My boyfriend liking pictures of half naked girls?

[Nezzy96]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for four years... And he keep liking girls pictures that have their boobs hanging out that I know who are pretty easy.. And I've told him several times that it bothers me and he continues to do it... he's cheated on me once like about a year ago so it makes me worry about it more... I know I shouldn't worry but I'm a extreme worrying type of person. I just want know how I can stop stressing over this so much...

[Levin]

I think there's a few components of this. I don't see why he would continue to rate those girls, if he knows it upsets you. Quite simply, why would he want to upset you? So it would appear he doesn't give a shit. Also, by your admission, you are jealous, and that can cause you to see things that aren't there? And maybe be burdensome at times, from his perspective, so he may act out as a result? I mean, it's important to remember, that you ultimately can't control someone, if someone is going to cheat, there are going to cheat, worry or not, so worrying seems kind of superfluous. But in a relationship, with good communication, and a sense of closeness, I personally wouldn't worry about cheating at all. Like, it would just seem unlikely to me.

It sounds like there's a lot of unresolved emotions here. How come you forgave him when he cheated? I could forgive someone, but I couldn't be with them, because I can't understand why someone would cheat, it would make a mockery of the relationship, and I'd just think the other person is too immature to be in a relationship with me, and needs time to see the impact of their actions. If I just let them back, they're not really learning anything at all. Is your boyfriend emotionally immature? If that is the case, why do you stay with him? Maybe this is deeply tied into your self-esteem, since people who genuinely like themselves, would respect themselves too much to allow themselves to be taken advantage of?

[godfatherfan]

You are still a woman right? you still have a normal sex drive? you still find guys attractive? you have not stopped being a normal human woman since you have been in a relationship right?
so why do women thing guys stop being normal? he found you because he was attracted to you. so why would he stop finding women attractive? what matters is when he gets all hot and bothered your the only one he comes to. If he cheated on you... then you must have your reasons for taking him back. once a cheater always a cheater. I made it 25 years with my ex and never cheated. and I only knew her 1 month before going into the military.. so you have the right to be concerned about cheating but no because he is looking at naked women. All guys look at naked women, all guys watch p*rn , a guys masturbate.. even if you have sex with us all the time.. there is going to be a time when we just need a quick one...
So you have every right to worry about him cheating.
but for the sake of the next guy your with... you need to not worry about watching p*rn, looking at naked women, or masturbating.
hey, your free to look at naked guys, masturbate all you want... or watch any kind of p*rn also... it goes both ways...

[Nezzy96]

Not when it's people who have tried to steal him before and he talks about how great the boobs looks and stuff. I don't like other guys pictures or anything a because he would fuss at me and I feel no use to it. He fussed at me for liking my cousins photo because he didn't know it was my cousin... and I'm to tied up on him to look at other things like that... I don't care if he watches porn... I only care when he does it to people I know.

[justbeinghonest]

HAHAHAHA you should worry. But you sound like a girl that's easy to walk over. He cheated on you, he does this in front of you and your friends. He isn't ashamed of what he did and what he does. Why are you with him again? Don't be surprise if he has a few hook ups on speed dial.
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Sure you can do better honey.

[dreamingincake]

Well he obviously has no regard for your wishes in the matter, so you should either deal with it and just except that he's not going to stop or you should end the relationship.

[Anonymous]

You're too good for him. He's a cheater. Dump this guy and get a better one who actually respects you. You're a pretty girl and I'm sure you have a nice personality :)

[Anonymous]

You are way too good for him.

So you don't like it and he doesn't care.
He cheated on you and you haven't dumped him.

Wow, I did not know that there still such girls…

Darling, have some self-respect, if you were my girlfriend I would treat you like a queen and would expect you to treat me like a king. It is mutual respect. Not just one-sided.

I love you, means to me that I would die for that person, and I expect the same in return.

If a girl cheated on me, I would dump her.
If we had kids, I would through her out.
If she would try to divorce me and take my children and money, I would burn our house down and all money in it.

That may sound extreme, but I have moral guidelines and I expect everyone around me to follow the same guidelines, if they don't want to they can leave. If they want to hurt me, I either ask God to bring me justice or will destroy everything they want from me.

Go to church. You would find plenty of decent men there, all better than your current "lover".

[Jaron29]

Why did you even forgive him when he has cheated on you before? You are another nice girl wasted on a shithead guy. Lol.

Anyway, very evidently from what you have described about your bf, it already clearly reveals his true colours. I hope your next bf will treat you well. (:
Good luck.

[Topshelf11]

I second this opinion so much. He cheated on you girl!! Now he's doing something you asked him not to (I don't care If 'all guys' do it) Hell if my girl asked me to stop sleeping in a bed and then gave me some solid reasons why, I'd stop because dammit when she's happy I'm happy, and I'd do anything to make her happy. Stop wasting your time on him, and go find yourself a real man hun. I wish you the best of luck

[Shaggy5150]

He does it because he knows he can and does. He cheated and you looked the other way. He knows you won't do anything about him looking at other women.
He doesn't respect you. He does what he wants and doesn't care.
To stop this, dump him and find a man that is what you want, need and deserve.

[Theguyoverthere]

I find it immature when guys do that. They're just feeding the ego of an attention whore you can't keep a guy around without resorting to that. It's like "Look at my selfie with my boobs" and then under "514 people liked this."

[jacquesvol]

If a guy, any guy (myself included) sees a sports car, a Porsche or Corvette or an Italian fancy thing, hell be interested too and like it. He won't sell his Ford or Chevy and take a mortgage on his house to buy one. But he'll still like it. Same for 'hot' girls.

[HappyToBeAlive]

He cheated on you and you're still with him? If you dumped Jim right now, I can guarantee you some better guy will come along. Leave his ass

[Anonymous]

He's not going to change. Put up with it or dump him. I'd dump anyone who cheatedon me

[Anonymous]

You know he most likely fantasizes about them too right? He probably masturbates to them like any other guy.

[vincehb89]

dump is ass you deserve better

[sweetestdreams]

He wants to have sex with them

[Anonymous]

He obviously wants to fuck other girls...