I met a girl because her family moved here from a different state. We instantly clicked and we’re the only ones at our job the same age so it feels like it would be expected that we’re friends but we got along so well from the first day.
We talk about everything and have had long conversations at work and laughed together. She told me about her sexuality and her being bi and her past toxic relationship and how it ruined her perspective on dating. When the Barbie movie came out we went to see it together and she wanted to hangout again after wards.
We were gonna hang the weekend after the next one because she wanted to relax the following weekend but the weekend we planned for got cancelled because I was going to the beach. But I wanted to hangout before I started college again so I asked her a couple of times if she still wanted to hangout maybe like twice and one time she said she was broke and the next time she said I could come to a cookout at her house with family but she didn’t bring it up again so I assumed it didn’t happen and I haven’t asked again since.
Before we hung out the first time she kept hinting that she wanted to meet new people and I offered for her to hangout with me because she doesn’t know anyone and she was like “yes! I was waiting for you to ask”. She also has told me she is awkward and wants the other person to make the first move.
She hasn’t asked to hangout again since the movies and I know she likes me because she sent me a text on my first day of classes wishing me good luck and also tells me all the time how sweet I am and how genuine and great my personality is. She said I’m “easy to make friends with” and she's also complimented my skin and teeth and told me I looked cute. she told me she had to rush out of work because she said she was going to dinner with a friend ( who lives in a close city ). She hung out with this friend while I went to the beach but said the friend asked this time.
Why doesn’t she wanna hang with me?
We talk about everything and have had long conversations at work and laughed together. She told me about her sexuality and her being bi and her past toxic relationship and how it ruined her perspective on dating. When the Barbie movie came out we went to see it together and she wanted to hangout again after wards.
We were gonna hang the weekend after the next one because she wanted to relax the following weekend but the weekend we planned for got cancelled because I was going to the beach. But I wanted to hangout before I started college again so I asked her a couple of times if she still wanted to hangout maybe like twice and one time she said she was broke and the next time she said I could come to a cookout at her house with family but she didn’t bring it up again so I assumed it didn’t happen and I haven’t asked again since.
Before we hung out the first time she kept hinting that she wanted to meet new people and I offered for her to hangout with me because she doesn’t know anyone and she was like “yes! I was waiting for you to ask”. She also has told me she is awkward and wants the other person to make the first move.
She hasn’t asked to hangout again since the movies and I know she likes me because she sent me a text on my first day of classes wishing me good luck and also tells me all the time how sweet I am and how genuine and great my personality is. She said I’m “easy to make friends with” and she's also complimented my skin and teeth and told me I looked cute. she told me she had to rush out of work because she said she was going to dinner with a friend ( who lives in a close city ). She hung out with this friend while I went to the beach but said the friend asked this time.
Why doesn’t she wanna hang with me?
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It sounds like she still does. I mean like she said she's shy or whatever and waits for the other person to make the first move.
Well she invited you out the the cookout and you didn't go. Sure to you maybe it wasn't intentional to be you blowing her off. But maybe she saw it as that. Could be a simple misunderstanding. Maybe she doesn't like to make the first move in fear of being stood up, like you potentially mightve. It doesn't seem like anything bad happened. Just hit her up again and ask her to hang out somewhere or something. If she doesn't reply or blows you off again. Then there's a cause for concern. But only then. For now I think you should just try
About the cookout she mentioned it once then never again so I think it just never ended up happening but still she didn’t mention hanging out alone since the movies.