or emotionally in life?
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. They want men with resources, though whether a divorced man will have much in the way of resources might be questionable.
00 ReplyLack of morals. They find married men exciting. Because he is older they think he is mature. They like the attention.
Any way no good excuse for doing what they do.10 Reply- 547 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yYounger women are immature and aren’t sure what they want (hence why I don’t date them)
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+1 yIt's the effect of to much porn. I remember this girl saying she feels like she's hot and sexy when a married man has sex with her. So cheap isn't it?
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Disgraceful and disgusting!
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Exactly 💯!
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I don't think many people will share their opinion on this post cause many of them love to do it.
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I can tell. Well belive or not im actually 30 .
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I was wondering if you were really 22 cause you look like you are in your late 20s. So I believe you.
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Arebyou calling me old?
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No, I'm not haha
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You have a beautiful child 😊
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My neice actually but thanks
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No way! I came across your profile a few times. And I was always like, "Aww so cute"
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I'm leaving this app. It was nice talking to someone genuine 😊. Be safe and take care, bye!
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+1 yBecause they have no morals or ethics. It's all about them. They don't care about the collateral damage caused to other people.
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+1 yBetter Q is what makes a 18yo girl marry a 50yo married guy?
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🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
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Yes, I was pretty disgusted. His poor 50yo ex-wife told me the story.
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+1 yThe 30-year-olds are compatible. Age matters not, as it’s invisible to love.
00 Reply They wanna sleep around and are taught to like an older guy.
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Based! I love when women my age actually get it! Cheers Gen Z! 🍺
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@WhiteBoyChill maybe so if you're applying the Principle of Pre-Selection but I believe some guys are gonna be seen as attractive even if they were complete strangers.
take Chris Hemsworth for example. let's just say he never existed until today. he's 6'3, blonde hair, blue eyes, deep voice, nice body etc. women even a bunch of young women are gonna find that attractive instantly.
sure peer pressure might play some part in influencing decisions but the biological factors within attraction still exist there - +1 y
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+1 yI don't know but broken marriages make me money
00 Reply 3K opinions shared on Dating topic. It feeds their egos.
20 ReplyWhat age of women are you talking about?
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Early 20's
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+1 yTake two
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Do you perfer successfully wealthy beautiful 30 year old woman?
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If a girl has money that's her own has nothing to do with me. And more about how both get on age doesn't really matter.
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So you perfer a worldly younger woman that can't cook you a fresh good meal or clean? Why does age does not matter?
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Age doesn't matter older younger I don't mind. All matter how both click with one another
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