Im confused about my feelings?

[Anonymous]

i have liked this guy a lot, he's like the exact opposite of any other guy I've dated, like he's actually good you know? and he likes me back, but im worried about perusing a relationship with him because i have this deep thought that he might not be good enough, not with the way he treats me, he genuinely treats me like a queen, but from other aspects like being strong enough.. I don't know what the exact word im looking for is but i dont feel like he has much of a strong personality. can someone help me understand what im trying to get to…? he's funny, he's smart he's passionate he's sweet he notices everything about me and he has such cute quirks. but i still have this deep thought which i dont understand what it is?

[Anonymous]

I don't know, do you mean he doesn't have strong muscles?

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[BoobSlayer]

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[Jessicasmidgen86]

You need to get to know him. I bet what you think about him is totally wrong. You can't judge a book by its covers. Plan a day to hang out with him 1 on 1. The worst thing you can do is pre judge someone that you haven't gotten to know well

[izzyisabella]

Take some time yourself to reflect on what might be causing your uncertainty...

[Avicenna]

If you have these sorts of doubts now, your gut feeling is probably accurate and you should listen to it

[Asker]

what could be causing my uncertainty, i dont have any reason to reflect on thats my issue like i can't find anything to think abour except for that one thing where i feel like his personality isn't as big as mine

[Anonymous]

You are afraid he's not strong enough for your mind games? Is that it?

[Asker]

what do you mean mind games because i used to be very toxic before and now my mindset has changed but i feel like this deep thought i have is probably one of the toxic thoughts i still haven't changed.. i really would like you to elaborate more on what you mean

[Opinion Owner]

You mentioned you're worried about him not being strong enough. Strong enough how? His personality.. like fighting back? Or he's boring? You want someone to match your personality? Or the opposite? You have to get to know someone and hangout with them and or call them on the phone and talk. You won't know anything with just texting.

[Jessicasmidgen86]

Seems to me that it's you with the problem not him. It's best that you fix yourself before you decide on any type of guy

[In_Trance]

Relax, give it more time

[Asker]

i want to but im afraid ill go in too deep and hurt his feelings

[Jessicasmidgen86]

I'm pretty sure he could careless

[Jessicasmidgen86]

Any updates?