What does your dating pool look like at your age?

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Legendarylegacy13 · Accepted Answer

Okay, gotta stay away from neighbors and people at work... lol..

Keishio · Accepted Answer

Divorced and or single mums for the most part

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Nonexistent...

AviatorTom · Answer

In my age group, there are many divorced women looking to date.

Msputiton · Answer

So yeah.

My momma was askin me why i don't date.

I was like, it's unhealthy to date my generation.

We have everyone and everything from social media, to movies tv shows that try to normalize. Stepping out. Cheating, sexual connections are more important than emotional connections.

Shows especially catered to the black community. Create this fantasy that is really a good thing to cheat, steal, mock your partner, and your partner will stay and forgive you.

And social media teaches it to. Got people bragging about no relationship just sleep with as many people possible. And it's no big deal to be several random dude's BM.

Too many people are proudly following these trends.

I see middle schoolers bragging bout how they can steal someone's man. Bragging about body counts. They on there trying to be sexualized at like 13 or 14, and grown ass dudes oblige.

So yeah this is what my dating pool looks like, and i rather be single and stay away from this toxic mess

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Every gal I want to give a chance lives hundreds if not thousands of miles away. You in the Philippines, Wilgrace in the Philippines (though it'd be her second chance), another gal in Indiana, and otherwise, I don't have a pool. I have a desert. Everything is dead, except me. Hate to be so dramatic, but there's a few dozen I wouldn't touch anymore if I had an 80-mile-long pole.

Every so often, someone cute walks into the gas station. Then, she starts cussing like a sailor and asking for Marlboro, and I'm thinking: "Never mind." Then, she starts talking about her fourth baby daddy, and what a moron he is. And then my mind is REALLY thinking: "Abort mission! Abort mission!!!"

The cash register is basically a confessional booth. And I suddenly understand why priests have trouble sleeping. The hardest question to ask politely is: "Why? Why would anyone do that?" And I am tempted to ask that many times.

I hate being lonely. But I dread getting chopped to pieces by a psycho woman that much more.

But to at least find someone would be nice. Be something to focus on apart from current events. Which just make me wish I could turn into the Punisher, because there's some mofos that really deserve it, and they seem pretty untouchable right now.

Aboutkt1011 · Answer

This is really contingent to the specific person. There have been plenty of women that rejected even conversating with me because they do not like the way I physically look via photograph. I'm person i experience a whole different story, I get compliments/hit on by females all the time. From the cashier to my managers at work. I've witnessed the way women interact and I can deduce that ANY conversation beyond "hi and bye," is a sign of interest, I always receive words beyond hi and bye. I think it's maybe because of the way i dress and my lifestyle. I've always driven very nice cars and my clothing is always very eccentric, but matching from the hat down to the shoes. I live a very single life and women seem to understand that, which is where the problem Lay. I never acted upon their gestures and hints til recently, I've attempted to reciprocate about a year ago and i have come to one conclusion... ALL WOMEN PLAY GAMES!!! Male or female, We are all human beings, at any point a female can NOT play games if she decides to, like us men want them to be, but they won't (at least they haven't with me) until they meet Mr. Right, only chance decides that. Men try to run game on women and that's a waste of time, those men are only doing so because all women play games. Dating doesn't exist today because of how perverted men are, it's about which man a woman decides on accepting.

HighValue · Answer

I have multiple women from 19 to early 40s interested in and hitting on me IRL every year. I always find things wrong/unacceptable with them though. I think it has a lot to do with living in liberal California. The majority of people don't match moral values. I'll likely move later this year though to a state that more closely matches me so then it would be more likely to find someone that is morally compatible.

I am only interested in a LTR, so morals are always an important consideration for me.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I have no idea what the dating pool is like in my neck of the woods. Not really trying at this point.

One cute girl at Starbucks keeps asking me lots of questions, when I go through the drive through with all my turtle traps, fishnets, mountain bike and kayak on my truck. Not sure if she is interested in me or what I do for living.

Bricealan · Answer

It seems that thee are always more single /available women than men... Even in my early 30's women I met were married/divorced more than once, and many had 'baggage' from previous marriages/relationships. Now at my age, the same condition still exists, although they have MORE marriages/divorces behind them and probably more bitterness as a result.
That said, I still find many worth while women to date.

IronLady6354 · Answer

The dating pool for men my age often isn't that great. Don't get me wrong, there are some great single straight guys my age, but (in all honesty) they're often the exception. Oftentimes the really great ones have already been taken

That's why I lowered the dating range of my dating pool quite a bit. There's a lot better options among younger guys since not all the good ones there have been picked (or at least that's been my experience).

