be irl or online i think only few can like me for who i really am one example if that is my ex. i think i'm just vulgar i dk if that's the right term but i'm unpretentious and i don't think a lor of men would like that. and i think that's maybe positive in a wsy because i'm already showinh who i am. there's no false advertisement. but on the other hand it's also a negative because dating is still a matter of attraction that's why a lot of oeople give their best foot forward in the beginninh. but i choose the former because it's tirinh to pretend and just not my thinh
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I think getting to know someone over text let alone an app is tactless but kudos to the people who make it work for them. Online dating can be convenient but I much rather meet someone in person and hear their voice and experience their body language. With online dating all that nuance you get in person is removed, it feels robotic and interpretation is often misconstrued. We're all interpreting text in our own voices so our sense of people on let's say an app like hinge is more or less incorrect. I think most people online date because they're afraid of putting themselves out there or they're looking for evidence that they're superficially attractive which is fine but ultimately I think a waste of time.
All the online Dating these days are done by AI/BOTS so maybe in a site is about 10% rral people, rest are BOTS or Men, and the Biggest Scam of all is that WE STILL PAY, in the hope that we will Chat to someone, even if we see that is all fake, they are Consumer Entertainment and We are Glued to it! So i'm done with the Dating sites for good!
The best is that it's a convenient way to get in contact with new people. The worst is that they want to do the swipe system often. People don't take the time to read profiles. Just "boobies! Nice hips! LIKE." And then surprised you don't want to hook up. No time for connection building, but they want a relationship.
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Online getting to know someone is a filter before actually doing RL dating. It might save some time. But I see it as a prequel.
If it continues for too long, it can't go very far. You need a real life connection and regular interaction for a relationship to progress.
The best part of online dating is finding perfect women (women who look very attractive and share all my hobbies, interests, and views).
The worst part is reading that they all live in other countries, because the good ones here are rare and get taken too early do to the US culture of "don't be picky" and "breed when young".The majority of the many and many guys I dated and mated with were offline through my life. However, Online, I was able to do it in the comfort of my own home. It panned out if I was interested. The downfall was if I would decide to show up on the date or if it ended up to be a LDR, Would I stay and work it out?
Just my personal experience and why I gave up on the concept.
Best: still wondering
Worst: This was representative of the best of my matches.t
Be aware that not everyone they posted online is true. Some of it are fake so if I we're you choose to wise at all times. If you will meet someone choose the public place for your own safety.
However not everyone in dating apps are fraud I met my SO online and still we're still together.Online dating is just entertainment to me. I don't think of it in terms of good and bad. My advice to any guy doing online dating is take anything any woman says on there with a grain of salt and any woman you meet on thier chase it with a shot of penicillin.😆😆😆
The best part is that the other person doesn´t get to see me uncomfortable.
The worst part is that sometimes women delete a match the moment I match them or they get ghost without a reason.The worst part is the follow through. The conversation could be right, you could be attracted to the girl, she's expressing interest, but you talk yourself out of going because you have low energy left to give a new relationship what it needs to take off.
Worst: lots of weirdos and guys only looking for a hookup and not a relationship.
Best: once you filter out the above, there are actually decent people on there.I am no longer dating, online or offline. I have taken a break.
the best parts are it can be used for science experiments
People are more confident behind their screens, and they could be very awkward in person. They can look better/worse in photos than in person. The only good thing personally is it helps with boredom, nothing more serious than that.
best part is you can set your preferences
wirst part the app dont give a dam and will still give you a woman 6'3" with 10 kids whos with chest tattoos whos ready for loveYou can't show you true emotions and neither can they.
You can't hear there voice/tones.
You can't see the body language as they communication.
Typos which make look bad at communicating.
Probably a few more...Catfishing and it's hard to guess a person's personality.
Never getting matches. They do not talk much or answer. I gave up on that long time ago . Fake profiles , host profiles.
Worst part: you match yourself based on age and normally, after 30, women look like your mom. When you go for someone younger, they call "ewwww".
Online dating attracts the absolute worst of the worst.
Nothings good and it’s all bad. Been single for ten years, happily enjoying my solitude
there's litterally no good part about it.
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