Are these red flags from a girl?

[Anonymous]

I matched with this girl on bumble. I’m 29 and she's 21. When I first matched with her she chatted me and I responded. I didn’t answer then she double texted me “hello?” From there I got her number.

I just matched her on Sunday by the way. She texted me Monday during work. There were times where I wouldn’t respond to her for 10-15 min and shell go “u there?” or? Again, only 10-15 minutes.. She also asked another time if i blocked her..

She was also saying I have to impress her and her best guy friend and that theyre a “package deal”. She said she's down to meet up and all but i get very clingy vibes from her? or am i just overreacting? I’ve been outta the dating scene for a bit..

[Kiss_Me]

It's actually an unannounced test. She does not even recognize it as a test, but it is.

She wants to know if you are the type of guy that will submit to being at her beck and call.

Fail the test, and you will be perceived as weak. It will give her encouragement to disrespect your time, etc.

Pass the test, and she will see you as powerful, confident, and more attractive.

Find a charming, polite, and firm way of telling her the texting thing cannot continue.

The "guy friend" thing... Rinse and repeat what I stated above.

[Unknown29]

You’re right. I’ve always recognized that.

[Iron_Man]

That’s ridiculous she comes with a package with her guy friend that’s why I don’t like my girlfriends having guy friends there nothing but trouble the guy friends and it turns out nine times out of 10. The guy friend has a crush on her anyway. So you have to date her while he comes along then you get a pay for his dinner and drinks really nice.

[devilish-cutie]

doesn't have to be, she may just be very eager to date cause she has no experience. Tell her you have other things in life like your job so you cannot text 24/7 but that you are interested in her and would want to meet. Id honestly want to meet asap cause then you know best. She does however seem to young and immature for you possibly.

[Smashingdoozy]

Lol unmatch and lose her number. That's not cool at all. You don't want a woman like that.

Like I'm a clingy bitch but I understand that people have jobs and not to double text after such a short period of time

[lorenzomichael]

After her telling you that you have to impress her and her guy friend. Impress her by telling her to go fuck herself. Don't be a fool my young brother. Listen if she likes having some asshole tagging along with her, she really don't want a real relationship with anyone. At least until she realizes that. Good luck little brother.

[jshm2]

To be fair, she seems immature and not very well put together that she needs her friend to be her crutch.

So called "red flags" are for abusive and or coercive behaviour. Not everything is a red flag.

[RavVid]

Sounds demanding more to me particularly with the impress me line.

If she wants her best guy friend on the date make it a no thanks. Girls will arrange rescue buddies so watch out for that. Take her out of her local area.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sounds a little to clingy for my liking since i'm so often without my phone, but i also would have told her that beforehand, so YMMV on that one

[Drumlin2001]

What are you looking for? A fling or a relationship? As you say, she sounds a little clingy/high maintenance. At her age I doubt sues looking to settle down so if you want something serious I'd keep going.

[OldWomanBySoul]

She's a human embodiment of a red flag, move on and save your time, energy and mental well-being

[Adam1978]

She needs to learn patients. Just tell her that you don't respond during work hours and see if she can respect that. If not drop her.

[Unknown29]

Show her that she doesn’t own you. Let her go without answering her call once in a while. Don’t reply to her text right away. Don’t drop everything to get together always. She’ll back down quick.

[Jay3344]

My take is she’s not right. And for her to sell herself as a package deal is double the work…it means your a third wheel from the start. I’d say no

[Finchie40]

Unmatch her , you didn t even meet her yet and you are already bitching about her lol

[Blueeyes81]

Run for the hills. I saw two red flags in your description.

[Miss_]

Yes, you're just overreacting and overthinking. What do you want? It looks like you don't know what you're looking for.

[WonderBell99]

Yeah, dump her ass. She seems clingy af.

[TacosRAwesome]

They can be. You decide.

[Willoughby23]

Run away as fast as you can

[sheenagwapa]

yeah very clingy

[stratford]

Be careful.

[In_Trance]

yeah

[Anonymous]

Left her