- Xper 7 Age: 2611 mo
Obviously I don’t date women but I can see that description putting off men yes. Just because it’s so focussed on that and comes off as a little too much.
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- Xper 4 Age: 3911 mo
I wouldn’t date a single mother, that’s one of my big no’s, there’s also not much to go on either, at least write a captivating description and have some real and normal photos up, none of this stupid duck face or pics of everything but you, or worse none at all.
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15.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Being a single mom is a disqualifier right there
291 Reply- 10 mo
@nastyb: I don't know- ask your dad! Oh wait, you don't even know who he is...
by the way, here's the definition of a "deadbeat dad":
www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/deadbeat%20dad
"a father who owes money to his former wife to help raise their children but does not pay it"
- 10 mo
- 10 mo
@nastyb: It's funny how you cannot even keep your story straight. First you accuse me of abandoning my kids, now you claim I want them raised by a 20 year old. Which one is it?
I am around a lot of women in their mid-20s who are pursuing graduate study and I occasionally date young women. None of them have expressed concern that I already have kids. Now, I am not asking them to start a family with me, but as I said, they aren't my target group and I don't expect a young woman to have kids with me. - 10 mo
@Avicenna
because you just haven't told these "young women" that you have 4 kids which you abandoned in another country. trust me, if these young women found out that you had kids regardless if you abandoned them or not, they would not marry you. Just cuz someone might go on a date with you, it does not mean she wants to marry you.
- 10 mo
And plus, you're not even in the right age to parent more children. A old guy like you will likely be shown the retirement door in 10 years. By then, your kid will still be far from grown. Neither would you have the energy to keep up with a newborn or a little kid. You probably could even be dead before your kid is grown.
Someone must be insane to want to parent a child with a person like you. - 10 mo
@Avicenna
your kid will be the only one to suffer the most consequences to be born to you.
and the unfortunate reason why you want more kids is because you feel completely disconnected to your current kids in every way possible. you feel like you don't have kids... thats why you want more kids so badly. - 10 mo
Good comment
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@DarkLegacy
oh hello, aren't you woman hater number 2... do you abandon your kids too just like @Avicenna? - 10 mo
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@DarkLegacy
who wouldn't hate on someone who abandons their kids? you wouldn't. you encourage men to abandon their kids. - 10 mo
@nastyb Sorry i don't recall saying that, where did i say that then. Im just defending the right for us to reject women who would and do reject us throughout our young lives just so they can their fun with the scum of the earth and then think they can get with us when they start to decline in appearance and expect us to bring up the kids of said scum
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
only scummy men would abandon their kids. - 10 mo
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
you have the right to reject someone due to race. but you don't have the right to say that its not racist.
because you're racist if you MEET THE DEFINITION of a racist.
Its not up to you to determine whether or not you're a racist. - 10 mo
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
I don't care who you date. But you don't have the right to tell someone that you're not a racist.
because you are a racist and you seem to know it. - 10 mo
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
you're a racist if you meet the definition of a racist. it doesn't matter how much you want to deny it. - 10 mo
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
if you didn't care that i called you a racist, you wouldn't have argued with me for so long. - 10 mo
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@DarkLegacy: Yeah, she’s crazy
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
[@nastyb Funny i was about to say the same thing to you, like i said you do not get to dictate relationship preferences, whatever reason i choose is valid and perfectly ok. And there is nothing you can about it. Goodnight loser]
if you are racist, I will call you a racist. Clearly you're upset by this.
racist people can have their racist preferences. And I don't care of what preferences you have.
But you have no right to say you are not racist if you are one.
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
[she really thinks she can dictate other peoples preferences doesn't she, she told me i did not have a valid reason to reject someone or a group of people]
nobody is dictating your preferences. people are just calling you what you are.
you have no right to say that you are not racist if you are racist.
you are racist if you meet the definition of racist.
you don't have a choice - 10 mo
@nastyb I think @Avicenna is right you have one of them personality disorders and bet you were abused as kid, i have every right to say about myself what i like. i am not a racist for not wanting to be with black and Asian people just because they are from that race. I find you very funny when you try and tell me i have no right to say something or have an invalid reason for rejecting someone, and at the same time saying you can date whoever you like. and the only person calling me a racist is you @nastyb
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
you are racist. what if you met the perfect woman. she is right in all the right ways. you love everything about her personality. but you lift the bag off her face and you find out she was Asian / black so you immediately reject her?
the wonderful bond that you developed with her is trash now? simply because she's not white?
yes it is racist... because developing a good relationship with someone has nothing to do with race.
- 10 mo
@DarkLegacy
especially when you're talking shit about other races. you just said you find blacks and Asians repulsive. yea... I do think this is enough proof to say that you are racist. If everyone else is disgusting other than your own race. you are very well a racist. you couldn't even hide it. - 10 mo
@nastyb: People are entitled to their own dating preferences. Someone may find yours repulsive. I wouldn't call someone a racist for merely not being attracted to members of other races and members of those races certainly don't care if he doesn't find them attractive. That is a far cry from discriminating against people in employment and other areas that really matter.
- 9 mo
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@DarkLegacy
Well you admitted it.
Destroying a perfectly good relationship with a wonderful person simply she wasn't white.
