Who is happier: bachelor men or bachelorette women?

[Anonymous]

Bachelor Men

Bachelor Women

[razelove]

With both of them I'd think it would depend on what age and how they are a bachelor man or woman. I'd say men are happier over time though if it's a choice (legally there are a lot of reasons not to get married).

Call it unfair, but men age like wine while for women it's vinegar in dating. Men have a sharper curve for getting women, they need to be more attractive to get women when they're younger, then more successful to get women when they're older.

Women need to be young, attractive and pleasant to be around. When youth runs out it's gone, attractiveness isn't something you can gain easily, and your attitude has few huge shifts over time.

It's why men and women choose to date to find relationships more so than stay single for the most part, you can get a lot of tail being single, but it sure is lonely.

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/

[grega239]

Men have an eaxier time containing their need for emotional connections than women.

So id say men

[cyclingkmi]

But men have really hard time containing their sexual needs

[Sixgunsound]

@cyclingkmi thanks to Feminism it's 'liberating' for women to get used by as many men as she has ti. e fir and she's not allowed to expect a relationship or committment or a future. That's progress, right?

[grega239]

@cyclingkmi no. Thats easy too if you keep yourself busy

[cyclingkmi]

Keep busy where when you are all alone without any girl /family/wife/kids and all friends are busy in their family lives?

[grega239]

@cyclingkmi work and hobbies.
Women are an addition to life not a necessity for it

[alice55]

Seem like single women are more happy nowadays than single men considering the amount of men that whine they can't get a girlfriend and are incel.

Usually single women are happy it's the one who are in relationship who are unhappy (those who stay in toxic / cheating relationship). Because finding a man for a woman is easy they just need to go on date app and boom they got 10 guys on the same days so to be single she need to have chosen (not interested i dating or just focusing on others things).

[WhiteBoyChill]

Long time no see! How are things going?

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill Things are going great and you :)
though is it very hot and rainy where I live with lots of thunder I feel like I were in India with the monsoon it's pretty funny XD

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh wow. That’s crazy haha

Could be better on my end, just been a bit stressed out with stuff

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill Yes, the weather is crazy XD
The craziest things is that sometime it would rain for hours huge thunder and all grey and the hours after it's super sunny and hot

Hope things get better for you :)

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah that’s crazy lol.

Must make things much harder to plan.

And thank you! 😊

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill Well if i want to go outside i check the meteo on my meteo app but sometime it say rain at 3 pm and sun at 4 pm but it's the reverse so I end up being drenched XD

You're welcome :)

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s unfortunate! Always bring an umbrella I guess. Haha

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill I usually take a cap more practicable XD

[WhiteBoyChill]

Easier to carry for sure! How close are you to the beach?

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill Pretty far cause I live in the alps right now.
When i was in the south I was at only 20 min from the beach

[WhiteBoyChill]

I see. You’ll have to give yourself a beach day this summer

[cyclingkmi]

Exactly well said

[Simslover92]

I think men are more happy just because women tend to want the husband, the 2.5 kids a dog and white picket fence more than men do at least that's what it used to be. I think now it's shifting a bit but I think the majority of women still want that whether their conservative or not.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Eh. Seems like most girls my age are happy whoring around

[Sixgunsound]

I get the impression more women are being captured by the lie that serving a corporation is more fulfilling than making a bigger more important difference in a family. For some reason serving a company that can and will replace you the instant they feel like it is fine, but serving dinner is slavery?

[cyclingkmi]

But men crave sex... which is very touch for them to get when they're single.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am currently not married, so I know how happy THIS bachelor man is, but I have no idea how happy other bachelor men are. I know what some of them say about their happiness but I don't think all of their statements are trustworthy. Since I've never been a bachelorette woman, I have no idea how that feels, so how could I possibly make this comparison? How could ANYONE make this comparison?

But even if we COULD make the comparison, why would it matter? I'm a guy and I'll always be a guy. If bachelorette girls are happier, that doesn't help me and there's not much I can do about it.

[cyclingkmi]

What makes you happy?

[DaveJord]

I was said Machelor Woman, because every single woman I meet, seems perfectly happy being single. Can't tell you how many times I been told, I don't need a man to happy.

