Why did this guy I was with keep putting his hand on my throat?

[Anonymous]

Not in a choking way he just put his hand there? Just wondering

[Alli39]

Are we talking about sex or something else? If it's sex then is might just be a weird personal preference thing. If it didn't make you uncomfortable then don't worry about it. (And you can always ask him if you're curious/concerned.)

[Asker]

No we didn't do that

[Alli39]

No frickin clue then. That's a little weird and I'm lowkey having trouble picturing how someone can manage to do that casually in a non-sexual context.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe he was putting it there to see if you'd respond the way that women who DO like to be choked usually hint at it if they're too shy to say it, but putting your hand over his and squeezing. Maybe he liked feeling your pulse speed up and intensify overall as you climaxed. Maybe he was trying to keep a swarm of mosquitos off you. What was the context for his actions?

[madhatters4]

during sex, at dinner, when he was trying to kill you?

could you provide more background?

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you should ask him.

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but that's kinda weird

[Jazzy54]

What were you doing? Having sex?

[Wise4myage]

He might be a psycho.

[Luckycharms12]

Clearly turned him on doing it