Would you date a woman who has things on her social media like “life of a 30 something single mom” and nothing else about herself in her description?

[Anonymous]

[itsalyssaagain]

Obviously I don’t date women but I can see that description putting off men yes. Just because it’s so focussed on that and comes off as a little too much.

[CreatingWonders]

I wouldn’t date a single mother, that’s one of my big no’s, there’s also not much to go on either, at least write a captivating description and have some real and normal photos up, none of this stupid duck face or pics of everything but you, or worse none at all.

[Avicenna]

Being a single mom is a disqualifier right there

[nastyb]

how about being a deadbeat dad?

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: I don't know- ask your dad! Oh wait, you don't even know who he is...

by the way, here's the definition of a "deadbeat dad":

www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/deadbeat%20dad

"a father who owes money to his former wife to help raise their children but does not pay it"

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

by deadbeat dad, i was referring to you. you had kids but you're not in their lives anymore so now... you need replacement kids.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: I wouldn't call someone a deadbeat dad without knowing the situation. And that's what you've done.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

I know more about your situation than you can ever tell me. You must be disconnected to your children like crazy if you want more kids... it shows they're completely not in your life in every way possible.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: I see that you one of those people who thinks she knows everything but knows nothing. Then again, you also think that single moms are "persecuted", which tells me you're delusional.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

you would openly persecute single moms but you believe you should have the right to get off scott free abandoning your kids...

its really disturbing how so many men get away with this dirty sleazy shit. so many kids grow up without dads nowadays.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: Not wanting to date a single mom is in no way "persecuting" them. But it's starting to sound like you want to persecute fathers and have no regard for the truth.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

and what makes you think a single woman wants to marry man who still has kids elsewhere? there are a lot of liabilities associated with a man like that especially financially.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: Sure, there are lots of women who think that. But not all of them.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

young single women looking to start new families aren't looking to have a man who already has kids with another woman. Not is it only a burden financially but nobody wants someone else's kids to ruin her perfect family.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: It's great that you speak for all women- are they aware of that? It's a women in her 30s I would want to have kids with. And who says my kids would "run her perfect family"? My stepmother never treated me and my sister like that, so I know it doesn't have to be that way.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

nobody wants to raise someone else's kids. just the reality of it. if she's young single and has plenty of options, she will not pick you.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: It's funny how you cannot even keep your story straight. First you accuse me of abandoning my kids, now you claim I want them raised by a 20 year old. Which one is it?

I am around a lot of women in their mid-20s who are pursuing graduate study and I occasionally date young women. None of them have expressed concern that I already have kids. Now, I am not asking them to start a family with me, but as I said, they aren't my target group and I don't expect a young woman to have kids with me.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

because you just haven't told these "young women" that you have 4 kids which you abandoned in another country. trust me, if these young women found out that you had kids regardless if you abandoned them or not, they would not marry you. Just cuz someone might go on a date with you, it does not mean she wants to marry you.

[nastyb]

And plus, you're not even in the right age to parent more children. A old guy like you will likely be shown the retirement door in 10 years. By then, your kid will still be far from grown. Neither would you have the energy to keep up with a newborn or a little kid. You probably could even be dead before your kid is grown.

Someone must be insane to want to parent a child with a person like you.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: LOL, I don't keep it a secret that I have kids (I'm very proud of them). But I am not trying to marry women in their 20s, nor do I think they want to marry me. A woman in her mid- to late-30s is closer to me in age and has a different calculus.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

your kid will be the only one to suffer the most consequences to be born to you.

and the unfortunate reason why you want more kids is because you feel completely disconnected to your current kids in every way possible. you feel like you don't have kids... thats why you want more kids so badly.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: Aha, so this is your latest duplicate account... Amusing as always to hear some obese infertile woman make assumptions about what I can't or cannot do. Maybe you should ask the runners I used to coach how incapable I am at keeping up with young people.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: Look at you on a holiday weekend- all alone and hating on others. No one wants you and no one ever will.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

haha I can definitely already tell why your ex took the kids away from someone like you and never saw you ever again.

someone as hypocritical, pathetic, and misogynistic like you.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

there's a wayy bigger chance you will never have kids again in your life than you having kids... lets get that straight. Nobody with half a brain would be looking to have kids with a man who is a few years away from being a senior citizen.

[nastyb]

[Look at you on a holiday weekend- all alone and hating on others. No one wants you and no one ever will.]

I only hate on hypocritical assholes. Sometimes you just gotta put people back in their own place.

why do you think your kids don't even want anything to do with you?

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: Do get your stories straight, please. And keep showing everyone why no man or woman would ever want you or even to be around you.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

of course you wouldn't want to be around me. I tell the truth. I let you see the true asshole that you are.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: You have a strange idea at what constitutes a "senior citizen", but even when I'm 80, I would leave your obese, ugly self in the dust if you haven't died of diabetes by then.

I'll be with my kids next week. But keep on hating- it's bad for your already overtaxed heart.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: No one wants to be around your hateful self, full of anger towards the father she will never know and resentful that she was raised by a chaotic, unstable single mom.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

I already know you're a pathetic person. So I am not going to believe anything you have to say. Pathetic people are never honest.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: That's coming from a delusional Borderline (someone with Borderline Personality Disorder) who also has other mental health issues. You need a lot of professional help, which you won't get on this forum.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

its not surprising you're on this website. 90% of the men on here are trash or have issues which is why they keep complaining about how they can't ever get a woman.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: So why are you on here? Oh, yeah, no one gives you any attention anywhere else.
Incidentally, your 90% figure is way too high.

