Boyfriend follows half naked tiktok girls?

[Anonymous]

I just decided to check my boyfriend following list and surprised to see the type of women he was following. Made me feel like shit. Wondering if i’m overreacting or if i should bring this up and how to do it.

[Anonymous]

Why did you post this question twice? Seriously get over it. There are worse things in life. I swear guys are better lg staying single when they have to deal with BS like this. Sorry but I just think it is so damn stupid to get upset over this.

[Asker]

This one glitched and looked like it didn’t post and it’s not letting me delete it. Why are you getting so worked up about this? I have different boundaries than you, it’s not that deep. There’s worse things in life than getting upset about how I want to be treated in my relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

It's pathetic to get upset just because he is following other girls. Geez don't get into a relationship if you can't handle it. It's so damn childish and you girls are such cry babies. You are seriously pathetic

[Asker]

It not because he’s following other girls. It’s the type of girls he follows. If you don’t understand why are you responding.

[Anonymous]

I think all men do this, especially when we’re younger. There’s always going to be someone who is prettier, younger, etc. But the difference is does he act on all his thoughts? Would you rather he look at it online or put fulfilling those thoughts? I know ideally you wouldn’t want either but more than likely that’s not going to happen.

[Asker]

But not all men do this. The two other guys i was with before him never followed women like this. That’s why it’s a shock to me because he’s even religious. I’d rather him be able to control his urges

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so if none of the two other men you were w before eversis this why aren't you w either one of them? Every man looks, some more obvious than others.

[Anonymous]

His visual fantasy is no different than your mental fantasy.

men are visual, women are mental.

you watch chick flicks, read 50 shades trash, etc. The most common female fantasy (70% of women) is being force fucked by a stranger.

So mentioning his fantasy and trying to shame it is very hypocritical, controlling, and wrong.

[Truthatanycost]

I wonder if you could handle the type of man that has the mindset, self control and class not to be doing such a thing...

[Jakartheg]

It is not a big deal many people follow others because they genuinely enjoy their content as long as he is not making weird comments on their posts or flirting with these individuals I do not see an issue

[Anonymous]

It's natural for guys to lust over pictures of hot girls. It's different if he actually knew any of them or talked to them.

[In_Trance]

Stop checking his following list. You're going to fuck everything up

[itsalyssaagain]

If it bothers you tell him.