What does “baby mama/daddy” really mean?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It means it was either planned or wasn't

And if it wasn't that 5-minute communication of protecting each other would have came in handy right before the situation because the odds are both parents are going to struggle for a while which means that the baby struggles

But if it was planned and no matter what happens you have 9 months to prepare yourself
And get things ready for the baby hopefully in that 9 months you either find yourself very quickly because if you don't you will

You reflect back on how you were raised you picked the good things throw away the bad things

And you promise yourself that you will never act like your parents that you will have patience you will be a teacher a guide. And no matter how hard it is that child will become better than you

That child will be taken care of Will be Loved will be safe will be healthy will be kind will know the difference from wrong and right

You will gain insight and understand that words alone do not teach a child anything it's your actions it's the things that you don't know you do in front of your children that teaches them so you have to be aware they listen to everything
They see everything and whether you believe it or not you are their God you are their hero they want to be just like you so you don't lie you don't cheat you

You teach them unconditional love patience you teach them how to handle themselves by the way you handle yourself when things happen you teach how to treat people by the way you talk to people

And you understand 24 hours a day is a teaching moment and they are learning

Can you teach them when they do something wrong it can be fixed it can be repaired there's a lesson about it there's no need to yell or scream there's no reason to hit and there's no reason to make it about yourself you make it about that child you don't have to take away things you don't have to threaten you don't have to put in time out
You stay calm and if anything you give them more responsibility

One of the most important is unconditional love they miss the way feel that no matter what

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

Baby daddy was originally used for a male who got a woman pregnant and bailed. He was not responsible enough to be called a man or a father.

The woman who used the term was just as irresponsible for allowing it to happen. She used the term "baby father" to normalize it and pretend it's no big deal to be completely irresponsible.

Since then, it's use has broadened and used by some people for any biological father or mother.

MysticAngel5000 · Accepted Answer

Pretty much it is a way for single parents to refer to the person they had their child with. They may be civil co-parents or one may totally be out of the picture.

If a guy is calling a girl his baby mama, it usually means she's the girl he got pregnant either intentionally or accidentally. They are not together as a couple, but they do share a kid together because you can't exactly change that. He likely won't regret having the baby, but he may very well regret who the mother is. It goes the same way with a girl calling a guy her baby daddy.

If anyone is still messing with their baby mama/baby daddy when they are supposed to be single, it isn't a good sign. If they've separated from the other parent, they need to keep it that way and focus on being civil co-parents providing they are both fit parents. Otherwise, they need to avoid getting involved with anyone else if they aren't sure they really want to stay separated from the other parent.

_SillyShoes_ · Accepted Answer

Can be both, right?

MrOracle · Answer

It means the biological parents of a child, where those parents were never committed to each other and both incredibly irresponsible.

Anonymous · Answer

It can be both sometimes used as a kinky term.

Wife is pregnant right now and she likes teasing me about being her baby's daddy but also wanting a three some!

Which she always wants when pregnant we have tried a few and always love them.

One time I became her bestys baby daddy and she was so happy!

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I see it as a negative term. Baby daddy, someone who is unfit to be a father but is the biological parent.

Jersey2 · Answer

It means you’re trashy if you use those terms.

chicken_nugget24 · Answer

When you and your ex have a baby together. People call them baby mamas mainly

exitseven · Answer

It really describes people that are not mature enough or responsible enough to have children.

Anonymous · Answer

Using that expression means you are either ghetto or ghetto wannabe.

Iron_Man · Answer

To be a great parent to be a role model to take care of the child

Minahh · Answer

I always associate this with single moms/dads speaking about the person they had the baby with

Christoff92 · Answer

Baby mama/dada means the baby's mother or father. It's just a nickname.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a derogatory or at least disrespectful term. So typically it means not together but it can be together but still disrespectful.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

It means skank who let a random go balls deep.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Fuckin around devolved into a lame term. Lol @chicken_nugget24 is a like mama!

Littlejugs99 · Answer

The other parent of your child or children

MementoMori777 · Answer

the mother or father of the child

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I've often wondered the same thing!

fonduegirl · Answer

Biological co parent

Jazzy54 · Answer

The mother or father of the child (ren).

Blueeyes81 · Answer

In reality it means poor choices.

shades777 · Answer

mean exactly how it sound

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