Would you get mad if your friend dated your ex?

[Anonymous]

Is it wrong to date your friends ex?

[Anemone978]

Yes, because it would make me lose trust for her. How can you date my ex, it means you must of wanted him when he was with me.. so you were essentially laying in wait for us to breakup.. then for a close friend to take sloppy seconds from me I would just look down on her 🤣🤣

[Milonaa]

Yes. Not dating or having sex with your friends' exes are a rule.

[kylee2437]

I have had a friend do that to me and I was upset by it simply because she knew me and his history together and still went for it anyways, and he left her for similar reasons I warned her about which is his severe trust issues and his need to act immature when his trust issues kick in. So it does depend on the ex.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you had ever had a friend do that to you, then you would not hesitate to say that it is definitely wrong. If it doesn't make sense you, I cannot logically convince you to develop a sense of empathy.

[jennifer_bloom]

My friends are basically all married if they are the same age as me and if she was childless, not married and dating him, I would be happy for them both and would probably cook them some healthy food and make them some salad.

[Pinay_ako]

Then that meant they already wanted your ex while you were dating… what a friend! They were just waiting in the wings… yea bye 👋

[AviatorTom]

Why would I get mad? My friend and my ex are perfectly capable of living their own lives.

[Avicenna]

No, I'd laugh at his stupidity!

[MizzArtFreak89]

Well I'll probably get a thumbs down for this, but I actually have dated a friend's ex. Yes I know, shame on me and that wasn't my proudest moments. The thing is at first, my friends noticed that he likes me and she had already moved on from him. She told me he was an immature guy and I forgot what else she said. This was back in 2011. I liked him too but I wasn't so sure and I didn't make a move. Plus I wanted to consider her feelings first. She told me she had a new boyfriend at the time and she is over it. Still I didn't ask him out yet and didn't make a move. We all had a group outing and she encouraged me to ask him out and nervously I did. We only dated for three months and that shit didn't last anyways. He did flirt with my friend in front of my face. Again not my proudest moment and I was 21 and did a dumb thing. Just wanted to me open and honest about it. Never again. Just don't do it. I have no sympathy for myself because of what I did and knowing what kind of guy he is. He isn't a bad guy, just wasn't right. Boy was I stupid, but learned from this.

[provokeesmokee]

Depends on the friend and the ex.

My first two ex-bfs, I would be mad at my friends because how could they be so stupid so as not to learn from my mistakes - and I'd be mad they're putting themselves at such risk. My first ex is a cheating coward with no career prospects. My second ex is a loser, completely unreliable, and a manchild in need of a second mother.

My last ex, depending on the friend, I can actually see being happy for both. My ex is a great woman, but she's not the right fit for me - she would be a great partner for someone, and she deserves a great partner in turn. If I knew both as friends, I'd be quite content.

[DizzyDesii]

So glad i dont do friendships anymore. This is why i just do acquaintances now. Everything is up for grabs lmao. I can't be mad at an acquiantance for doing this bullshit because there was no loyalty to begin with. But yea back in HS, i had friends who got with my exes. And i got with their dudes eventually as well. We were not into sharing nor that sister wives shit. Apparently, We just didn't give af about eachothers feelings as much as we thought. The way i see it, I did some things out of revenge. But for the most part, the guy liked me first. If I said no, he went for them. So if im with him later, thats on the girl for getting with what was initially gonna be mine. She knew it would circle back around 🤷‍♀️ I’ve never been a good friend. Never will be. So its best i dont do friendships

[DizzyDesii]

Dont get mad. Get even

[Lliam]

No. If she's my ex, I don't care who she dates. The only reason I would be mad is if she left me for him/he poached her from me. Fortunately, that never happened to me.
But I did have friends date some of my exes after we had already broken up. One of my exes and one of my best friends actually got married a few years later and we remained really good friends.

[Rei13]

My two best friends would never do that to me and one was in a situation where that could’ve happened. She shut it down and told me about it. I have had an ex close friend do that to me however and we are no longer friends. She went behind my back and the friendship dissolved. I might’ve entertained it if there was honest communication but the lying and hiding it was a huge nope from me. I felt more sad about it than angry tho, I thought she was a good person

[Anonymous]

NO😂

My ex is broke. He is living version of Kramer from Seinfeld. He goes years without working, doesn't clean, barely cooks. He walks around in fantasy land getting into weird problems and has sex with different people. Anyone who takes him is gonna need to spend money!

