My boyfriend gets off on avoiding me because he know it irks me. But why does this satisfy him instead of loving me?

[Jlust255]

[Anonymous]

Because you let him do it. Avoiding you isn’t something he shouldve been able to keep doing in order to get off on in it the first place. But by repeatedly allowing that rather than maintaining some sort of boundary, he doesn’t respect or value your presence. If he did value you then he wouldn’t keep risking losing you, and if he respected you he wouldn’t make a kink out of hurting your feelings.

[Quackthulu2]

You are a grown ass adult. Why are you playing games? Just dump his ass already and be done with it.

[Summeroflove]

Probably because you shouldn’t be with someone who does this

[Jlust255]

But I just don’t understand why he acts this way.

[Summeroflove]

Because he likes hurting you.

[megzs16]

Who knows he could have control issues.

[Massageman]

Power. Time to go.