Why do you think women are more successful at getting swipes on Tinder?

[Anonymous]

More men than women on there?
Women don't swipe on every man they see?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Metaphorically, men have seeds and women have lands.

And when you’ve got a land, even if not at the best place, you know there will be someone willing to plant that seed on your land, that might not be the best fruit you expected but all in all, you are certain you won’t stay uncultivated, however men have seeds and if they are too picky they might fail getting any land at all and even if they plant it on one land, what to do with all the other seeds you still hold in your hands, there are so many uncultivated lands around, how to miss the opportunity of planting more?

That’s it. What woman have is one and limited, what men have is plenty. So women have a higher value for men than men do for women.

Imagine you are a farmer and want to have a good result next year, would you plant your crops only in lands near the river? Or would you try your best to cultivate as many lands as possible?

[Asker]

Thats witty

[Roronoa_Zoro]

Hahaha, nice analogy

[Roronoa_Zoro]

Choose the better seeds

[Sunssong]

na I want 1 girl. Why would I want multiple lands for?

[Anonymous]

Because guys on there tend to swipe at any woman they think is hot or easy. We have to be more careful than guys do. Plus the sheer amount of guys sending us shit to us, means your chances get lower and lower by sheer statistics.

[Anonymous]

1. There are more men than women on there. That’s the biggest factor. If it was the opposite, women would have a harder time than men on dating apps.

2. for some reason men swipe right on everything.

3. men dont see women as dangerous because we are physically stronger, but women have to be more careful. Not saying that all women think men are dangerous, but going out with a stranger is riskier for women due to the fact that they can be overpowered easier than the other way around.

FemmeFatale indirectly spoke my point 1.

[inhua]

women statistically have more options on dating apps than men do

and traditionally men are the pursuers and women are the choosers so there's that

[Asker]

does tradition play a part in dating apps?

[inhua]

to some degree yes because women still want traditional men regardless of whether they themselves are modern or traditional. it's ok for traditional women to want traditional men but for modern women that's where the disconnect is

[Asker]

right because you can't be in cruise control and sport mode at the same time

[coachTanthony]

Because women are choosy when swiping and men are taught to swipe on everyone and see what shakes out.

[Avicenna]

Both of those are reasons, plus tons of thirsty guys on there

[RingOfFire]

Same as any other dating/social media site on the Net... men like to look... they are more attracted by the visual so womens' profiles get a lot more hits than mens'. Men are the hunters. Men pursue, women are pursued. Women don't need to pursue because the men pursue them.

Nothing has changed since the old days when we met women in bars. The bars had "womens' nights" when women got in free or got free drinks. Why? Because they knew if they brought in more women, the men would come. So the women were the bait and the men pursued. Worked like a charm!

This is just a digital version of the same old same old. Nature never changes.

[LazerBean]

Because men have lower standards and tend to be more desperate

[Asker]

should men raise their standards?

[cocobellass]

Either their profile pages are horrible because they are going after the make gaze which has been the case for several of my make friends, after I had touched their profiles they got matches. One guy literally had a "joke" picture where he had his pants down to his knees, and thought that would be funny to the vast majority of women? Like do u want to get laid or not my man?

Also women are beautiful and why wouldn't you want to swipe on them? 😍

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I matched with over 30 women in one day on Tinder once. I tried talking to all of them, and guess how many I ended up meeting. Go ahead, guess...


Tinder sucks and matches mean fuck all

[nastyb]

women tend to get used for sex or get sexually assaulted a lot in online dating. just cuz they get more swipes, it doesn't mean they are better off.

[thatshydork]

I know for a fact that women on Tinder don’t usually swipe on every man they see.

[desidoll]

More men than women over there. Plus men are not as picky when it comes to sex.

[4ngelic]

men are hornier

[mommymommymommy]

cause tinder is just for sex. not dating

[Asker]

definitely encourages it

[LiamJHayden]

More men are thirthy.