Do I have to put effort into finding a girlfriend? (Page 2)

[Hellraiser1984]

Tons and don't expect a lot of success unless you are rich handsome and a complete as$hole. If you're anything but those things look forward to a life of loneliness and frustration and a whole lot of misogyny.

[lightbulb27]

yes. sometimes girls will come to you, but you still have to reciprocate.

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[Fireguy17]

No, it is a lot of work, pretty much like a job.
the more work you put into finding the right person the better it will be.

[DextroShade]

As a man, you will have to put in great effort to find a girlfriend, greater than your parents generation had to because the modern dating market is so messed up.

[linka_pat307]

I think you should try because nothing comes with working for it, don't you have a crush you can ask out to start things

[TacosRAwesome]

You need to put in some effort. People who don't put in effort are those who constantly meet people.

[Unit1]

You wait, nothing happens, you'll stay single.

Getting a girlfriend is 10x harder than getting a job.

Get used to it.

[IHateBeingaMan]

for guys, men, obviously, thats how its been for all time unfortuneately, hence why there have always been more male wizards than female wizards

[Tomisworthless]

It’s only natural for men if you’re sexually attractive which most of us aren’t. Otherwise you need status, wealth, personality, confidence, experience and dress style

[serafin]

it only happens without trying if you're super handsome or super rich

[SolitarySolace]

Yes, but I don’t believe it’s worth the possibility of false accusations, and being used for money.

[Sasha0426]

Even if your partner has a job?

[SolitarySolace]

Yeah

[Sasha0426]

Wait, how can your partner be a gold digger if they have a job? 🤔

[KrakenAttackin]

If you are a hot Chad (top 4%), they will find you. If not you will have to work for pootie tang.

[LiamJHayden]

I do. It might only be asking, but it still takes some for me.

[art84]

You have to put in the effort or else no one will notice you.

[Rangers]

You'll have to put a ton of effort into it, I'm talking several years of nonstop effort

[zagor]

Yeah that will work about as well as it does for a career.

[Blueeyes81]

They lied. Sure, it happens sometimes but for 98% of us effort is a requirement.

[Anonymous]

You do have to put in effort man. But NEVER put anymore effort than a woman is willing to put into you man.

[MeatPuppet]

No. It's one of those things in which the more efforts you put, the less likely it is to happen.

[grega239]

I was told the same. Thatbit just happens.

That was a lie