Sorry if this seems shallow but what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy, we have been on a few dates but he is overweight so I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I’ve seen pictures of him when he was not overweight and I believe I would have been sexually attracted to him if he still was that weight. I really like his personality and we talk like we have known each other forever. I am just worried about sexual attraction. He has mentioned he wants to lose weight but I don’t know if I should bring it up again? Or how I can tell him the truth lightly..

[tzdc21]

At least he says he wants to lose it as opposed to not wanting to at all. Just be very very careful about how you bring it up.

[_piotr]

It's normal. Talk to him. Support him in loosing weight.

[ShesRad80]

best way would be put yourself in his shoes. how would you like for it to be brought up to you?

[SnowedIn]

This. Wisdom.

[ShesRad80]

@SnowedIn 💕💕✌

[_piotr]

I would be happy that she encourages me to fight with obesity and that there is a way for me to be attractive to her.

[Anonymous]

How overweight is he?