DizzyDesii · Answer

Fine af but fuck fuck fuckboy central. I legit tell them what I want in a guy and you’d think they’d move on once we’ve established, they are not that. I want longterm and they want temporary. But its like they like a challenge. They really think they can get me to settle for less. And I know its a waste of my time, but i slick like to watch them try to convince me 😂

Lynx122 · Answer

Well I'm autistic so the dating pool has always been pretty small. For most of my life I didn't understand a lot of things and I was anxious because the way people reacted was unpredictable to me and the most difficult interaction was dating because there's so much unspoken things going on. But I feel like my life is getting better and better and I have found a woman who loves me very much so I guess but I don't know how it looks outside of her and I don't really care either.

electromagnetic · Answer

I’m not sure what the dating pool is like as I am not single. But my friend isn’t impressed.
I don’t think it’s dirty like that swamp water though. I really jus think people need to be realistic with their standards and who they’re hoping to attract.

TrueConfection · Answer

I'm married, so the pool is closed.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm married but when I was single trying to find a man it was like this picture

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Looks good. Right now I have two decent looking chicks that I know like me.

One is Venezuelan which she is a solid 8 on the beauty scale. Amazing hair and nice body.

The other is a Cuban chick, she's a 7.7 on a beauty scale and nice body. So my options right now are looking good.

lightbulb27 · Answer

long lines of single women 30's to 50's unfortunately. It's sad, a lot of them give up. somebody needs to develop the men more so women can find partners, and needs to fix women's culture so they don't trash the men.

Sonorous · Answer

I would say gigantic... But I'm a black guy that's usually not into black women so let's be real. It's small af. 🤣 But if my skin tone was different it would be bigger.

ChiTown33 · Answer

What dating pool? 😂

Actually it seems like the demographic that contacts me the most are women slightly older than me. I haven't went on a date in a couple years. though so I'm going to stick to my original statement.😂

Ben487 · Answer

This or this

mandyfire98 · Answer

Anywhere from college age to like 40s. It's a pretty big pool hahaha

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Hookers, fatties and ''normalo's''. I'd say --->

NathanDavis · Answer

never been a worry at all... lol today is no different

MementoMori777 · Answer

Ever seen pools that are closed and got that little bit if water on a little corner somewhere? Like that

Guardian45 · Answer

Let me put it this way, my dating pool was a puddle, but became a blindingly white, perfectly flat salt (made by my dried tears) desert stretching as far as the eye can see in any direction with a salt crust a few inches thick.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Pretty much anything that's legal is on the table.

rosemilk · Answer

i'm assuming extremely bad lmao. glad i don't have to deal with that!

Effably · Answer

An unending mass of people you probably can't tell apart from each other without nametags.

smilelots · Answer

for dating long term Im guessing someone around my age lets say 40 to 60 for just play time lol 30 to 70 but that depends on the person.. hope that makes sense.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Pretty nasty. All single moms, and lots of mudsharks.

dragoblack · Answer

Absolutely garbage, because everyone just wants to ghost each other over small things and inconveniences instead of getting to know the person or they want hookup.

Slim57 · Answer

Like that, luckily I found one from a different pool

Fireguy17 · Answer

pretty good. There are more single women than single men, so the odds are in my favor.

AsaKyo · Answer

It looks like a bunch of guys who don't give a fuck and have many options lmao

stratford · Answer

Not very good. The ladies I would date all seem to be going steady. How about you?

VikingWarLord · Answer

It's not the gawdam age, it's the country Over half the women here are obese !

Noah2023 · Answer

… .

Reorx · Answer

Not too good & I'm getting a bit tired of being a good boy:) May have to have a hot guy summer this year, I'm tired of being alone.

Summeroflove · Answer

I just go to the hot tub lmao

dudeinohio · Answer

Honestly, the same as it did when I was a younger, surprisingly.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not limit myself to my age so it might be better than for most.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Not the best. But I am hoping to travel and relocate in the future and stuff

Anonymous · Answer

I do dates older women then my age girls.. Older women's are actually lottery you get matureness & good experience on bed..😊

robocop666 · Answer

35 so its dried up a little but I look good.

exitseven · Answer

I a, m married and do not have a dating pool.

Unit1 · Answer

empty. I think women probably hate me.

Fuentes · Answer

Normal women always stare at me

Justmeagain1 · Answer

Just saying I have no idea and I’m terrified

Avicenna · Answer

It's large

Sofie87 · Answer

I tend to date younger especially as I get older.

Andres77 · Answer

Are you really dating now?

magiusX26 · Answer

i have a dating pool? ha!

hbg84 · Answer

A stagnant swimming pool full of man eating gators

PointTaken · Answer

Not sure but probably find out soon.

CassandraSpender · Answer

It doesn't

nawtee_me · Answer

Just a puddle right now…..

EaterPeter · Answer

It's a small but Rosie pond it's America baby

Jerre · Answer

I’m just over 50 and date women from 18-65

Molly1997 · Answer

I always have hundreds available.

Anonymous · Answer

A little bit like the pic

jamesgoldman · Answer

Empty, thankfully

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