I had a crush on this guy I met online through common friend. He lives in another country, we texted a bit before finally meeting. Here are a few points that make me doubt if he is trustable:
On first date, he mentioned he wanted to go visit the country/hometown of a girl he dated in the past. (He is quite a traveller and also mentioned wanting to visit countries of few other friends, so I thought he did that for all friends?)
A Few months later, he did take that trip to visit that girl he dated. But.. he went on this trip with a female coworker (who has a boyfriend by the way).
He wrote a detailed blog of this trip where he mentioned how they took a guided tour on the first day and how he loved the tour and the female guide (ahem). And he wrote everyone should take that tour with this same guide to make it extra special.
Then he met another girl in a shared cab, this girl was on a camping trip there. He wrote he felt like "meeting an old friend" when he met this girl.
And he wrote how he the female coworker went for dinner and how the smile on her face while eating her favourite food was memorable for him.
WHAT IS UP WITH THIS GUY?
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Some people are like that. They love people and they find a connection with everyone they meet, male or female.
They typically have many friends of both sexes and can't live without human interaction. They also love to travel.
I avoid people like this, because they're weird and dating them will bring you constant worries like the ones you're having now.
I don't think it makes him untrustworthy, but you'll certainly be dodging a bullet if you move on
The thing is, he has never had a serious long term relationship. What is the point of so many connections if you're heart cannot be in one place?
Exactly, and that's part of it. They can't settle down!
They love bouncing around from one place to the next.
He probably can't keep a relationship because he drives them crazy after a while. Either that or he always wants something new and exciting.
I suggest you find a man who's a little more low key. This dude will drive you up the wall if you're not the same way
That dude sounds super emotionally.
How can the female coworker go on a trip with while she has a boyfriend.
people these days...
He must be gay or something