If the first date seemed a bit awkward but you knew the person you saw recently had an unfortunate happenstance, would you give a 2nd date a try?

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Lets say you meet someone, schedule a first date and the person seems a bit unenthusiastic but when you asked "how have you been", they told you that they could have been better because after they scheduled the date, something unfortunate and unforeseen happened to them (maybe they had something valuable and important stolen from them). Would you go on another date with them to see if they're relationship material when they'd be in a better mood or would you just end it there.

And I know some people would say you should cancel the date if you can't be your best BUT

1. If it happened after you scheduled the date but before it happened, that would mean it was a last minute cancellation and that can be off-putting as well.

2. You might think you're recovering from what happened but when you get there, it can still impact your demeanor.

[Pinay_ako]

Let them reschedule it but i won’t expect so much from it… be prepared to be disappointed.

[LiamJHayden]

I am nit surprised by her being nervous and do not judge in that, but unenthusiastic needs a decent explanation.

[exitseven]

yes, once you go down a path you have to see it through to the end.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[rachel776]

i will usually go on a second date if they want to

[Fireguy17]

I would let them know that they should call me when things are better and we can try again if they are interested in trying again.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d need the full story

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Do you mean you'd need to know specifically what happened to them?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea cause people lie

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

So if something was stolen from them would you want to see a police report that they filled out?

[DizzyDesii]

I thought that was just your example. I was speaking in general

[slatyb]

I would. I did. Now we're married.

[WhitneySnow]

I’d give them a second chance

[gothbxtch]

if i had felt a connection, yeah

[Likes2drive]

I always give it a second try if they are willing