I've been on about 6 dates with this guy and things are progressing. im worried though he's getting bored/ seeing other women. should I pull back?

[Anonymous]

we speak every day, almost constantly and when were together we genuinely have the BEST time, chemistry and just laugh. but I can't help but think maybe I should be "playing it a little cooler" or trying to I dunno just pull back? or is that all silly and should I just keep letting things naturally happen and run the risk of him losing interest?

[_Maya_]

If there is no indication he is bored or things are changing it may just be in your own head. It is easy to overthink things and worry. Just try to match his level in the relationship. Let him lead things a bit. That will not only ensure that he is putting forth the effort but will give you some peace of mind.

[Asker]

This is great. yes I agree. ill give it a go x

[_Maya_]

Nice! Good luck to you.

[strateguy632]

let things go natural considering you enjoy being together laughing etc.

[boggboss]

How would he not lose intrest now if u randomly started to play it cool

[Asker]

true. i just mean , if I stay "this" interested will he start to expect it and get bored

[boggboss]

If u are past the starting stages and things are progressing to more then no he shouldn't but then again that's a flip of the coin u guys are not exclusive so he could be dating someone else and find them better

[Anonymous]

You should play it cool anyway. Never get your hopes up with a man, just give it time and see how it plays out.

[LostandFound__x]

How long has it been?

[Asker]

about a month

[LostandFound__x]

I’d say give it another month or two