[DarkLegacy]

Good comment

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

I'm on here to put assholes like you back in your own place.

And I think I've already done that pretty well.

[Incidentally, your 90% figure is way too high.]

of course i am "too high" for you. i am not shitty enough of a person to abandon my kids...

[DarkLegacy]

@nastyb You can just fuck off, no one will be put in their place by you, you are the hypocrite

[nastyb]

@DarkLegacy

oh hello, aren't you woman hater number 2... do you abandon your kids too just like @Avicenna?

[DarkLegacy]

@nastyb I have no kids and us having preferences does not make us women haters you loser

[Avicenna]

@nastyb; You're arrogant as well as stupid and mendacious. Not a good combination. Enjoy your delusions since you have nothing else to enjoy this holiday weekend.

[nastyb]

@Avicenna

you have so much pride for abandoning your kids with that attitude of yours.

[nastyb]

@DarkLegacy

who wouldn't hate on someone who abandons their kids? you wouldn't. you encourage men to abandon their kids.

[Avicenna]

@nastyb: The voices in your head are getting louder and louder. Don't do anything stupid in this delusional state of yours. Get psychiatric treatment before it's too late.

[coconut94]

I feel like she should find something else instead of making that her entire personality, I don't know

[MrCommodore]

No, definitely too little information for me to waste time on, more details would be required.

[Asker]

Her other headline above that is “Another Blond Bitch”

[MrCommodore]

No, like it would depend if she is displaying a good sense of humour. But too little information can be a bad thing if a guy is genuinely looking for a girl to date properly.

[Asker]

All her content is about men being awful and playing you

[MrCommodore]

Sounds negative, it sounds like she had bad experiences in the past. Usually if genuinely trying to attract a partner, most people focus on positive stuff.

[Asker]

Me and her actually dated the same guy 🤢 he left her to be with me and broke up with her. She found out about me and started giving him a hard time since I was younger than her.

[MrCommodore]

Would you say you are more attractive or just better personality than her.

[Asker]

Honestly, both. I don't know I’m pretty chill. I love my life haha

[MrCommodore]

Usually a guy who breaks with one girl to be with another girl had them overlap for a period, meaning he cheated on her with you. Do you think he would cheat again in future?

[Asker]

I’m not sure. I’m not with him anymore.

[Asker]

It’s just interesting she sought to tear me down when I didn’t do anything wrong

[MrCommodore]

She probably views it that you stole her man.

[DarkLegacy]

I would not think twice about rejecting a single mum, because most women these fuck around with bad guys and guys based off of looks, reach 30 and then suddenly change tack.

[HighValue]

Single mother = instant deal breaker for me.

[chicosuave]

if she is a single mom then there's something super wrong with her.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes she is toxic

[captain_voidwalker]

I have a strict no single moms policy. I'm not spending my money and time raising another man's crotch spawn.

[DarkLegacy]

Well bloody said

[Anonymous]

No. I don't want to come second to her kid. I don't want to end up loving the kid either and then we break up and I never see them again.

[whorable]

2nd to her kid? dawg if she puts her kid first that’s the best attribute. meaning she’s all about her family. ofc when you first start dating her kids going to come first you’re not a vip. when y’all move up in the relationship then you’ll be someone she puts first as well.

[Opinion Owner]

It is the best attribute... for the mother of my child.

'When you move up in the relationship" I promise you, I will never (if she's a good mother) come before that kid.

[whorable]

just like if you had kids with her.. your kids would come before you. being behind a child really isn’t that deep.

[Opinion Owner]

"just like if you had kids with her" those would be MY kids. Not at all the same thing.

[Opinion Owner]

I would have no issue coming second to MY kids. I'm not going to come second to some other dude's kids.

[whorable]

lack of compassion and only caring about YOUR kids just closes so many doors. small minded with a little circle.

[Opinion Owner]

I never said I didn't care about other kids. I just said I'm not going to date a single mom. You don't get a say in who I decide to be in a relationship with. Stop being a weirdo.

[DarkLegacy]

Exactly we want to be put first, a bit like women want, if we had a kid together i could see why she would put the kid first, so would i. But i would have had my time of being put first

[DarkLegacy]

@whorable Does not matter, women expect their men to put them first, we need our time of being put first by our a women, you say all of these things, i agree fully with the opinion owner and your username speaks volumes. And we are very entitled to reject whoever we like and we will do so. You are a weirdo. Another female hypocrite

[Staximus]

Sure, why not? Judging a book by it's cover never works

[clampfan101]

If she had something like that? Maybe.
If nothing else? No.
I need to know more about her.

[shades777]

not my first option because she's likely to talk non stop about her kids and thats not sexy

[zagor]

Sounds like quiet desperation to me, which isn't very appealing.

[Hihibn]

Yer I would and at least she's being honest and upfront to many people drag there feet and don't say it how it is

[Hafza99]

Simp

[Hihibn]

@Hafza99 simp?

[DarkLegacy]

@Hafza99 Good comment

[Anonymous]

She has 100% accountability for that child, which means it's not the man's fault, but hers. So no, I would not date or even marry the woman.

[Kaamraj]

I would not date a single mom period.

[DextroShade]

Single mothers are haram, so no.

[In_Trance]

I never look at potentials social media

[Christoff92]

Depending on her attitude

[Flight1]

People are attracted to happy people.

[kakaling]

She should had listened to her parents.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes women always end up regretting not listening to their parents

[Chthou95]

Fuck no. No leftovers please

[DarkLegacy]

Exactly, us men deserve better

[whorable]

i would