Why don't they write to me on a dating site (bumble Germany)?

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Why don't they write to me on a dating site?(bumble in Germany)

How many times I've tried to find communication or a have just a date on a dating site and I got zero results.

I put cute photos, not vulgar, not too sexy, not boring, not stupid but those which show my individuality, authenticity, openness, femininity.

I am a young woman with no children, no previous marriages, no tattooes, etc. Blue eyes, fit. I love music, humor, sports, and it would seem that there are many reasons to talk to me, many topics, many approaches. Well, NO ONE writes to me even if we get a match. When I write hello, they don’t even answer me, is it bots, are they fake profiles or is it my aura?

Now im living in Germany, working on my surroundings in my way (offline included) , thr same problem i had when i lived in Ukraine ( on tinder, badoo apps..)

[Nik1hil]

Don't use dating app, unless you pay for it!..

Those algorithms are toxic..

Instead meet people in real life, go to the kind of man you want..

Want a wise one, Go to library.

A strong one go to gym or a boxing or sports club.

Tell me the kind of man you want and I will guide you..

You won't find the man you want, but find one who has potential to grow into that person.. So have patience and nurture them to grow into the person you want!..

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I think your advice is wise and makes sense. Thank you. I agree , first, he can be not a perfect, its a human , but this connection should has a potential. I will write you for guidance if it's needed, its nice you have offered me so.

[molonski2]

Well what can I say , they are complete idiots , but in reality they probably are not using and checking the app , it only works well if you log in , Surely they would want to try and take you out?

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I'm speaking from few months experience not from a few hours. Its not working for me anyway

[molonski2]

Im speaking from a long period of time also , either on the app or not , it makes a difference.

[Anonymous]

My best guesses would be that they either think you are fake / a scammer or that you are trying to punch above your weight and Chad Thundercock isn't into you.

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a person who operates in the terminology of the incels, like a chadThunder, has no right at all to even speak to me or to answer here. So go to hell stupid old nerd

[Opinion Owner]

Weird, I wonder what the problem is?

[RealMarek]

Are you paying for the premium version? If not you’ll be hard pressed to get results.

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Is this really working when it's paid? I never thought it is

[RealMarek]

I found that the dating sites don’t really work unless one has the premium subscription.

[DrKrieger]

Most strat for guys is to swipe right on everyone then filter the matches.

Maybe you are not your type's type?

[Blueeyes81]

Using bumble you must open the conversation and hello is a terrible way to start out. Try leading with a question. Gives the person a topic to start from and you'll get more results.

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Baby, if a MAN don't lead its not man! If this shit don't even answer me? Haha do you think I'm weak low self-esteemed girl with no self respect to do concert Infront of this arrogant shit?

[Blueeyes81]

Then get off of bumble and try one where the guy initiates, not the woman. You asked why, I gave you a reason why you possibly aren't getting a response.

[barn_stormer]

29 is kinda old.

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Have you seen yourself in the mirror?

[barn_stormer]

lol don't hate just cuz you're old

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Fat old Chinese shit go and eat your chicken legs dirty yellow

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Haha have you seen your small old weak Dick? Asian and sad incel, 40y. o incel