Why do they have to make so hard?

[Anonymous]

There are bio women that will date the same men that trans women date. I just can’t do it, it makes me uncomfortable and I have no desire to date those men. They make it so hard.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

As a woman, I understand that everyone has their own preferences and comfort levels when it comes to dating. It is important for each individual to determine what they are comfortable with and not push themselves beyond their boundaries. It is also important to recognize that preferences are subjective and personal, and what one person is comfortable with may not be the same for someone else. It is not up to us to judge or criticize others for their preferences, as long as they are respectful towards others and their choices. Ultimately, we all deserve to find love and happiness with someone who accepts and respects us for who we are.

[ColHathi]

Sounds very ChatGPT.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

Wtf is chatGPT lol

[Sabretooth]

Sexuality has become more about perception. Look, I have a crush on a trans girl YouTuber named Miss London. However, if you were to show me a naked picture of say... Buck Angel? I'd report my own damn comment then, get drunk. Biologically, Angel is a female... Good luck finding a straight male that's attracted to him.

[Asker]

A woman is a adult human female. I was not talking about buck angel, I know that buck Angel is a biological female. I am a biological female…a bio woman. And these men need to upfront about what they because I am not dating no man that has dated transwomen

[Sabretooth]

So, this was more about a rant and not so much you wanted to understand. Sounds like insecurity... As are the men who ate showing "gay"... That's usually a good indication that they are trans-attracted.

[Asker]

I am not insecure, I know what I want and don’t want. It’s the fact that I am am not about be dating makes that date males. I rather for the man to be upfront…give me a chance to decide if I want to continue on with that transattracted…. which my answer would be a hell no.

[Sabretooth]

And that's probably why they won't be upfront with you.

[Asker]

They should be upfront, people get rejected everyday

[Sabretooth]

they don't wanna be judged. less of a concern with your gender... that is often blind in regards to picking men... something that you share with trans girls.

[Asker]

I get that they don’t want want to be judge, but I can refuse to give my body to a man that lays down with transwomen. I only date males (not transmen) who only date females (not transwomen). If a man dates them, they are not straight.. they are bisexual and I don’t date bisexual men.. they have a little bit of unicorn in them somewhere.

[Sabretooth]

I used to think the sme thing. a bisexual man would also be open to trans men.

[Sabretooth]

Same

[ComradeCarabao]

@Sabretooth Miss London is absolutely gorgeous, bro.

[Sabretooth]

@ComradeCarabao I heard that.

[richardcory]

Is the issue that you are worried you will not know the biological gender of the person you are dating? That does seem like something people should indicate. Its fine for people to identify however they want, but many people are only attracted to one physical gender, so they need to know.

[Lliam]

A heterosexual man wouldn't date a "trans"woman. A bisexual man would.
So, as a heterosexual woman who wants a heterosexual man, your feelings are totally valid.

[slatyb]

Why does this bother you? Hey few men date transwomen.

[Asker]

Because if I am dating a man and he tells that he also date transwomen, I would turned off and I would stop dating him in a quickness. I don’t care if you call me transphobic, I don’t want to date the same men that date transwomen. I don’t want the same dick that has been in them. And there are a lot of men that date transwomen. The same dudes that being talking to the transwomen, be trying to get at me…no thank you…

[ComradeCarabao]

@slatyb That's changing though, dude. As time moves along, trans women are becoming increasingly sought after by heterosexual men.

[ComradeCarabao]

I guess you better get used to it, because society is changing very fast, and the number of heterosexual men choosing trans women is increasing rapidly. Sorry... 🔸😈🔸

[DextroShade]

If you are a dude dating transwomen that makes you GAY!

[ColHathi]

I'm not sure I follow. Who's making what hard?

[Asker]

Men…males make it so hard

[DarkWinterNights]

Who’s “they”? And how?

[Asker]

Men who claim to be straight. I don’t care if anyone calls me transphobic, I don’t want to date men that also date Transwomen. And if I date man and I find out that he dated transwomen, I would not stick around, we would be done.

[DarkWinterNights]

Fair enough. I’m sure it’s definitely a little awkward if you bring it up during a date. I don’t think there are that many guys who are into that though.

[Sabretooth]

many are. it's pretty popular.

[OddBeMe]

Who makes it hard? Trannies? Can’t tell the diff?

[Asker]

Males period. I don’t want a bisexual man

[OddBeMe]

You shouldn’t have to date one. Are they hard to tell apart?