Which I always respond to, then why are you out here in the dating world posting on line and looking for am.

And the answer is like they are looking for their someone special... and that's like okay so WTF?

[Sixgunsound]

They're looking to play the field now like they used to ride the cock carousel in their 20's without realizing things have changed since then. It's OK for women to look but not for men. Come on, man🤣

[DaveJord]

@Sixgunsound :-)

[Sixgunsound]

I have two daughters ages eight and four, and they will not grow up thinking that acting like a dime store whore in their 20's is Ok. If you act the part it should surprise nobody, least of all yourself, that you get treated like the part.

[DaveJord]

@Sixgunsound Yeah, I live in an rural area. And honestly it breaks down into two camps up here when it comes to the woman... those that are taken and happy and those that are single and 100% continent to be alone. Which is the greatest lie, any woman has ever told herself, and then made herself believe. But they do nothing to make it any easier for a man to meet and date them... and want to act like they can't find good men.

I am kind of sick of it honestly, that's the reason they are all in their 30's to 40's and single and not dating. And it has everything to do with them, not me... because again they are deep into their 30's and 40's single and alone for a reason, long be for I came around and will be long after I leave.

[Sixgunsound]

Mandatory public school is taught by people who have gotten through government gates secured by the elites who don't need as many kids born to serve their needs as are currently being born. Making it socially desirable to be single for life and produce economic output for their profits serves their needs while reducing the number of peasants they have to build infrastructure for in their new smart city peasant containment systems. Their needs can be met by a much smaller free range vote and job cattle population than there currently is. Thus conditioning women to make life choices that will leave them single and angry is their best play because it prevents children, but also raises the chaos factor when they choose to take that anger out on men. Chaos keeps the peasants distracted and fighting eachother. Don't ever leave your rural community you are still allowed to speak the truth there, at least for the moment.

[nastyb]

Studies actually have found that single childless women are happier than married women with kids

[WhiteBoyChill]

What studies?

[Billlewis]

I think that although society has generally depicted older single women as being less happy and desirable, the reverse is actually true, especially nowadays.

[Raaj4you]

Both men and women are happy when they are single and carefree. When they get into relationship their responsibility level increases to 25%, when they are married their responsibility level increases to 50%, when they have kids it goes to 75%, when they buy home, car and other things then it goes to 100%. Young men and women are scared of these family responsibilities. Selfish youngsters want to earn and spend money on themselves.

[DarkWinterNights]

From what I’ve noticed it seems to shift. I think men in their 20’s are the least happy but tend to be more satisfied as bachelors in their mid-30’s. Whereas women may be happier being single younger, and in their mid-30’s tend to be less happy.

[Adam1978]

Men on average, especially older men who got everything together. The older a woman gets and her market value shrinks the more unhappy she will become.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I guess it comes down to who wants to get married more. I'm thinking bachelor men are way more happy.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Can you all imagine a scenario where there's a woman who is down to just chill and hang out and never get married after ten years of being together with a guy while the guy is like, "OMG! We've been together for ten years! Why don't we marry already? You don't love me? Are you taking me for granted?" I mean maybe a few exceptions exist but isn't it usually the other way around? It's women who want to marry the most as I see it. Guys are totally chill being bachelors for the rest of their lives, partying and driving corvettes at 50-years old picking up some dumb hot chick and spraying her with money.

[blueonblack22]

It depends if you are voluntarily single or not. Everything boils down to that.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d say the men seem pretty occupied long as they get puss and still have their “freedom”

[purplepoppy]

No such thing as bachelor women. The term is spinster.

[Jadebamboo]

Bachelor men. And I wouldn't even say its close to be honest.

[Anonymous]

Men, probably.

[cyclingkmi]

Why so

[shades777]

I don't know do a clinical study

[LimitedBenefits101]

Men are always happier.

[soniaaaaaaa]

Both of them

[cyclingkmi]

I doubt

[soniaaaaaaa]

I’m don’t

[soniaaaaaaa]

I don’t

[gothbxtch]

depends?

[Jamie05rhs]

Neither are happy.