[Adam1978]

Yes it's a bad idea, you will just put strain on that friendship. There is plenty of girls, so skip the exes that your friends has presented to you and actually been together with for a while.

[delilahlovesyou]

If that friend is a very close friend of your’s—someone you keep in contact with a lot, then yes. But if it’s not a close friend, and you guys barely even talk/hang out, then no.

[MemeSupreme]

if she didn't talk to me and like let me know. i don't think she needs my permission, but a heads up would be nice so it doesn't feel snakey

[UniquelyBasic]

I would probably be a little upset but ultimately I think it would be selfish to say they couldn't date each other especially if they are compatible and have a lot of chemistry.

[Dysney1023]

My exes are all wearing some kind of mask. I’d probably not care. But I’d be worried for my friend’s mental health.

[Smiling_Baby21]

If she is my "friend", then she would know better than dating my ex without my knowledge 😂... Get my blessings formally at least

[KingslayerC]

I wouldn't care unless they got married and I had to start seeing my ex again. But if it's just smashing and having fun, why would I care?

[Faith18letsgo]

Me personally I wouldn’t get mad but I’m gay so the communities small so we’re all used to that.

[comekitty]

Would I get mad? No, not even a little. They're exes for a reason.

[iiinsOMNIA]

Maybe not mad, but I'd be a little offended lol but what do I know? I don't have an ex

[integrale77]

Nope they would be free to make whatever mista... er choices they want!

[Fabiloso]

Not if I actually thought they'd be better for eachother

[Bricealan]

Had my best friend fucked my ex and I told his wife, and she did not think he had

[Lauliss]

No, why would I want to control a friend's life? I just wouldn't hang out with that friend at the moment she's gonna go out with my ex (online ex).

[ColHathi]

I don't know. I don't think I would. I might get jealous and sad though, but I don't think it's wrong to date a friend's ex.

[SunnyRS]

No, I won't be mad.
It would be awkward no doubt but they can date anyone they want as long as I am not asked to hang out with my ex because of it.

[Kelly6]

i won't mind if my friend dates my ex. because he's ex.

[TrillXHippy]

Would I get mad 😂? That’s equally just as disrespectful as my brother dating my ex. That’s a problem

[LiamJHayden]

I personally wouldn't but I know I am in the minority on this.

[rideorsleep]

I wouldn't get mad but wouldn't like it either

[msc545]

I would feel sorry for my friend and be afraid for his welfare.

[Buttajah]

Mad, no but it'll put things into perspective for me.

[alicat2358]

If you get permission, then it's fine

[Billlewis]

Now, that's what I love to hear a beautiful woman say -- 'if you get permission, then it's fine'. 🤗

[Aces8]

One good turn deserves another so have at her

[Bigjake1995]

One of my friends fucked my girlfriend without talking to me first

[SnowedIn]

Nope. Go for it.

[exitseven]

No, it would be okay with me.

[lillie_mie]

No, I wouldn't give a hoot about it.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. My last ex is a good guy.

[sheikalana]

Yes, that's disrespectful.

[Drumlin2001]

Good luck to them. I'd feel sorry for them.

[gothbxtch]

it depends on the circumstances

[Amishaxx]

That's kind of disrespectful ngl

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that's not cool.

[Anonymous]

Um and a stranger too. hahaha

[boobliker]

ask them first , then it ok..

[LavLavLuv]

I'd feel bad tbh

[shades777]

be weird to date a sloppy second

[BLP11520]

Probably if it was a real thing

[EaterPeter]

Yes. I would be loosing at least one good person.

[yourloveistoxic]

Yeah I would.

[Miristheiss]

Yes.

[DaddyDiablo]

Yes tf bro code

[dudeinohio]

Nope.

[kc1790]

No id want to watch

[riverrat3]

Nope

[Jmmmfi4]

Um yes

[karekaaaa]

Yess