Do you like shy but mature and assertive women?

[Anonymous]

If a woman is shy by default but she is quite mature and assertive when expressing opinions or thoughts. Just wondering if you are into this kind of women?

[sheenagwapa]

expressing your boundaries and needs that's fine but if you are always into debate mode i think it's a turn off especially if you havecthis vibe that you wanna win in the convo. i like chill pips who gives their opinion but has that humble aura. yeah i'm not a guy but regardless of gender i think we generally like "feel good" people

[Anonymous]

There's no such thing.

The woman you're describing a guy does well to avoid. She thinks she's shy but she's really not. She's lazy, probably selfish, and narcissistic because she doesn't want to risk anything by putting herself out there. But she fancies herself mature because she's opinionated and not shy about telling you what she thinks.

No I would avoid this woman at all costs.👍

[Spade_01]

Oh yes. Shyness is feminine. Maturity is always desirable. And assertiveness makes things really easy. Definitely the combination is very likeable.

[Asker]

sounds cool!

[SnowedIn]

Yes.

Sort of.

On the rare occasion that you find a person who's both shy and assertive, when the assertive comes out it's take no prisoners in your face and borders on obnoxious.

[Miristheiss]

Shy and assertive seem to conflict and to be opposites.

[Asker]

shy as in feeling awkward and nervous in general social settings but assertive enough to express interests and not to be a doormat (can stand up for herself when people are taking advantages)?

[najekim]

Sure. But aren't "shy" and "assertive" opposites? ;)

[Asker]

yea, but you can be both. You can feel shy and look awkward but still express your needs and wants or stand up for yourself when people cross your boundaries.

[Unknown29]

No. I like docile and submissive women.

[Guardian45]

Yes, sounds good!