Why do people say “women like taken men” why do people not say “men like taken women”?

[Anonymous]

Sounds dumb to me, why would women like someone who is taken?

[Exterminatore]

Because a taken man has been rubber stamped by one woman already as being acceptable, where as the jury is still out on most untaken men. There are there for viewed with suspicion, after all if they were worth a crap someone would have snatched them up.


The sisterhood approves of the decisions of other members of the sisterhood when they’re not busy being catty with each other.


This is how many women, but not all think.


Also so like to compete, and get validation by wrestling away someone else’s man. The validation comes from him leaving his current girl. This means to her she’s got the goods and the proof is in the pudding.


It’s best to simply understand most women, like 98% of them are a 4 year old trapped in an adult body. They emotionally reason and if they in fact decide they want to feel a particular way for arbitrary they match their emotions to what they want to feel. If they want to be angry that day, and be a bitch because they are insecure and want to appear strong, they make themselves feel angry, even for no good reason.


Please oh please all ye white knights, come unto me and tell me how much of a sexist I am so that I may properly educate you.


Only in the west have we managed to indoctrinate men to such a degree as to what is readily apparent is to be ignored regarding the nature of women and has been replaced with the lie that women are all virtuous and the same as men and in fact equal to them. They are not the same as men. The quality of sameness must be met to qualify for the status of equality. No sameness then no equality. Only in the west have we convinced many of not most men their male nature and tendencies are bad. That masculinity is bad. That it’s toxic nearly by virtue of its nature alone. Now we have nearly all women in society, and half of them have a penis, as todays males are not men at all but women with a penis and tiny pair of balls.

[Lenanolena]

This is just your opinion not a fact

[Exterminatore]

It’s fact.

[Lenanolena]

You are deranged oh god

[Exterminatore]

Whatever you say baby. Go bother the other guys and gals who also asserted to this fact.

[Exterminatore]

I mean, I get it. You hate women. Can’t blame you. I’d be embarrassed to be a woman too if I thought this way. Doesn’t speak highly for your sex.

So I get it, you gotta down play it because collectively it make all of you look childish and immature.

It is what it is cupcake.

[Lenanolena]

Only fools would agree with you with insulting women and comparing them to kids.

[Exterminatore]

I get it. You’re but hurt because this is one of the less gratifying behaviors of your sex.

[Lenanolena]

Men literally act like toddlers

[Exterminatore]

And you’re a sexist on top of it.

[MrOracle]

It's called pre-selection: women see a man that has been chosen by another woman and that says to her, "this guy must have good things about him because he was able to get HER." And now SHE wants him too - and not always because she likes him in particular, but often because some other woman has him and she's jealous.

(Hint: marketers exploit this exact behavior to get people, but women in particular, to buy things, especially expensive/luxury items.)

Women place more value in a man who can get other women than one who can't. That's why most women don't actually care about a man's body count (yes, a few do care), because most women want a man that other women consider to be high value, even if they don't know why.

Most men don't work that way, at least for women they would commit to. Men strongly prefer to commit to women who have low body counts and who will remain loyal, and being with another man is a negative, not a positive.

[sheikalana]

I'm a psychologist to tell you why but there is some true to this. A lot of women find taken man more attractive just because they're taken. It's a really f*cked up concept but this has been happening since forever. I guess women tend to be more jealous of what others have while men don't usually have that type of jealousy in them.

[sheikalana]

I meant to say I'm NOT a psychologist. Apologies for the typo.

[Bricealan]

My experience says you are correct.

[OlderAndWiser]

Probably for the same reasons that some men like women who are taken.

[Inbox]

@OlderAndWiser No, there were studies actually done on this and women DEFINITELY get turned on by men who are in relationships or have women around him because half the work is done - in short, if other women approve him, then odds are she will too. It’s all evolutionary type selection, but there’s always going to be exceptions.

I can personally attest to this because every time I’m with my female friends or out with my girlfriend or on dates, women have always gotten more interested in me. It’s terrifying, especially if she looked like my ex or current girlfriend 🧐

[Exterminatore]

@inbox

Quite correct sir. Well said. This has been my subjective experience also.

[ChadHelpsBros]

Hey bro, it's a dumb sentiment because it's making a generalization about women's preference. It implies that women are more attracted to men who are in a relationship than those who are single. This may be true for some women, but it's a stereotype and not always accurate.

Likewise, some women may like taken men because they perceive the man to be more confident, stable, and trustworthy if he's already committed to someone else. It can also provide the sense of security that the man has already been vetted and approved by another woman. But it's a dumb concept, bro.

[Exterminatore]

“It’s a dumb sentiment because it’s making a generalization about women’s preferences.”

For a self proclaimed Chad you ought to know this generalization is true.

The truth is, you’re no Chad and haven’t been laid in 5 years. Isn’t that right?

[Lenanolena]

@Exterminatore you sound butthurt lol

[Exterminatore]

No butt hurt here. Just calling what I see.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

I don't know, wht world u been living in Chad.

[EricSummer]

When it come to dating and procreation, men and women are not the same. For a woman, the most important task is to find a man who is a committed partner and stays with her for the long term. This is important to ensure her kids have a father so they can bring them up jointly.

A taken man appears capable of attachment which is already great. If a different woman desires him that's also a quality indicator. It depends a bit how hot that other woman is herself.

At the minimum this strategy helps avoid the complete losers who would never be a suitable partner to any woman.

When you are single, your sister or a female friend could also give you that seal of approval to be "suitable for women". My sister used to be very helpful as a wingwoman a couple of times.

[Exterminatore]

When it comes to literally everything except having 2 arms and 2 legs women are not the same as men.

[ChiTown33]

Because guys are smarter in this area. A guy knows even if he was to get that woman the only thing she's shown to him is that she has no loyalty. If she would dump her current boyfriend for this guy, I promise you she wouldn't think twice about dumping this guy for some other guy as well.

You never pursue a woman already in a relationship. Any guy worth his salt knows that.

[AlphaMale1]

Some women want that forbidden fruit she knows she will never keep.

[DannyUk2017]

I would like to meet that woman that likes taken men..."don't know what u talking about"...

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Bc, it's not known in the nature of Women.

The Women, we (men) like that way, are the ones known as "hoez".( These "type" got more than a fork can hold. And How Many b's can't even get 1!.)

[barn_stormer]

it's called preselection. guys aren't like that because we view it as a hassle if she has a boyfriend already

[Pyrofox]

Cause its the women chasing the men.

[spartan55]

Look around this forum.

[Provingdatruth]

Women like to see thrills that’s why.