Started talking to this guy that I work with a few months ago and he messaged me saying he wanted to get to know me. So we went out to an arcade and I went over to his place several times and spent time with him. But lately, it’s been a pattern of me coming over every now and then and then me not hearing from him unless I reach out to him. Like this past Sunday I went to hang out with him and haven’t heard from him since. And even at work (we work in food service), I would see him talking to some other chick that comes by to get food multiple times even though she has a boyfriend. I don’t know if he lost interest but what I do know is that I don’t deserve this. I’m ready to let this guy go and it’s been weighing heavy on my mind to confront him about it. What should I do?
Should I call him out on ghosting me or just cut him off?
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Very glad that your conscience is telling you to let him go. A lot of people will think they can somehow fight to keep someone's attention who is ghosting them, and it doesn't work.
Yes, absolutely let him go and don't confront him about it at all. He knows absolutely well what he's doing is wrong, and by you going radio silent on him, he will realize it even more. And he probably will try to reach out to you at some point, but would that be what you want? What he is showing you right now is very valuable knowledge about him as a person, and you don't want somebody like that. Keep things hello-goodbye at work, and nothing more.
I agree with what you’re saying but I feel like I should express how I’m feeling
I mean, you can. If it will make you feel a lot better then go ahead and confront him.
Don't talk to him.
Actually my advice is to hang out with someone else in front of his eyes at that time he will think a lot about what he lost..
Good luck 🍀