What would make you choose that person as a potential date?
If there is a full set of sheets on the bed or if she just has the fitted sheet and top blanket.
So not sure if you have ever heard of a top sheet sleeper or and under sheet sleeper.
So top sheet sleepers just sleep on top of fitted sheet, with a blanket... and an under-sheet sleeper have the set of sheets and they get under the sheets every night.
This is a thing... I am a top sheet sleeper. I never thought anything about it honestly. But I dated this woman once and we slept together for the first time. The next day we were at bed bath and beyond buying sheets, and new comforter.
One other thing I think would stand out is if her pillows had not cases on them. I think that would be kind of a sign of something.
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My top red flags - ladies over the age of 25, no kids.
Cleanliness - EVERYONE has a various definition for a "clean room". However I think we can all agree that an impassable room of dirty clothes, cups, dirty plates etc. is just too much.
Toys In Play - my little pony dolls, barbie dolls, PollyPocket etc. set up NOT for display like collector items but as if for play.
Too Many Stuffed Animals - there is an obvious difference between a collector of sentimentals and a child-not-grown-up.
Manga - Too many Manga books can spell trouble.
Sex toys - if hidden away, it's okay but otherwise I may need to reconsider my visit
Dreamcatchers - sorry not sorry, I have yet to meet a woman with one that didn't also have a host of other issues.
Seeing someone’s personal life space can really show you the type of person they are. One of my friends room is a cluster faq of random things all over the place and it pretty much resinates with her personality.
My other friend has one of those homes that’s very minimalist with trees everywhere. Also fits her personally.
I don’t think I’d judge based on their rooms. But it does help to see and sorta understand the type of person they are.
Their magazine collection and their waste bin. If they read anime or have motorcycle or Rolling Stones magazines, we might be too culturally different to continue hanging out. The wastebasket will show you if there is weed or cigarettes or alcohol or condoms. I drink at a very weak level so I'm not saying alcohol is a sin, but a normal person puts their left over bottles in a suitable place and not in a basket.
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I would check the nightstand to see what kinds of toys they have, condoms, etc.
Closet.
The clothes she has and the clothes she wears will tell me everything I need to know. The condition will tell me how much she wears them and how well she takes care of herself and the clothes she wears will give me a rough profile on her personality type.
Obviously other things can be found in a closet such as a photo album, precious possessions, paperwork, hobby supplies, sex toys and bunch of other hints but that’s beyond what I wanted to see.This is the most judgmental group of people I've ever seen in my life.
Sometimes my room is messy, sometimes it's spotless. It all depends on what's going on in my life and how I'm feeling that particular week.
It's zero indication as to what kind of person they are or how compatible we would be. That's the dumbest shit I've ever heardThis reminds me of the dating game tv series called room raters or something. The guy had to choose between 3 girls, who to go out on a date with, based on only what their room looked liked.
That room looks nice but doesn't say much about the owner of the bed.I would look for how the room is kept, and hai organization skills, I would look to see how his room is decorated. I would also like to look for common interests like books or sports, I would to see if there’s any indication of his life style. I would look for any potential art or poetry.
If the bed is made
Check their nightstand drawer and any dresser drawers. Maybe look under their mattress to see if they trust our financial institutions.
This would be comparable to looking through their medicine cabinet.If it's to fancy then it'd be difficult to get comfortable in their room. I'm more about the comfort thing. Could care less about how it looks/what's in there
Is it clean?
Dusty?
Cobwebs?
Does it smell?
Books titles on his nightstand?
Pillowcases are clean?
Color choices?
I would prefer seeing their living room. Bedroom is for sleeping, wouldn't really tell you much.
If the closet door was open, I'd look to see how many pairs of shoes she owns, and if she likes to wear sexy, revealing lingerie, etc.
I recreated this bedroom in sims ages ago and it freaked me out seeing this 😂😂
The first thing that goes through my head is "What do you think that stain on the carpet is?"
Bed. If very messy or too neat she won't be compatible. If there are soft toys or excessive pillows she is not realistic enough.
If the individual is neat & tidy or a lazy, carefree slob.
nothing about their bedroom would make me want to date them
if they have posters in wall who and if not why no posters
Whether or not the bed was made and if it was matching bedding!
See if they eat in the bedroom. That would be a big no no for me.
I would see if it smells like that moldy metallic type smell that those who have taken the COVID shot smell like...
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