She likes me back but, she doesn't want to date, only fuck?

[Anonymous]

She claims it's because she's been hurt too much that she doesn't want to date, but, she'll still fuck? That doesn't make sense

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel confused by this situation. It's possible that this girl may have her own reasons for not wanting to pursue a relationship, but still being interested in a physical connection.

It's important to remember that everyone has their own boundaries and preferences when it comes to relationships and intimacy. If you're not comfortable with a purely physical connection and are looking for something more emotional or romantic, it's okay to communicate that and set your own boundaries.

It's also important to make sure that you're both on the same page about what this relationship would entail and that you're both clear about your intentions and expectations. If you're not comfortable with a purely physical relationship, it's okay to decline her offer and prioritize your own needs and boundaries.

It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with and what you want out of a relationship. If you're not comfortable with a purely physical connection or feel like you want something more emotional or romantic, it may be worth having an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and what you're looking for.

[OlderAndWiser]

You don’t understand. Within her framework and her experiences, that decision may be quite obvious and make perfect sense. I’m more endorsing her decision; I’m just saying that there is probably some logic in it.


It is also possible that she is telling herself “it’s just sex and I won’t get involved” so that she can start dating without being afraid. Once you have had a few dates, she may start to let her guard down. For most people (excluding those who really only want recreational sex) having sex will make them feel closer to their partner, so. . . she may have this attitude initially but it may not last very long.

[Anonymous]

i think she is emotionally exhausted. and does'nt want to get attached so that she won't get hurt again.

[TheSpaceGnome]

That kind of logic is dumb.

Why be upset over a loss if attachment is so unimportant?

Refusing any attachment hurts even more than trying and failing does.

[ShesRad80]

makes no sense to me but most people these days are living ass backwards

[Anonymous]

Good. Fuck her brains out like the hoe she is. Another dude did you a favor man. He destroyed her so you can now just have her body. Take advantage of it. You don't want what's in her head anyway man. It's all kinds of fucked up in there. Use her holes and be satisfied with that. The more broken girls the more spread legs out there for all of us.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ditch her, she's an idiot.

I feel your pain dude, most of the women I meet just want sex, its dissapointing and very frustrating.

[TracyF]

Why do you care? If there is no future of a relationship don't sleep with her.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's ideal bro!