Is it normal to be undecided on who I want as my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I've been double dating for some time and both of them have recently asked for an official relationship.

They don't know each other but since neither are my boyfriend yet, it's not cheating. I care about and like both of them. Both sound great. It's sad I can only select one and I'll have to drop the other one. Is it normal to be undecided between two guys?

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Neither of them know I've been double dating.

[Anonymous]

It's normal. You could test them both by trying to find out who's planning to be with you permanently and who's looking for you to satisfy their temporary pleasures. Then you can know who's right for you. And friendzone the other so that you won't break his heart

[Asker]

Ok I'll do that.

[Opinion Owner]

Does it work?

[Anonymous]

It isn't uncommon for women to have options with dating. They are the ones who are usually being pursued.

[Asker]

True. It's hard to decide when both are great. I feel bad for the one I'll have to reject.

[Billlewis]

I think this is fairly common, and I wish you the best of luck.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[DrKrieger]

That's for you to decide, but I hope they both find out about eachother.

[Jazzy54]

Who do you like the most?

[Asker]

I like them both.

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, neither one of them. If you can’t decide which one, neither. I can see this getting very messy. Even though they don’t know each other, it’s not fair that you’re doing this to them.

[Anonymous]

Have you had sex with one or both of them already?

[Asker]

Well there were sexual activities. The 69 position with one guy and the other one went down on me (not sure what's it called when guy goes down on us) so I guess that can count as sex?

[Billlewis]

Have you had either of them go down on you after you've just had sex with the other guy? I think that's so incredibly hot.

[Opinion Owner]

Some people "automatically" assume that you are dating them exclusively if you get sexual with them.

[Xawyx-2]

I guess it's normal for you.