This is the PURE definition of a racist
Thanks for finally admitting it - 9 mo
- 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
Because you have absolutely no proof that you aren't a racist
I have 100% proof that you are a racist - 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
You dont have the right to deny being a racist if you FIT THE DEFINITION of a racist. - 9 mo
- 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
So why would you be totally disgusted by a wonderful woman upon discovering that she's not white? - 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
By the way, you were talking shit about blacks and Asians on this thread earlier. About how they disgust you - 9 mo
- 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
you don't have a reason why. racist people never have any legit reason to hate on others. often times they desperately look for lame excuses to hate on other races.
you don't have a reason to hate. you just like to hate. racism is all about brainwashing at a young age. - 9 mo
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@DarkLegacy
I"m Asian and you're already treating me badly due to my race. low life scumbags talking shit about blacks and Asians. - 9 mo
@nastyb: Your interpersonal skills, any sense of personal decency or honesty, and even basic intelligence are completely lacking. I don't worry much about the deranged ravings of the mentally ill like you who can't get anyone to be a platonic friend, much less a romantic partner. You've already been schooled about why you're wrong, but you're too dumb to realize how clueless you are.
Good luck being a single mom via sperm donation. - 9 mo
- 9 mo
@DarkLegacy
why? cuz you don't like me cuz im Asian? - 9 mo
I feel like she should find something else instead of making that her entire personality, I don't know
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- Guru Age: 41 , mho 44%11 mo
No, definitely too little information for me to waste time on, more details would be required.
111 Reply- Asker11 mo
Her other headline above that is “Another Blond Bitch”
- 11 mo
No, like it would depend if she is displaying a good sense of humour. But too little information can be a bad thing if a guy is genuinely looking for a girl to date properly.
- Asker11 mo
All her content is about men being awful and playing you
- 11 mo
Sounds negative, it sounds like she had bad experiences in the past. Usually if genuinely trying to attract a partner, most people focus on positive stuff.
- Asker11 mo
Me and her actually dated the same guy 🤢 he left her to be with me and broke up with her. She found out about me and started giving him a hard time since I was younger than her.
- 11 mo
Would you say you are more attractive or just better personality than her.
- Asker11 mo
Honestly, both. I don't know I’m pretty chill. I love my life haha
- 11 mo
Usually a guy who breaks with one girl to be with another girl had them overlap for a period, meaning he cheated on her with you. Do you think he would cheat again in future?
- Asker11 mo
I’m not sure. I’m not with him anymore.
- Asker11 mo
It’s just interesting she sought to tear me down when I didn’t do anything wrong
- 11 mo
She probably views it that you stole her man.
- Xper 6 Age: 2710 mo
if she is a single mom then there's something super wrong with her.
02 Reply- 10 mo
Yes she is toxic
- Asker10 mo
That’s a really general statement. My mom was a single mother (WIDOWED TWICE) so be careful with such assumptions about peoples situations. Also abusive relationships, etc. not every single mom is a terrible mother.
- Explorer Age: 3610 mo
I would not think twice about rejecting a single mum, because most women these fuck around with bad guys and guys based off of looks, reach 30 and then suddenly change tack.
00 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Single mother = instant deal breaker for me.
00 Reply- Yoda Age: 3911 mo
I have a strict no single moms policy. I'm not spending my money and time raising another man's crotch spawn.
21 Reply- 10 mo
Well bloody said
- Anonymous(25-29)11 mo
No. I don't want to come second to her kid. I don't want to end up loving the kid either and then we break up and I never see them again.
29 Reply- Opinion Owner11 mo
It is the best attribute... for the mother of my child.
'When you move up in the relationship" I promise you, I will never (if she's a good mother) come before that kid. - Opinion Owner11 mo
"just like if you had kids with her" those would be MY kids. Not at all the same thing.
- Opinion Owner11 mo
I would have no issue coming second to MY kids. I'm not going to come second to some other dude's kids.
- Opinion Owner10 mo
I never said I didn't care about other kids. I just said I'm not going to date a single mom. You don't get a say in who I decide to be in a relationship with. Stop being a weirdo.
- 10 mo
Exactly we want to be put first, a bit like women want, if we had a kid together i could see why she would put the kid first, so would i. But i would have had my time of being put first
- 10 mo
@whorable Does not matter, women expect their men to put them first, we need our time of being put first by our a women, you say all of these things, i agree fully with the opinion owner and your username speaks volumes. And we are very entitled to reject whoever we like and we will do so. You are a weirdo. Another female hypocrite
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sure, why not? Judging a book by it's cover never works
00 Reply- Master Age: 3610 mo
If she had something like that? Maybe.
If nothing else? No.
I need to know more about her.00 Reply 10.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sounds like quiet desperation to me, which isn't very appealing.
00 Reply946 opinions shared on Dating topic. not my first option because she's likely to talk non stop about her kids and thats not sexy
00 ReplyYer I would and at least she's being honest and upfront to many people drag there feet and don't say it how it is
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- Anonymous(25-29)11 mo
She has 100% accountability for that child, which means it's not the man's fault, but hers. So no, I would not date or even marry the woman.
10 Reply People are attracted to happy people.
00 Reply442 opinions shared on Dating topic. I would not date a single mom period.
00 Reply12.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I never look at potentials social media
20 Reply- Yoda Age: 3911 mo
Single mothers are haram, so no.
10 Reply She should had listened to her parents.
11 Reply- 10 mo
Yes women always end up regretting not listening to their parents
- Yoda Age: 4411 mo
Depending on her attitude
00 Reply 1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Fuck no. No leftovers please
11 Reply- 10 mo
Exactly, us men deserve better
i would
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