I’m dating a guy who broke up with his ex girlfriend 2,5 months ago. They've been dating for five years. its not realistic that he has forgotten her so quickly. I don't want to be part of a rebound relationship. I'm underage (1-7) and he is 23 years old. That's why I feel like this is not a forever thing. Any tips?
Yes you are a rebound - the rule goes "half the tims to heal" - ergo if they were togeather for 5 years that's going to take on average 2.5 years to process the memories and accept the new reality that she is no longer a part of and though the old adage says "the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody" - 8 out of 10 it doesn't work spreading more pain and drama
But evidently he's fine rolling those dice
Yes, you are the rebound. But the relationship wouldn't be forever in all likelihood anyway (people can break up for lots of reasons, especially at your ages).
Did you know he was in that relationship before you started dating him? I would have maybe waited. All you can do is trust that he does like you. Other option is to cut ties if you think you are just a rebound. Sure seems quick to me to get over a five year relationship but people get over things at different paces.
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